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I would agree that 1 Corinthians 13 is much closer to true love than what we find in Plato's Symposium. According to Plato's account, love in relation to the other is always instrumental. The beloved is a means to something else. The object of love, for Plato, is the form of Beauty/Goodness. Diotima tells Socrates that love is an ascent. We begin by perceiving beauty in one person, from there we see the quality of beauty in several and from there we ascend to the form of Beauty/Goodness.
So, according to Diotima (Plato), we never love the beloved for the sake of the beloved. We love the beauty/goodness we perceive in the beloved ....but if we are going to enter into true love we transcend the particulars of individual instances of beauty and goodness in order to perceive the form of Beauty/Goodness. In this case, the beloved is used as a means.
Makes me think. Don't we all fall in love that way -- we idealize the beloved. We see that....truer, best side of them, or the Ideal.
I can't even say if it's the reality of them or not. Maybe both, really.
But that initial love, or infatuated love, the idealization, it has something of it that isn't just imagination I think. It's like we saw them in their perfected way, or...imagined them so...
That is, not just a perfect apple, or perfect peach, but a perfect certain type of apple, or a belle of georgia Peach, but not just any one, but a certain one. Just that one. Unique in all of time.
That particular perfect belle of georgia peach, like no other, not ever that has been before, or will be, but is just this one person.
In Paul's account the object of love is the beloved, i.e. the beloved is loved for her sake and not necessarily her qualities or some transcendent form of those qualities. Love is patient (for the sake of the beloved). Love is kind (to the beloved). Love is not envious (of the beloved), etc. So, on Paul's account, the beloved is the object of one's love. In fact, he goes so far as to say we are to put the good of the beloved ahead of our own. (Philippians 2:3)
Yes, true. To love someone where they are at.
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