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Mrs. Enigma

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The Bible says that a wife is not to leace her husband, but if she does she is to remain single or be reconciled to her husband. so, according to that passage, I would say that staying in a marriage is first choice, but there seem to be instances where a woman could leave, because it gives that exception there. In your situation, it seems unhealthy to stay, at least for now. As long as you realize that you can not get remarried, but there is the thing about him getting his physical needs met.
I am very conservative in my views. I believe in marriage for life, and submissive obedient wives, but I still feel like I think leaving, at least temporarily, is healthiest here.
 
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Mrs. Enigma said:
The Bible says that a wife is not to leace her husband, but if she does she is to remain single or be reconciled to her husband. so, according to that passage, I would say that staying in a marriage is first choice, but there seem to be instances where a woman could leave, because it gives that exception there. In your situation, it seems unhealthy to stay, at least for now. As long as you realize that you can not get remarried, but there is the thing about him getting his physical needs met.
I am very conservative in my views. I believe in marriage for life, and submissive obedient wives, but I still feel like I think leaving, at least temporarily, is healthiest here.

I doubt we will ever reconsile, he lives with his new girlfriend now. I noticed your signature. Last year at this time I was also a home schooling, super conservative stay at home mom who thrived on Veggietales, etc. I never would have guessed I would be here now- divorced. But life throws curve balls sometimes. I also said I would never divorce, I needed to be submissive, etc. And I was, but he loved someone else. It sure did not take him long to run off and start a new life with her. For me to remain single for the rest of my life, unless he "comes back for me", is depressing. I am not ready to date yet, but someday I feel God might have someone out there for me too.
Jen
 
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