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When I grow out leg and armpit hair I feel manly, so is it wrong to shave it?


For your first post on CF this is rather odd. By the way welcome to CF, and enjoy your self!

Now to answer your question. If this was a woman asking this I would say, in some countries this is acceptable. However my bride shaves and she is nice to touch and smell. I think men shaving their arm pits is fine, as hair does add to smell, so instead of having a sticky arm pit with sticky DO, maybe shaving is good. But you would have to hog tie me to get my legs shaved, that is strictly a woman's thing!

But this was a really stupid thing to ask.
 
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I'm going to answer a question WITH a question.

Why would shaving ever be a sin in the first place? I don't understand...
Under the Mosaic Law it was a sin because the Israelites had entered a covenant with God in which they promised to abide by everything that God commanded. So if he commanded that they should not shave and they did-that would have been disobedience or a breach of the Covenant and therefor a sin.

 
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Growing up in the 50s and 60s, most churches taught it was a sin to have any facial hair. Or hair on top of your head longer than about 2".

why, for pete's sake? how is deforming nature 'moral'?

this stuff never stops fascinating and appalling me
 
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He designed us with hair. Isn't that enough?
 
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Wow, friendly to the new folk much?

Meantime, it's a really good question, and the sort of thing not asked nearly enough. If no one ever stops to think through these little daily actions, it can add up to a lifetime of 'sin'. While I'm not a believer, and use the word sin out of regard for the context, if we corrupt nature for reasons of vanity, then we are on a bad path - gods or no gods. Sometimes we need these incisive points made.
 
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He designed us with hair. Isn't that enough?
If you were a gentile it was enough.
There were also Nazarites who were under special vows of conduct like Samson.


 
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I was under the impression that god designed all of us - not just a couple of tribes in the middle east. Am I mistaken?

Try Googing it! There is loads of neat info on the subject.
 
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Cool story, Bro, as the kids say.

But what does it have to do with shaving? All of us were designed with hair - regardless of various tribal mores on hair management.
 
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When I grow out leg and armpit hair I feel manly, so is it wrong to shave it?
The basic assumption you're going on is that you 'feel manly' when you grow out your body hair, yet also feel that it is must be a sin to shave because (I'm assuming you also feel) that would be vanity or something. It's as if you are going under the impression that you think God wants you to look and feel miserable (i.e. the denim jumper syndrome). You first need to understand that your body image issues of 'feeling manly' with your natural body hair are cultural beauty standards that you've internalized. The question should be if you're willing to buck the modern cultural trend and go au natural or capitulate to the standards (according to your preference and for no other reasons)? I would also ask you where the scriptures talk about women doing either? It's a non-issue, as neglecting to do so doesn't imply a lack of vanity nor does doing so imply that you are.
 
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The question should be if you're willing to buck the modern cultural trend and go au natural or capitulate to the standards .

This is the more important question, I agree.

I would hope that some young women in places which have standardised a perverted natural female form (via hairlessness etc) have the moxie to buck the trend and break down these 'standards'.

Again though, it's not about whether you shave, it's about not minding either way. It becomes a problem, both for the OP and society in general, when the natural female is seen as an unpleasant aberration. Adults ought to be as comfortable with body hair as they are with hairlessness.
 
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