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Correction, one sins when they are led away and enticed by their own sensual desires.
So God did not create sensual desires?
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Correction, one sins when they are led away and enticed by their own sensual desires.
No, that fruit is not evil and is not sin, but disobedience is. God did not create disobedience.
Usually the simple questions are the best one in my opinion.
You have to first ask what is sin. Sin is basically anything against God's will.
Then you have to ask what constitutes as sin. Understanding that our flesh is driven to sinning, at what point is it considered sin. And that is two part, deals with the matters of the heart and in the matters of action. Basically its sin the moment you reject God's will. So that means, that even though you may have influences and temptation and thoughts that could lead you there, its when we accept it, thats when its sin. And time and time again, the Word mentions things like " Be angry but sin not" or " Jesus was tempted and not sinned" and even far back as to warning Cain to " be careful, because sin is crouching at the door".
So yes, sin by definition is bad. Sin also comes by choice, not by force. It requires some sort of decision making, reasoning, and action. So taking your example of the murderer. God presents a choice of life, and the choice of death, in everything, there are favorable and unfavorable consequences. The murderer knows that he does not have to murder, but chooses to murder. The sin is not in the existence of the opportunity but in the decision to take it. God knows the consequences of both, but does not force you to take a choice, then He wouldn't be a loving God. And not every choice set in stone your fate. That same murderer maybe ends up meeting with a Christian and get save in the jail cell and ends up saving millions of lives in a third world country through his ministries.Life isn't so linear, and it wouldnt be fair to only say that God made this happen for only the bad stuff. The same God thats there through bad choices is also there through good choices.Its a matter of what is the expected end for the person.
The penalty of dying in sin, is seperation from God. This is the only sure thing that one can conclude from their choices. That and that we all die, whether with warning or without one. And with that in mind, that is what make sin not only bad, but deadly.
Hey Kees! So, I believe that evil is a result of God giving us free will. I believe that agency (free will) was necessary to test who really loves God and who doesn't. Satan attacks mankind but those who love God withstand in the end. As a result of free will we have a sinful world which means trials but maybe the choices we make during those trials bring us closer to Christ, even though trials aren't good. Of course since we all have an inclination to sin we all will sin and it doesn't mean we don't love God, just that we are human. But if we have a knowledge of the word and love of God then we have a choice to accept or reject. Here's my theory. Satan was with God in heaven before the creation of the world, and I'm sure at some point everything was perfect but when Satan bore the desire to be God, everything got bad. God saw evil in heaven for the first time and had to cast Satan out. I believe God envisioned a plan for the creation of people and fellowship with him, but how could he know their true intentions if they didn't have free will? He wanted his people to CHOOSE good, not be born good. So Good created Adam and Eve with free will, and saw how man was prone to evil with free will. Like Satan, they were cast out of the bliss (garden of Eden) for sinning. But he showed them grace because they certainly did not equal Satan. Satan knew the full glory of God and wasn't satisfied. I think God knew (as with Job) that people who truly love him could withstand the attacks of Satan. I think that's the situation with all of us humans. Free will gives us the ability to know the love of Christ and accept, or to choose evil. If the love of God is strong within us we can make the right godly choices, and for those in the earth who don't know or don't believe, we have the power to witness. Ultimately, even though we have that free will and are prone to sin, I think that Jesus knew the power of his love could help is choose him and choose life if we let it. And he's pleased when we choose life, do good, reject sin. When we choose, it involves a decision. If we were all born good, it wouldn't involve a decision of the heart. And God's heart is after us.
Sin is not good...and Sin is not bad. All sin is just sin. They have their consequence and you can choose whether you want to accept them or not. God sets before us blessings and curses, life and death, and asks us to choose life. This does not require us to make a list of good and bad things....doing so, does not make us as gods...as the serpent would have us believe.....
Not all thoughts that come into your mind necessarily originate from you, but unless you are possessed by a foreign spirit, which would be the something else inside of you that is controlling your actions, you are responsible for your own actions and what to do with those thoughts and those feelings that you have.
And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience. (Ephesians 2:1-2)
Morally speaking, there is no objective way to decide what is good and what is bad. Whether something is good or bad is largely decided by individuals and consensus in a society.
However, sin is the transgression of the law, and this law is decided by God, not by us or the consensus of humans. In other words, sin can also be viewed as disobedience against God.
I see. But if God is opposed to sin, then where does our desire to sin come from? Not from God?
Thank you for the great reponse.
First of all, if your spirit is being influenced by both the spirit of God and the force of sin, is it really YOU making the decisions, or does your choice to sin or not simply depend on which force (good or evil) happens to be stronger inside your own spirit?
And to answer your question on why I am asking these questions: To be honest, a part of me greatly enjoys doing sinful things and being able to experience the pain that results from those actions.
However, I also have the feeling that what I'm doing is 'bad'. And I don't wan't sinning to be bad. I wan't to BE ABLE to experience sin and pain in all freedom without having to worry about it being bad.
And the other problem is that I don't really have proof that sinning is bad. I mean, my higher self tells me it is bad, sure, but my sinful desires tell me that it is good. So who do i listen to?? Who is in the right??
If God really did create everything, including sin, then why would he create a bad desire in me? Is it really bad then?
And if God didn't create sin, then doesn't that mean that there is a force apart from God that makes me want to sin? And if so, who of the two forces should I listen to? God? Or sin?
First of all, if your spirit is being influenced by both the spirit of God and the force of sin, is it really YOU making the decisions, or does your choice to sin or not simply depend on which force (good or evil) happens to be stronger inside your own spirit?
And to answer your question on why I am asking these questions: To be honest, a part of me greatly enjoys doing sinful things and being able to experience the pain that results from those actions.
However, I also have the feeling that what I'm doing is 'bad'. And I don't wan't sinning to be bad. I wan't to BE ABLE to experience sin and pain in all freedom without having to worry about it being bad.
And the other problem is that I don't really have proof that sinning is bad. I mean, my higher self tells me it is bad, sure, but my sinful desires tell me that it is good.
So who do i listen to?? Who is in the right??
If God really did create everything, including sin, then why would he create a bad desire in me? Is it really bad then?
And if God didn't create sin, then doesn't that mean that there is a force apart from God that makes me want to sin? And if so, who of the two forces should I listen to? God? Or sin? So who do i listen to?? Who is in the right??
Kees, please. This life is no game.
Yes it's really you making the decisions. Influence doesn't mean force, influence doesn't mean control. You know this, why do you go against it? It doesn't matter if a hundred people tell you to go jump of a cliff, it doesn't matter if someone is pointing a gun at you to murder a baby and eat its flesh, the choice is always yours and the truth prevails over all. God promises that you will NEVER be tempted beyond your ability to endure, so the way your present and understand "influence" means nothing; absolute nothing.
Kees, this is why you won't have any excuses if you were to die today and answer to God. You admit you know what you are doing is bad, and your conscience, your "higher self" tells you so; which is God Himself speaking and warning you. Your sinful desires only lust and rage with an animalistic, mindless lust; they don't ever tell you anything is "good". If you were to think just for a second about these sinful things, let's say pornography and masturbation as you mention, you can see there is no "good" in them, neither for you nor for the people involved nor the industry you indirectly support. It's corruption of heart and death of soul.
You are making assumptions that are wrong; many people have already told you God did not give you the desires of sin nor did He create sin. When a person has a bad desire it isn't because God points a finger and says "have this bad desire and suffer".
James 1:13-16
Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.
John 10:9-10
I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture.
The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.
I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.
Yes the Bible makes it very clear that there is another force that gives lust for sin. But you know EXACTLY who is in the right, you know exactly who to listen to. Even now your conscience is speaking to you, warning you with pleas yet you fight it; itching, seeking for affirmations to continue in your sin.
My good friend, please, this life is no game.
Who will you listen to, the Author and Giver of life or the one who kills, steals and destroys? Will you listen to the Truth Himself or the father of lies? Will you listen to the Creator Almighty or the one who is doomed for eternity and wants you to fall with him? Will you listen to the Holy One who calls you a son, a friend, beloved and means it, or an impersonal deceiver who calls you a friend to stab you in the back and throw you to flames; use you as a tool just so he can "prove a point" to God?
You said you like being able to enjoy, experience, do things. If you go to Hell there will only be suffering, UTTER, INEFFABLE SUFFERING. You look at the sins you've committed a week ago and ask yourself, where is all the pleasure from it? Where are its benefits? Do they mean anything to you, who now stand in the present time? Does the pleasure you've had from a sin a week ago bring any benefit at all, or does it call further into an unquenchable thirst to make you its slave? Do you even remember it?
There will come a time where none of those pleasures matter EVEN A TINY BIT. They will be as nothing and your grief will be to see they were no pleasures at all but you have missed out on the true thing because you've chosen to sear your conscience to follow an animalistic lust.
Kees the decision is very plain before you.
Please sit down and read the New Testament. You either believe in God, or you chose to sear your conscience by excusing yourself with faulty, pretense philosophies when you EXACTLY know what you should be doing and what you should not.
If you don't understand everything, that's fine. But this is no ticket for you to do whatever you want. If you don't understand you approach God, you don't walk away from Him.
This you have to understand, Lord Jesus Himself didn't die a most horrible death on a cross for nothing. If you are big into asking questions and wanting to understand, then try to understand why God Almighty Himself would do such a thing for you; and believe me it is not because so you keep on living in sin.
A holy life doesn't mean a boring, empty life devoid of joy. Don't let the darkness fool you, there is much joy and peace to be had with God. Please consider the pleas God is making with you, please don't murder your conscience to end up in eternal suffering and regret over what is a laughable nothing. Don't fall for the illusion, God is the only true giver of joy.
Psalm 16:11
You will show me the path of life;
In Your presence is fullness of joy;
At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore.
James 1:5
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.
John 12:25
He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.
Please don't lose your eternal life for temporary worldly pleasures that amount to nothing in small time.
This has to be the single best response to my question. Thank you so much for all your efforts to help me understand things.
However, there is still a single question that still lingers in my mind.
But first of all, let me see if I'm understanding you completely.
What you say is that yes, we INDEED are responsible for our own sinful actions. This is because God DID NOT create sin, which in turn means that there is ANOTHER force apart from God's creation which influences us.
God (via my conscience/'higher self') tries to point me into the direction of good.
Meanwhile the other force (I'll call it 'the force of Sin') tries to tempt me into the direction of bad (sinning).
My last question then is (and I am absolutely serious about this): "What option should I take, good or evil?"
I get it, God makes me want to do good, and the force of sin wants to make me do evil.
But HOW do I know that I should listen to God, and not the force of sin?
If I were to ask God whether I should take the path to good or evil, he would undoubtedly answer with "the path to good". But if I were to ask the same question to the force of sin, it would probably tell me that I should sin and take the path of evil.
Also, I FULLY UNDERSTAND that eternal suffering awaits me if I choose to disobey God, but does that make it THE WRONG OPTION?
I just want to know, is sinning INHERENTLY bad, or is ONLY bad in the eyes of our Lord?
Because the force of sin itself probably doesn't think that it itself is BAD, otherwise it would not exist.
For example: A communist would probably tell me that communism is the right option.
But a capitalist would probaly tell me that capitalism is the right option.
God tells me that good is the right option. The force of sin tells me that sin/evil is the right option.
How do I know who is INHERENTLY right?
Finally, thank you for your patience with me. I know I can we a lot to handle in a conversation sometimes, but I really want to know WHY it is that I should listen to god and NOT to sin, while both forces are directing me to different paths.
If i were to follow God without knowing why following him, and not sin is the right thing to do, I would never be able to follow him in my heart of hearts. That is just how I see it.
I look forward to your answer, my friend.
And again, thank you so much.
Wow, what a clear and extensive answer. Thank you so much!
I do still have a few questions, though.
First of all, I get that you say that God did not create good, because he IS goodness to begin with.
But how can it be that God did not create evil? That would mean that God DIDN'T create everything in existence, right?
Second of all, in response to the analogy of the child and his choices; If my future child would harm another person out of revenge, I would not blame him for his feelings, and the actions that those feelings triggered.
I would however talk with him about what he did, how it hurts both him and his victim, and how much I'm disappointed with his action. Also, I would do my best to help him make it right, and to make more preferable choices in the future.
But I would not BLAME him for the dark feelings in his heart, and the actions that arose from them. Because he did not choose to have those feelings.
So in that same sense I find it strange that God blames me for my sinning, because I too did not choose to have sinful feelings in my heart, and I have to work day in, day out to keep myself from not sinning, and sometimes I falter, and I do sin. So why should I be blamed for that? I understand that he is concerned and disappointed in me, but why is it bad what I did? Why am I to blame?
And finally, yes, there are indeed many people that choose for the light in the midst of darkness. However, are those people not 'lucky' to be granted such a strong will by God? And are the people that choose darkness over light not simple 'unlucky' because God didn't bestow them with a strong sense of will? If anybody could make any choice, then why would not everybody choose for the light all the time?
Thank you so much again for your reply. I look forward to yours. Thank you!![]()
The bottom line of why God created anything at all is that all was created for the greater glory of God. Infinite suffering exits to demonstrate that God, dying on the cross, is greater than the greatest suffering. Great evil exists in order to demonstrate that the goodness of God is greater.Hello men and women of God! This is my first post here.
I have been thinking a lot lately about the nature of sin, and I would dearly appreciate it if you guys would help me with answering this question. So thank you in advance!
Here is my question. Plain and simply: "Is sinning bad?"
Of course we all assume that sinning is bad, because it is written in the bible, but there are some questions that lead me to doubt that. Namely...
"Why did God create evil and sin in this world?"
You could say that that God did not create us to do evil, but that he gave us free will, so that if we choose evil, we face the consequences and it we choose good, we are rewarded with God's grace.
But then here is my real question: "If God is all-powerful and all-knowing, then why does he create people that he knows will sin? And is sinning then really bad?"
Let's say God creates a person and grants him free will. However, God also created that person with a mental instability / weak will (which, let's assume makes him prone to murderous acts). Subsequently, let's say God then also places that person in an environment with abusive parents at home and frequent bullying at school (which, let's assume, combined with his mental instability causes him to commit murder) And so, he shoots up his class. This is an example, but I'm sure cases like this have actually happened in real life.
In such a case, can the murderer then really be held responsible for his actions? I mean,
-(1) He was born and raised with triggers that would undoubtedly (to God) lead him to commit a murderous act.
-(2) God, while all-powerful and all-knowing knew he would murder, yet did nothing about the sinful act.
If God created the person's will and circumstance, knew the outcome of his sin, and did nohing about it, was is then truly 'bad' for the murderer to commit murder?
"Is sinning bad?" may sound like a strange question, but I am seriously pondering it, and I would appreciate it greatly if you fellow Christians would help me out. So thanks!
Greets, Kees
God didn't create evil, because evil is a concept opposite to good. It exists tacitly because goodness exists, as a necessary opposite. God, by existing as a being with ultimate free will, could choose to be evil, but He won't because He is goodness. Wherever there is free will, the ability to choose evil is there, too. God is unchanging, meaning He has always had free will, meaning that he could have chosen to do evil (but doesn't), meaning that evil has always been a concept in one form or another. It was not created by God in the sense that He invented it, but it exists because God exists as a good being with free-will.
To your point about not blaming your child, you are correct in that you can't blame people for their feelings. However, you can certainly blame them for their actions. Even as you say you would not blame him for his actions, you simultaneously admit that you would be disappointed with his actions and that he should make it right. Even as you use this example to deny my own example, you still are functioning under the belief that we are accountable for our actions. So why should God not also hold you responsible?
So, do feelings take away our ability to make choices? No. We can be influenced by them, certainly. But we also hold the power to change them, to an extent, and even if not to change them, to do the right thing anyway. Our brains are much more plastic than people tend to assume; we have the ability to change our brain chemistry through many different means such as our food, our exercise, and our thoughts especially. Some people may struggle more than others, but the vast majority of people are capable of changing it from at least somewhat.
As for people being lucky to have such strong wills, I ask why you assume that some have stronger wills than others. I personally say that a will is something you can strengthen by pure intention and experience. It's the same thing that I was saying about brain chemistry; people are capable of developing it of their own accord. Ultimately, everyone's will is weak, until they choose to make it stronger. For example, I have OCD, and the symptoms used to be very severe. I would fall into repetitive, anxious thinking that led to much misery. There is a cycle involved with OCD that continues over and over in your mind. The trick to freeing yourself from the cycle is breaking it, and it's not a one-time thing. You do it by repetition of practices, learning to catch yourself in fearful thinking and then changing course in your mind. When done over and over, it eventually becomes easier to not let your mind fall into the habit of obsessive thinking and compulsive behavior. I now rarely struggle with my anxiety. You do similar practices to help master any other area of your life, be it your will or your selflessness, any healthy thing you want to develop. We are all capable of development.
Romans 6:23This has to be the single best response to my question. Thank you so much for all your efforts to help me understand things.
However, there is still a single question that still lingers in my mind.
But first of all, let me see if I'm understanding you completely.
What you say is that yes, we INDEED are responsible for our own sinful actions. This is because God DID NOT create sin, which in turn means that there is ANOTHER force apart from God's creation which influences us.
God (via my conscience/'higher self') tries to point me into the direction of good.
Meanwhile the other force (I'll call it 'the force of Sin') tries to tempt me into the direction of bad (sinning).
My last question then is (and I am absolutely serious about this): "What option should I take, good or evil?"
I get it, God makes me want to do good, and the force of sin wants to make me do evil.
But HOW do I know that I should listen to God, and not the force of sin?
If I were to ask God whether I should take the path to good or evil, he would undoubtedly answer with "the path to good". But if I were to ask the same question to the force of sin, it would probably tell me that I should sin and take the path of evil.
Also, I FULLY UNDERSTAND that eternal suffering awaits me if I choose to disobey God, but does that make it THE WRONG OPTION?
I just want to know, is sinning INHERENTLY bad, or is ONLY bad in the eyes of our Lord?
Because the force of sin itself probably doesn't think that it itself is BAD, otherwise it would not exist.
For example: A communist would probably tell me that communism is the right option.
But a capitalist would probaly tell me that capitalism is the right option.
God tells me that good is the right option. The force of sin tells me that sin/evil is the right option.
How do I know who is INHERENTLY right?
Finally, thank you for your patience with me. I know I can we a lot to handle in a conversation sometimes, but I really want to know WHY it is that I should listen to god and NOT to sin, while both forces are directing me to different paths.
If i were to follow God without knowing why following him, and not sin is the right thing to do, I would never be able to follow him in my heart of hearts. That is just how I see it.
I look forward to your answer, my friend.
And again, thank you so much.