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[XSMKX]

Firstly let me apologize if I put this in the wrong section, feel free to move it.

I've been pondering joining this website for a while just because of the sheer controversy of this topic.

I am a Christian man (Even though some of you are about to doubt that fact) I am also a Homosexual.

I'll keep this short and to the point.

For years (Actually for as long as I can remember) I have *Struggled* with this and the way I feel towards it. The last several years I have come to terms with it and in Fact am Happier then I have ever been. To be honest in the past when I *struggled* with it I fell into a Huge Deep deppression and ate myself into oblivion. I gained a lot of weight and ended up eing over 260lbs. Today I weigh a MUCH healthier 145 (I'm only 5'5" 21y/o) and can honestly say I'm Happier.

I just want to hear feedback. Get some other perspectives and points of view. Honestly I'm not torn between who I am, However I do want to see how other Christians from the other side of the spectrum view someone like me.

 

[Criada]

The rules of this forum say that we can't post anything 'condoning' homosexuality, so you will struggle to get any discussion that is not very one sided.
You might be better putting this in the Christian philosophy and ethics area, where I think it is permitted.

As a fellow-struggler with this, I am very glad that you have found happiness, I know how hard it is.
I would be glad to hear more in an area where it won't cause problems for staff

 

[Dragons87]

Hello, sir. Welcome to the forums!

I am also a Christian gay 21-year-old--note "Christian" before "gay", for that identity is what lasts and what matters; "gay" is temporary and, while not inconsequential, certainly not as important.

It's great that you are not "torn", but I hope that it's because you've chosen to put "Christ" before "gay". If such is the case, while it's great to invite comment, don't let them shake your faith!

Other than that, I suppose I'll let the thread take its course.

May our great God, to whom all glory is due, bless you and keep you.

 

[ido]

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