At any rate, what do you think. Is being tempted itself a sin?
There are a couple of things - I think it's important to distinguish between Sin Action and Sin Nature.
Some things, I am not tempted by. If someone mistakenly leaves a $20 bill on a table with me, gets up and walks away, I'm not tempted to take it and hide it and not tell them about it. It's theirs and I call their attention to it. Bully for me!
But... this could be largely conditional. I'm not broke or starving; I have plenty of $20 bills of my own. If I had been unemployed for 2 years and was having coffee with someone who I thought had plenty of $20 bills of their own, and the same thing happened, it's possible the outcome might be different.
There are things that I AM tempted by though and there are sins that I do commit;
I think temptation itself is not a weakness, but it exposes where the areas of weakness are.
Power, Money, Sex are the big traditional areas. Most people might laugh at an offer for 2 out of those 3, but say "ok let's talk a little more" about an offer for 1 of them
The offer is the temptation
It's the "ok let's talk a little more" that's the Sin-Nature which is interested in having something in this area in a way that is not appropriate
And then it's the Sin when the deal is struck.
But it's really the Sin-Nature that's the problem
As that is lessened, temptations that once were are no longer
I think it's possible to go through life without committing any of what we would consider grevious sins (like murder)
But having developed a Sin-Nature that is murderous (and probably, hopefully, pretty frustrated lol)
Not a good idea!
I think a man who commits a murder in a moment of rage is
probably in better shape spiritually than a man who meditated on one for years and never did. The same thing for adultery. "the opportunity to do it without consequence never presented itself, so I never did it" is not the same thing as "God said this was not to be done, therefore, I chose not to think about doing it. I have been given better things to think on"
If God is truly Lord God, then isn't Sin at its heart an act of treachery?
So it's a problem of the heart, I think and not the action
Or the mind
Whose thoughts come
From the Heart
To paraphrase Christ roughly, "the actions are forgiven, the heart must be changed"
I think that happens dramatically, miraculously for some in some areas
And for others, or for others in other areas, it's a process of a lifetime that He guides us through
If we want Him to.