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I would like to ask you some questions? Are your parents, Latino, Asian or African? That makes a lot of difference. The more conservative the culture the more difficult it will be for you. If that is the case. I would just drop it until you are older and can support yourself. Then bring it up again. the practice of the SDA church is not in question it is very good. makes the best spiritual environment I have ever been in. so it will not kill you to worship and do what SDA's Do. Second, don't confuse, teaching with practice. people consistently do that. Third. Relax, God will take care of your parents. timing is everything with them. They may not be ready. your parents are trying to do what God wants they best they know how. you can't fault them for that. It is not your job to change them. Fourth, Adventism is not all wrong. That is a lie, ex sda's tell. There are good SDA church's were you can have a good spiritual life. They usually are the bigger ones. depending on your location I would look for a big one in your area. Fifth. You are too young to be dealing with these issues. I hate to say it. you don't have a track record. That does not mean you should not learn them, making decision about marriage, before you are even old enough to be married. it is all hypothetical with you. you need to focus on becoming what God made you to be and do in this world not on imaginary situations. You will cross that bridge when you come to it. It is like a nine year old worring about what he is going to be when he grows up. He needs to stop worring about that and just be a nine year old. you are 18. When I was 18 I was in boarding school, worried if this or that girl liked me, focused on home work and keeping out of trouble. You need to focus on preparing on College or a Vocation. The Answers will come in time. If you push to hard you may loose your faith all together. If the situation opens up to talk about it then take the oppertunity and no more. don't dump on them every thing you've learned. Sixth, There are Sunday Churches that have Saturday services try one of those. If you live near an SDA College or Bording School try there. They are usually more open.Thank you so much for your reply. It is very hard for me. It's very conflicting also. I am proud to be brought up in my SDA faith because it really has taught me discipline. I'm not seeking to find errors of Adventism, I try my hardest to see the right in every circumstance, unlike many people. I just want to establish a stronger relationship with Christ, no matter what denomination. It's just that it is leaning towards that abusive side with my family. It is like they will only love me if I'm Adventist, to go as far and tell me that I'm not allowed to marry anyone who isn't an Adventist, still telling me that at 18 years old. I can tell you from my sister's experience, she could not live in my house anymore because she was not adventist. The situation with my parents have brought her away from God and I want to get her back. My parents don't even keep communication with her anymore, and it has been 2 years since I've seen her. (I'm aware not every single Adventist family is like that). It hurts so bad that I'm separated from the rest of believers despite denominations, that worship on Sunday (or keep Sunday as the sabbath), or that don't even go to church; but their faith is so strong in christ. Real hard.
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