Is Oral Sex ok in Marriage?

[Armistead]

Do you believe that oral sex is ok inside of marriage? Or is just the basic intercourse way the only acceptable way within marriage?

If oral sex was a women talking too much, then it would
be sin for sure..

I agree with most...as long as both agree, then there is no sin. In fact, both partners should do all they can to
give their partner pleasure.

 

[Gukkor]

It's fine. Personally, while I think there are many areas in sexuality which can be unclear from a moral standpoint, I'm pretty much positive that within a loving marriage between two consenting adults, any sexual activity is fine.

 

[dayhiker]

I agree with those that area saying if a couple both are comfortable with oral sex its fine.

I don't see anything disgusting as long as people are bathing. Yes, even a kiss when one hasn't brushed heir teeth can be unpleasant. So lets keep clean

dayhiker

 

[Digit]

Actually talking of kissing, if people think oral sex is unhygenic, you really don't want to know what goes on when two people kiss... it will put you off. >_>

Digit

 

[HuntingMan]

Actually talking of kissing, if people think oral sex is unhygenic, you really don't want to know what goes on when two people kiss... it will put you off. >_>

Digit

Boy thats the truth.
The human mouth is probably one of the more disgusting parts of our bodies.

 

[united4Peace]

Encarta® World English Dictionary

fornication (for·ni·ca·tion) noun 1. consenting sex involving somebody unmarried: sexual intercourse between two consenting adults who are not married to each other


2. sexual behavior considered immoral: in the Bible, sexual intercourse between a man and woman who are not married, or any form of sexual behavior considered to be immoral

Who's to say whether someone is married though?
I mean I dont really believe a piece of paper is what makes a marriage...
I personally (my own opinion here) believe that a couple can be together out of love and respect and take vows to stay together whereas many who run to a Church or JP end up divorced within months or a couple of yrs.

Ive been with my husband for 17 yrs...13 married with a paper...2 1/2 without a paper and Im not about to repent for that!!

Then to add on that there are those who believe that if one isnt married infront of God then they arent married...
Where then does that leave Atheists and the like? sorry: as I was married in a Church to an Agnostic/Atheist)...

As for the OP...Oral sex is fine as long as its between two consenting Adults just as sex is!!

 

[HuntingMan]

As for the OP...Oral sex is fine as long as its between two consenting Adults just as sex is!!

And whether you like it or agree with it Gods word shows that sex is ONLY for a man and woman who are husband and wife.

If you believe differently, then please cite chapter and verse for your arguments.

1Co 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Co 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

it is good for a man to never partake of sex, but to avoid whoredom (illicit sex) let each have their own husband or wife.
No wife/husband ? then sex you partake of is harlotry, plain and simple.

It is wonderful if a man can go without a wife or sex, but if he cannot, to avoid sexual sin, he needs to take a wife.

Sex outside a marriage covenant made before God between the two IS sin. Of that fact there is no doubt.
Acceptance of that fact isnt required for it to be fact.

 

[tulc]

The one thing about OS that normal sex can never be is that it is about one spouse being completely giving and not receiving at the same time.

...then you guys are doing it wrong.
tulc(who is thinking of a number between 68 and 70)

 

[fuzzymel]

...then you guys are doing it wrong.
tulc(who is thinking of a number between 68 and 70)

lol I thought the same thing!

Anyway back to the original post - yes its fine as long as both parties are happy with it.

 

[HuntingMan]

...then you guys are doing it wrong.
tulc(who is thinking of a number between 68 and 70)

Or doing something else better

 

[Armistead]

Who's to say whether someone is married though?
I mean I dont really believe a piece of paper is what makes a marriage...
I personally (my own opinion here) believe that a couple can be together out of love and respect and take vows to stay together whereas many who run to a Church or JP end up divorced within months or a couple of yrs.

Ive been with my husband for 17 yrs...13 married with a paper...2 1/2 without a paper and Im not about to repent for that!!

Then to add on that there are those who believe that if one isnt married infront of God then they arent married...
Where then does that leave Atheists and the like? sorry: as I was married in a Church to an Agnostic/Atheist)...

As for the OP...Oral sex is fine as long as its between two consenting Adults just as sex is!!

How did you have a paper in the beginning and not the end..did you mean the other way around?

 

[Jerrell]

What a Husband and wife do to each other during sex is between them, and God. All they need to remember is that God is watching and that their bodies are temples for God.

 

[Nadiine]

Yes It Is

 

[united4Peace]

How did you have a paper in the beginning and not the end..did you mean the other way around?

LOL the other way around...

Together 17 yrs...
Lived together(common law) for 2 1/2 of those 17

and married(legally) about 13yrs

so the couple yrs prior to living together we just dated...

All together works out to 17 yrs as we met in 1990 (I was 17, he was turning 24)

 

[ParsonJefferson]

Do you believe that oral sex is ok inside of marriage? Or is just the basic intercourse way the only acceptable way within marriage?

How can we say that all marital sexual activity, outside of intercourse, is wrong and sinful? This would mean any caressing and/or fondling is wrong - and probably even kissing.

If a married couple wants to have oral sex, it's fine.

 

[tulc]

Or doing something else better

LOL! I hear that!
tulc(loves his wife of 31 years)

 

[irateional]

Ok, here is what I am typing about,

Ephesians 5
"21.Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22.Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23.For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24.Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26.That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27.That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28.So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. "

Is oral sex helping you grow into this kind of relationship? If not, to that extent it is sin.

So in other words, because it doesn't hold to your legalistic views of the world, it must be sin. Only things which break down relationships with God are bad. Those which don't build or hurt aren't bad until they reach the point of excess.

 

[Ave Maria]

What a Husband and wife do to each other during sex is between them, and God. All they need to remember is that God is watching and that their bodies are temples for God.

That's a strange thought that some deity is watching while I have sex!

 

[Gukkor]

That's a strange thought that some deity is watching while I have sex!

Strange from a human perspective, yes, but one has to keep in mind that God isn't really a peeping tom or anything like that. He's everywhere at once, so it only makes sense that He'd be there when you're having sex, eating dinner, going to the bathroom, or doing anything else. Were humans omnipresent, it wouldn't seem so strange a concept to us.

 

[tulc]

That's a strange thought that some deity is watching while I have sex!

Well...to be fair they probably don't have cable in Heaven.
tulc(bad tulc! no doughnut)