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SLStrohkirch said:
That's it Maccie, We just aren't happy unless we have full dominant control of every female on the planet. Heck if the law would allow it we would even put you on leashes and lead you where we want you to go. NOT.:scratch:

Grow up and quit using the Feminist cause for your mask. You don't need it and by the way if your strong enough to open the door for yourself feel free to come in.

We are all sinners and God does not make any differentiation between Men and women on that level. He gave Man the leadership role in the creation order. If you want to dispute that go ahead, but you will be wrong in doing so.


Scott,

Don't you know that God is a woman! It is practically in every book of the Bible! I am so tired of men trying to oppress the women for the sake of power. We are all the same, one gender really, there is no difference at all. Dont you know what "equal" means? I am tired of you Scott...always trying use Scripture to support what you are saying...where ever it says something like "women should be submissive", that is just hate speech from that jerk Paul or some other power hungry, woman hating, insecure a-hole....what was God thinking when She inspired those idiots!

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Pax Christi,

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tqpix said:
Yes, as long as it's not being done in a church. (Any place outside the church is fine.)
Please indicate to me when I am out of church and when not. I thought I am the church and so are you or any-one else proclaiming Jesus King over their lives.

:clap: Be BLESSED by the BEST and stay within the confinements of PEACE:clap:
 
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ChiRho said:
Scott,

Don't you know that God is a woman! It is practically in every book of the Bible! I am so tired of men trying to oppress the women for the sake of power. We are all the same, one gender really, there is no difference at all. Dont you know what "equal" means? I am tired of you Scott...always trying use Scripture to support what you are saying...where ever it says something like "women should be submissive", that is just hate speech from that jerk Paul or some other power hungry, woman hating, insecure a-hole....what was God thinking when She inspired those idiots!

:sigh:

Pax Christi,

ChiRho
ChiRho,

She must have been PMSing.
 
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tqpix said:
Yes, as long as it's not being done in a church. (Any place outside the church is fine.)

Why differentiate? What's the difference? A man is a man and a woman is a woman whether they are in church or not. I have not noticed God making any difference between church life and any other sort of life you care to mention.

I wasn't being "feminist" - I'm too old for all that - but you got so het up over it you forgot to answer my original question!

God doesn't make any difference as to what sort of building we are in. Why should it be different in a church building. IF God gave headship to man in creation, then he gave it for all circumstances. (But he didn't, of course, but that's another thread). Either we can teach men or we can't.

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Maccie said:
Why differentiate? What's the difference? A man is a man and a woman is a woman whether they are in church or not. I have not noticed God making any difference between church life and any other sort of life you care to mention.

I wasn't being "feminist" - I'm too old for all that - but you got so het up over it you forgot to answer my original question!

God doesn't make any difference as to what sort of building we are in. Why should it be different in a church building. IF God gave headship to man in creation, then he gave it for all circumstances. (But he didn't, of course, but that's another thread). Either we can teach men or we can't.

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Ok, Maccie,

I am sorry that we got off the track here, but the question at first sounded like a feminist question.

"Should she teach men or shouldn't she?" is I think a better question. The word "can" is more like asking does she have the ability to teach men or not. I really don't know if she has the ability or not. Should she teach men or not is better worded for the topic.

Teaching is one thing but authority is another. I believe that a woman may be given permission to teach men women children by the Authority of the Pastor. However, he must also approve of the subject and material being used so that it is scripturally in line with teaching of the Bible. But then again that should go for men also if they are not clergy. Their material should also be approved for teaching according to the bible as well.

If the Pastor does not have this control there is always a chance of heresy being taught however unintentional it might be.
 
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herev said:
How do we know that these are the only times--is this not evidence of reading into scripture same as those who hold to my view? As to the I want, does not the KJV say I will that...I don't have it in front of me
Personally, I know because I believe Scripture to be the word of God. I do not think that Scripture holds the opinion of men, including paul. Even in the one instance where Paul says that he was speaking and not the Lord, I believe that the Lord was in agreement with what was spoken or else he would not have let Paul include it. Further, his need to qualify that statement shows me that it was the exception, not the norm.

herev said:
Looking at it in context, I can see no distinction between saying that he wants men to pray with uplifted hands and that women should keep silent Then he adds, "I do not permit a woman to teach or have authority..."
The KJV says "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

Silence here does not mean devoid of sound or speech, but more like meekness and discretion. The word is Hesuchia meaning "quietness; description of the life of one who stays at home doing his own work, and does not officiously meddle with the affairs of others."

Paul further expounds upon this in the very next verse. Women must learn in subjection to whom? Men. Women are not to teach or usurp authority over whom? Men. Paul is describing how women and men are to interact in terms of the church. Paul does not say here that women are to be silent. He says that the learning of women should be in deference to the men and that the women should not be in authority over the man. This is no new teaching, because it had already been established that the man is the head of the woman.

The focus of the text about men praying appears to be on "men praying everywhere" versus lifting up the hands. "I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting." Paul's desire is that men pray everywhere, while the lifting up holy hands is an illustration of how we pray. Similarly, the text about being without wratch and doubting is another illustration of how we pray. This also seems consistent to me with instructions that we ought to pray without ceasing, that we ought to pray without doubting, that we ough not to pray while there is strife between us and our brethren...

I don't see any conflicts in these verses themselves or between them. I think when we look at the context of what is said, it not only becomes clear where his focus is, we can see how it is synonymous with other Scriptures.

herev said:
As to the last, verse 15 says a woman will be saved through child-bearing? What does this mean if taken literally, as it seems so many want to take the rest of the verses in this chapter?
First, I think it should be pointed out that the verse does not say a woman is only saved in childbearing or that those who don't bear children are not saved. A literal rendering of the text cannot logically lead to such conclusions. Those are assumptions made about the text which are not reflected in the text itself.

Again, I think we need to read the verse in the context of what is being discussed. In the beginning, men and women were to have equal dominion over God's creation. The fact that man was given rule over the woman is a direct result of the fall. Additionally, the pain associated with child-bearing is also associated with this pronouncement after the fall. (Genesis 3:16) The text here is not speaking of salvation in terms of Jesus Christ. Paul is providing the historical context for why the man is the head of the woman.

herev said:
again, I fully support you in your interpretation--I haven't met you, but I trust your ability to prayerfully study the scripture and come up with an interpretation that works for you.
Actually I would pray that this is not an interpretation that works for me, because that wouldn't really do me any good would it? It any interpretation I have is not what God meant, then that interpretation is useless.

herev said:
Agreed, but if you are suggesting that here it says MAN, could it not be that they simply knew of nothing else? A couple hundred years ago, if someone were describing the qualifications for president of the US Senate, he or she would have said, "such a man must reside in the state for..." This would not mean women weren't elegible, would it?
True. Yet I know of no woman whom God would define as the husband of one wife. Also, since we know that God has indicated that the man is the head of the family, there is no way that he can be referring to women when he speaks of one who rules his own house well.

Again, taking into account the context of what is stated in the verses and viewing that also in line with other Scriptures, it seems clear that God is speaking of male specifically here and not mankind in general. It would be rather silly to say that women should not have authority in the church and then a few verses later allow women to pastor a church.

herev said:
it is insulting to suggest that somehow I have not ever read the bible, I dismiss the Bible, or that my wife, the pastor, is being decieved by SAtan.
Yes, I can understand how that would be seen as insulting.

I'll just say this. God taught me a long time ago that it made no sense being offended by people. If someone says something that is offensive to me, I must evaluate whether it is true or not. If it is true, then I need to yield to that truth and acknowledge it, even if I "feel" offended. If it is not true, then I can reject it as there is no need to "feel" offended about a lie.

So for me personally, I am not so concerned with how statements make me feel as I am in finding out whether they are true. Sometimes the truth hurts. I know that first-hand. :pink:

I am not saying that the accusations you list above are valid, I am only saying that there is a more important question than the fact that they may be insulting, namely is there any truth in it? IF you and your wife were actually deceived in this regard, would there really be a way of communicating that which is not considered offensive?

Jesus acknowledged that His words might be offensive at times. Yet, he admonishes us ot press on for Truth nonetheless. We cannot let our emotions govern for us what is Truth, for they are deceptive. I am not speaking solely to your situation now, but in general. How we feel about something is not the barometer for truth. I am sure too that you already know this. Just wanted to say it explicitly. ;)

herev said:
You, on the other hand, have never, ever, ever, been ugly to anyone, so I have no need to even debate you. I will answer you questions, and look forward to you answering mine, but I support all who disagree with me and still consider them brothers and sisters in Christ.
Thanks for taking the time to answer. God bless!!!
Tommy, I hope that I have never been rude or ugly to you. Hopefully, I can say this to all (though some may disagree LOL). Although we have not discussed this before now, I have known that this was a point of disagreement between us since first learning that your wife is a pastor. I still cherish our discussions and pray continually for you and your family.

If I were to be honest, I would have to say, Yes, I think it is unscriptural for women to be pastors and yes, I would say that such are deceived in this area. However, there are surely areas of my faith where you might say the same. All in all, I commit to sharing with you and praying for you as I hope you do for me.

God Bless!!!
 
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Crazy Liz said:
Can we go back to the OP and the title of this thread?

SOT didn't ask whether it's right for a woman to hold a position in church or do anything else. He asked what is right for him, a male, to do. He asked for scriptures that help answer this question.

Here is the most obvious. Please forgive me if someone has already posted it, since I haven't read all 8 pages of this thread:

Acts 18:24-2824 And a certain Jew named Apollos, born at Alexandria, an eloquent man, and mighty in the scriptures, came to Ephesus. 25 This man was instructed in the way of the Lord; and being fervent in the spirit, he spake and taught diligently the things of the Lord, knowing only the baptism of John. 26 And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard, they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly. 27 And when he was disposed to pass into Achaia, the brethren wrote, exhorting the disciples to receive him: who, when he was come, helped them much which had believed through grace: 28 For he mightily convinced the Jews, and that publicly, showing by the scriptures that Jesus was Christ.

Regardless of any debates about Priscilla's position in the church, it is clear that Apollos received instruction from her, and this was approved by scripture.

So I would say it is definitely not wrong for a male to take instruction from a female, according to the Bible.
I completely agree with this and have referred to it often in reagrds to women being teachers. However, I think it is a leap here to say that this contradicts the admonition for women not to teach men.

This Scripture does not say that Priscilla taught Apollos. It shows that Aquilla and Priscilla taught Apollos. While Priscilla was definitely a part of this interaction, she was there alongside the headship of her husband. So truthfully, we really don't know what the nature of the interaction here was. There are many times when my husband and I will minister to others. Although this is a joint effort, I am supporting him in this endeavor and working alongside him to minister. We also know that many women were co-workers of the apostles, but that does not mean that were given places of authority over them or any man.
 
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St. Strohkirch said:
"Should she teach men or shouldn't she?" is I think a better question. The word "can" is more like asking does she have the ability to teach men or not. I really don't know if she has the ability or not. Should she teach men or not is better worded for the topic.

Teaching is one thing but authority is another. I believe that a woman may be given permission to teach men women children by the Authority of the Pastor. However, he must also approve of the subject and material being used so that it is scripturally in line with teaching of the Bible. But then again that should go for men also if they are not clergy. Their material should also be approved for teaching according to the bible as well.

If the Pastor does not have this control there is always a chance of heresy being taught however unintentional it might be.

But you still haven't said why you think there should be a difference between men having authority over women in the church and not having that authority over women in business, education, public services, whatever.

God does not differentiate between sacred and secular life. Especially for Christians. Life is life is life. If a woman has to have a man's authority before she can teach "religious" subjects, in a church building, then why does she not have to have that same authority when she teaches men anywhere else? "Church" is not a building. Church is the people, as I am sure you know. Margaret Thatcher, for example was the nearest to a President that the UK, thankfully, is likely to have. Her authority was supreme, over the government, etc. Why is she any different from a woman Vicar preaching and teaching her congregation?

It is easy to see why Paul, and the early Christians, might have wondered if women were suitable as teachers. Women then were not educated at all, they were second class people, barely above the slave level. But it is different today. What makes an combination of X and Y chromosomes so superior to X+ X chromosomes that an XX has to be "under" XY?

No, I am not being facetious. When someone has actually answered my question, even if I don't agree with it, then maybe I will stop asking it!

But no-one has yet! :D

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Maccie said:
No, I am not being facetious. When someone has actually answered my question, even if I don't agree with it, then maybe I will stop asking it!

But no-one has yet! :D

Maccie
Actually, I did some time back, but I will post it again for your review. The bottom line is that there is a difference between the systems of the world and the systems of God caused by the fall of man. It is the disobedience of man that caused this separation.

I don't think so, although that did give me quite a chuckle. As for why men are given authority over women in church, it goes back to the fall of man.

"Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." Genesis 3:16

"But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." I Timothy 2:12-13

Why is the secular divided from the sacred? Because since the fall, satan has been perverting the world including its systems. God designed the world to be ruled by man (male & female) as we watched over His dominion on His behalf. However, because of man's carnal, sinful nature, we have repeatedly rejected God and chosen instead to listen to a deceiver. That is why satan is called the god of this world.

"For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world." I John 2:16

God is not trying to redeem the world and its fallen systems. He is redeeming out of the world those who have been reconciled unto the Father through faith in Christ.

"If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you." John 15:19

Do I think that God the Father is plain scared of women? No. Afterall, He created us in His image just as He did the men.
 
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Maccie said:
But you still haven't said why you think there should be a difference between men having authority over women in the church and not having that authority over women in business, education, public services, whatever.

God does not differentiate between sacred and secular life. Especially for Christians. Life is life is life. If a woman has to have a man's authority before she can teach "religious" subjects, in a church building, then why does she not have to have that same authority when she teaches men anywhere else? "Church" is not a building. Church is the people, as I am sure you know. Margaret Thatcher, for example was the nearest to a President that the UK, thankfully, is likely to have. Her authority was supreme, over the government, etc. Why is she any different from a woman Vicar preaching and teaching her congregation?

It is easy to see why Paul, and the early Christians, might have wondered if women were suitable as teachers. Women then were not educated at all, they were second class people, barely above the slave level. But it is different today. What makes an combination of X and Y chromosomes so superior to X+ X chromosomes that an XX has to be "under" XY?

No, I am not being facetious. When someone has actually answered my question, even if I don't agree with it, then maybe I will stop asking it!

But no-one has yet! :D

Maccie
In essence we live in 2 different kingdoms. The ideal would be that men would have the authority in both, but because of sin and rebellion women have been given authority in the secular world. Since the Spiritual world (that of the church) we seek to do things as God would have us do we have to look to his word for direction. His creation order gave Man the authority over the woman. She is to be submissive to him as the Church is to Christ.

We therefore keep the model given to us by the Holy Scriptures. There are churches who have gone against this and based on what scripture says they would be wrong.

I think you are looking for an answer that will only satisfy what you want to hear and not what is true. :|
 
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Ainesis said:
Personally, I know because I believe Scripture to be the word of God. I do not think that Scripture holds the opinion of men, including paul. Even in the one instance where Paul says that he was speaking and not the Lord, I believe that the Lord was in agreement with what was spoken or else he would not have let Paul include it. Further, his need to qualify that statement shows me that it was the exception, not the norm.


The KJV says "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

Silence here does not mean devoid of sound or speech, but more like meekness and discretion. The word is Hesuchia meaning "quietness; description of the life of one who stays at home doing his own work, and does not officiously meddle with the affairs of others."

Paul further expounds upon this in the very next verse. Women must learn in subjection to whom? Men. Women are not to teach or usurp authority over whom? Men. Paul is describing how women and men are to interact in terms of the church. Paul does not say here that women are to be silent. He says that the learning of women should be in deference to the men and that the women should not be in authority over the man. This is no new teaching, because it had already been established that the man is the head of the woman.

The focus of the text about men praying appears to be on "men praying everywhere" versus lifting up the hands. "I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting." Paul's desire is that men pray everywhere, while the lifting up holy hands is an illustration of how we pray. Similarly, the text about being without wratch and doubting is another illustration of how we pray. This also seems consistent to me with instructions that we ought to pray without ceasing, that we ought to pray without doubting, that we ough not to pray while there is strife between us and our brethren...

I don't see any conflicts in these verses themselves or between them. I think when we look at the context of what is said, it not only becomes clear where his focus is, we can see how it is synonymous with other Scriptures.


First, I think it should be pointed out that the verse does not say a woman is only saved in childbearing or that those who don't bear children are not saved. A literal rendering of the text cannot logically lead to such conclusions. Those are assumptions made about the text which are not reflected in the text itself.

Again, I think we need to read the verse in the context of what is being discussed. In the beginning, men and women were to have equal dominion over God's creation. The fact that man was given rule over the woman is a direct result of the fall. Additionally, the pain associated with child-bearing is also associated with this pronouncement after the fall. (Genesis 3:16) The text here is not speaking of salvation in terms of Jesus Christ. Paul is providing the historical context for why the man is the head of the woman.


Actually I would pray that this is not an interpretation that works for me, because that wouldn't really do me any good would it? It any interpretation I have is not what God meant, then that interpretation is useless.


True. Yet I know of no woman whom God would define as the husband of one wife. Also, since we know that God has indicated that the man is the head of the family, there is no way that he can be referring to women when he speaks of one who rules his own house well.

Again, taking into account the context of what is stated in the verses and viewing that also in line with other Scriptures, it seems clear that God is speaking of male specifically here and not mankind in general. It would be rather silly to say that women should not have authority in the church and then a few verses later allow women to pastor a church.


Yes, I can understand how that would be seen as insulting.

I'll just say this. God taught me a long time ago that it made no sense being offended by people. If someone says something that is offensive to me, I must evaluate whether it is true or not. If it is true, then I need to yield to that truth and acknowledge it, even if I "feel" offended. If it is not true, then I can reject it as there is no need to "feel" offended about a lie.

So for me personally, I am not so concerned with how statements make me feel as I am in finding out whether they are true. Sometimes the truth hurts. I know that first-hand. :pink:

I am not saying that the accusations you list above are valid, I am only saying that there is a more important question than the fact that they may be insulting, namely is there any truth in it? IF you and your wife were actually deceived in this regard, would there really be a way of communicating that which is not considered offensive?

Jesus acknowledged that His words might be offensive at times. Yet, he admonishes us ot press on for Truth nonetheless. We cannot let our emotions govern for us what is Truth, for they are deceptive. I am not speaking solely to your situation now, but in general. How we feel about something is not the barometer for truth. I am sure too that you already know this. Just wanted to say it explicitly. ;)


Tommy, I hope that I have never been rude or ugly to you. Hopefully, I can say this to all (though some may disagree LOL). Although we have not discussed this before now, I have known that this was a point of disagreement between us since first learning that your wife is a pastor. I still cherish our discussions and pray continually for you and your family.

If I were to be honest, I would have to say, Yes, I think it is unscriptural for women to be pastors and yes, I would say that such are deceived in this area. However, there are surely areas of my faith where you might say the same. All in all, I commit to sharing with you and praying for you as I hope you do for me.

God Bless!!!
Hello friend:wave:
All in all, I salute your rational thought process. If you go back to my original post here in this thread, it was intended to tell SOT that there are many ways to interpret what the Bible says. I then explained my denominational tradition, informed him that he would hear other, sometimes opposite doctrines, and suggested that he study for himself with prayer and humility and an open spirit (well, I may not have said all of that, but you get the point).
Anyway, what I find remarkable is that for me, it is perfectly normal for others to read, study, and prayerfully understand scripture differently than I. Others seem to struggle with that. Perhaps it is my denominational stance on finding God's will for our lives as I explained above to SOT.
While I still see some of your answers as making a judgement call to accept some parts of Timothy as mandatory and others as not or as illustrations, I accept and even understand your position.
To me, there are always things scriptural that SEEM to be contradictory. You and I probably agree that when faced with such a situation, it is up to us to rectify that discrepancy as we cannot simply disregard some part of the Bible. Take for instance the Scirpture that crazy liz (maybe not so crazy afterall;) ) put forth. It says that Priscilla and Aquilla explained to Apollos "the way of God more adequately" (NIV). Additionally Timothy says (as has already been posted) "I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent." (again, NIV).
You and I both, as we study diligently to rightly divide the word, seek God's assistance through the Holy Spirit, we neither want to teach that which is contrary to the Word. So, we begin to study other scriptures and related texts. Perhaps we study commentaries and theologians to get their perspective--and we continue to pray. Without realizing how much, most of us are affected by our theological upbringing--the doctrine and teaching we received when our faith was in its formitive years. It affects us enough that it can color our understanding of scripture (Wesley would say this is the experience factor).
As it is all said and done, both of us choose that one of the passages should be taken more at face value than the other. For you, you see Paul's instruction to Timothy as an etched in stone mandate for all, therefore, the passage in Acts of Prescilla's teaching Apollos needs some further explaination that makes sense in light of the literal reading of Timothy, so you say, "This Scripture does not say that Priscilla taught Apollos. It shows that Aquilla and Priscilla taught Apollos. While Priscilla was definitely a part of this interaction, she was there alongside the headship of her husband. So truthfully, we really don't know what the nature of the interaction here was. There are many times when my husband and I will minister to others. Although this is a joint effort, I am supporting him in this endeavor and working alongside him to minister. We also know that many women were co-workers of the apostles, but that does not mean that were given places of authority over them or any man."
As for me, I read it and the passage in acts (as the only book of a Historical genre in the New Testament) seems more like face value stuff to me. Luke was doing his best to leave us a history--and I take into account that while women in minstry were rare in my early days as a Christian in the United Methodist Church, they did exist--so I accept what is said in Acts at face value. Apollos accepted instruction in their own little house church from a woman. So, then--I now have to decide what is to be done with Paul's letter to Timothy, so after much study and prayer, I believe that Paul was writing to a specific pastor of his own rules for a church, but they were by no means meant to be classified as rules that would still be in context for every church of every day.
This is the point, for me. You and I have some things we have agreed on in other posts--others we have not--this one, we do not--but we both are sincere in our efforts, both seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit and both come to different understandings. Can we both be "right?" Tough question. My answer? We're both probably right and wrong about things. We both agree that Jesus Christ is the son of God and our savior, so I'm not worried if one of us or both of us misunderstand the other stuff--it'll work out in the end and we'll laugh about it in Heaven (you, me AND our spouses!). Can we both be right? Who knows, in our limited understanding of God, perhaps he actually has some way that is completely beyond our understanding to make that a reality.
And of course, I will pray for you and continue to share with you.
God bless
Tommy
 
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herev said:
Hello friend:wave:
All in all, I salute your rational thought process. If you go back to my original post here in this thread, it was intended to tell SOT that there are many ways to interpret what the Bible says. I then explained my denominational tradition, informed him that he would hear other, sometimes opposite doctrines, and suggested that he study for himself with prayer and humility and an open spirit (well, I may not have said all of that, but you get the point).
Anyway, what I find remarkable is that for me, it is perfectly normal for others to read, study, and prayerfully understand scripture differently than I. Others seem to struggle with that. Perhaps it is my denominational stance on finding God's will for our lives as I explained above to SOT.
While I still see some of your answers as making a judgement call to accept some parts of Timothy as mandatory and others as not or as illustrations, I accept and even understand your position.
To me, there are always things scriptural that SEEM to be contradictory. You and I probably agree that when faced with such a situation, it is up to us to rectify that discrepancy as we cannot simply disregard some part of the Bible. Take for instance the Scirpture that crazy liz (maybe not so crazy afterall;) ) put forth. It says that Priscilla and Aquilla explained to Apollos "the way of God more adequately" (NIV). Additionally Timothy says (as has already been posted) "I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent." (again, NIV).
You and I both, as we study diligently to rightly divide the word, seek God's assistance through the Holy Spirit, we neither want to teach that which is contrary to the Word. So, we begin to study other scriptures and related texts. Perhaps we study commentaries and theologians to get their perspective--and we continue to pray. Without realizing how much, most of us are affected by our theological upbringing--the doctrine and teaching we received when our faith was in its formitive years. It affects us enough that it can color our understanding of scripture (Wesley would say this is the experience factor).
As it is all said and done, both of us choose that one of the passages should be taken more at face value than the other. For you, you see Paul's instruction to Timothy as an etched in stone mandate for all, therefore, the passage in Acts of Prescilla's teaching Apollos needs some further explaination that makes sense in light of the literal reading of Timothy, so you say, "This Scripture does not say that Priscilla taught Apollos. It shows that Aquilla and Priscilla taught Apollos. While Priscilla was definitely a part of this interaction, she was there alongside the headship of her husband. So truthfully, we really don't know what the nature of the interaction here was. There are many times when my husband and I will minister to others. Although this is a joint effort, I am supporting him in this endeavor and working alongside him to minister. We also know that many women were co-workers of the apostles, but that does not mean that were given places of authority over them or any man."
As for me, I read it and the passage in acts (as the only book of a Historical genre in the New Testament) seems more like face value stuff to me. Luke was doing his best to leave us a history--and I take into account that while women in minstry were rare in my early days as a Christian in the United Methodist Church, they did exist--so I accept what is said in Acts at face value. Apollos accepted instruction in their own little house church from a woman. So, then--I now have to decide what is to be done with Paul's letter to Timothy, so after much study and prayer, I believe that Paul was writing to a specific pastor of his own rules for a church, but they were by no means meant to be classified as rules that would still be in context for every church of every day.
This is the point, for me. You and I have some things we have agreed on in other posts--others we have not--this one, we do not--but we both are sincere in our efforts, both seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit and both come to different understandings. Can we both be "right?" Tough question. My answer? We're both probably right and wrong about things. We both agree that Jesus Christ is the son of God and our savior, so I'm not worried if one of us or both of us misunderstand the other stuff--it'll work out in the end and we'll laugh about it in Heaven (you, me AND our spouses!). Can we both be right? Who knows, in our limited understanding of God, perhaps he actually has some way that is completely beyond our understanding to make that a reality.
And of course, I will pray for you and continue to share with you.
God bless
Tommy
I understand your comments Tommy.

Have a wonderful evening! :)
 
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In essence we live in 2 different kingdoms. The ideal would be that men would have the authority in both, but because of sin and rebellion women have been given authority in the secular world. Since the Spiritual world (that of the church) we seek to do things as God would have us do we have to look to his word for direction. His creation order gave Man the authority over the woman. She is to be submissive to him as the Church is to Christ.

I don't think we as Christians are meant to live in two different kingdoms. We are supposed to live in the Kingdom of God at all times. That is the essence of being salt and light. So why do Christian men and women not practice what they preach in this instance?

If you haven't read "I suffer not a woman..." by Kroeger and Kroeger you should. You won't agree with it, but that is no reason for not reading it! It examines that Scripture in the light of Ephesian society and beliefs. I am sure you are not the sort of person who refuses to read something that might challenge them.

I trust that we can agree to differ.

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2 Tim 3:16 All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.
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Rom 15:4-5
For whatever things were written before were written for our learning, that we through the patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope.
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- Conclusion?

When the Bible says, and not to let everyone in this entire forum twist these scriptures to there own utter destruction, (2 pet 3:15-16) which is typically done with Paul's books (as the scripture quotes), But in multiple verses, MULTIPLE, it quotes very very very directly, Let the women learn in all silence all submission, let them remain silent, let them learn in silence. Then Paul even goes on to say, they are not permitted to speak, but to be submissive, as the law says. And If they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home! for it is SHAMEFUL for a women to speak at church.

If we can reason our way out of those words, why do we read our Bible?

As it has been said of many wise men of old, People here what they want to hear, and believe what they want to believe. When I see a woman as a "SPEAKER" of a church, the TV goes off, it's a direct and blatent disobedience of the scriptures.


Many will come to me and say, "Lord, Lord" Did we not prophesy in your name?? And in your name cast out demons??? and in your name do MANY WONDERFUL WORKS?!
And I will profess unto them, I never knew you, Get away from me, you who work lawlessness. (Matt 7:21-23)


I felt I needed to speak up reading most of these posts in this forum. I mean we even have people today who feel they can be GAY and be a christian I mean come on, stop with the outright blasphemy, I just am so hurt by the things I read and see today. But that of course is a whole different topic.

All the best!!!!!!

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Maccie said:
If you haven't read "I suffer not a woman..." by Kroeger and Kroeger you should.

Excellent suggestion.

However, I would again like to point out that all nearly all the arguments that have been posted here do not address the OP, "Is it right for a male to take instruction from a female?"

Of course it is. Read Proverbs. Start with the first chapter:

[bible]proverbs 1:8[/bible]

Wisdom is portrayed as a woman throughout this book.

Regardless of anyone's feelings about hierarchies based on gender, there simply is nothing in the Bible against men learning from women. The OP is concerned about posting questions and having women post answers to them. Should he turn away from any answers to his questions that may be posted by women? All your argument about what positions or functions women may or may not hold in the church do not address the OP.

I have noticed SOT hasn't posted here for a while. Would one of the male participants be willing to send this young brother a PM addressing his specific question? I am concerned that our arguments have driven away a young and vulnerable brother. Please, can we show some personal consideration for him?

Thank you.
 
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Crazy Liz said:
However, I would again like to point out that all nearly all the arguments that have been posted here do not address the OP, "Is it right for a male to take instruction from a female?"

Of course it is. Read Proverbs. Start with the first chapter:

Proverbs 1:8My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother:
Please also note that the "instruction" or teaching still comes from the father in this text, not the mother.

Further, this is not the best example for the OP's question, as a child is called to obey his parents. The question of whether a parent should instruct a child is not the best illustration of whether a women should teach a man.


Crazy Liz said:
Regardless of anyone's feelings about hierarchies based on gender, there simply is nothing in the Bible against men learning from women.
You are absolutely correct here. I would hope that we could all learn from each other, whether male or female. There is, however, prohibitions on women teaching men, which is not the samething.

Crazy Liz said:
The OP is concerned about posting questions and having women post answers to them. Should he turn away from any answers to his questions that may be posted by women? All your argument about what positions or functions women may or may not hold in the church do not address the OP.
I disagree. It is the context of women teaching men that even raises this as a concern for the OP. Therefore, a proper and Scripturla understanding of that text is appropriate.

However, as a woman, I have not hesitated to post here because my posts are merely internet forms of my conversation. I am not teaching a man by merely conversing with him in this forum. Neither does reading or even agreeing with a woman's post mean a man is being taught by a woman.
 
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You're not getting my point at all.

Ainesis said:
Please also note that the "instruction" or teaching still comes from the father in this text, not the mother.

So you think it means the mother makes the laws and the father teaches them to the children? That's a novel interpretation!

Further, this is not the best example for the OP's question, as a child is called to obey his parents. The question of whether a parent should instruct a child is not the best illustration of whether a women should teach a man.

This is where you're still not getting it. :mad:

The OP did not ask whether a woman should teach a man, but whether a man should learn from a woman.

You are absolutely correct here. I would hope that we could all learn from each other, whether male or female. There is, however, prohibitions on women teaching men, which is not the samething.

I'm assuming, for the sake of this thread that waht you are saying is true. This is why I don't understand why this thread has taken off on a side-track that does not answer the OP. Considering SOT's youth and vulnerable situation, I would expect those who are more mature not to hijack his thread into a side argument, but to help him. :help:

I disagree. It is the context of women teaching men that even raises this as a concern for the OP. Therefore, a proper and Scripturla understanding of that text is appropriate.

However, as a woman, I have not hesitated to post here because my posts are merely internet forms of my conversation. I am not teaching a man by merely conversing with him in this forum. Neither does reading or even agreeing with a woman's post mean a man is being taught by a woman.

:confused: I don't want to presume, but the OP said:

I am finding responces from females difficult to deal with, does anyone have Biblical reason why this 'feeling' is wrong in me?

I understood his question to mean he's having trouble dealing with the fact that women have posted answers to his questions in this forum.

10 pages of argument about women teaching in response to this OP is a real shame. :o :(
 
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I think there would be no problems if we all kept our eyes on the Big Picture. Of being Christ-Like. How we are to act in treating others that is pleasing to God. Yes the man is the Head of woman however their roles are equal in value to God. Think about it - If a man is too busy serving and a woman is busy submitting.. there is no problems.

Our roles are equal in teaching, nurturing and loving. We are all taught to be Christ Like correct?!! Just remember all roles can be interchangeable when the need arises as long as it is equally edifing and the action pleases and glorifys God.

I also as a woman prefer to give the man the respect of leader. However, ruling over a woman can be misconstrued as tyranny. The minute that people start thinking that a man is better than, or above a woman is when you really need to go back to the scriptures and re-think. We each have different role sure but both have the same capabilities.

God sent his Son - not his daughter to nurture the entire world of beings. So therefore we know men are capable of nurturing also. Sometimes it is easier for certain subject to be handled by the same sexed individuals. But is it wrong for a female to make suggestions or help in understanding something that relates the BIG PICTURE. Absolutely not. It is just as simple as that.

Now if a female is taking over the position as the Head of the family.. without true cause.. we know that that can distroy a family. But I guess that can be for another thread. However there are those times that a woman is placed in the position in her family to be the leader. There is nothing wrong with her for assuming that role when the other party is not doing what God expects for them. We both have beautiful roles laid out for us.. but they are equal in value if you are missing one...nothing works.

If you are thinking any other way, that women should be silent take time to pray about it and read others opinions, try them against the Bible. I believe this is old Jewish Law. Not really totally geared for what Christ has in mind. I have often found that when I think of it like a ladder. The Big Picture is that God wants one day to look down on our faces and see Christ. If I start there.....and work backwards down the ladder..other things become clearer to me. But when I find that I start a the bottom rung....it takes longer to get to that Big Picture.:yum: IMHO
 
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Crazy Liz said:
You're not getting my point at all.
Oh no. I get it. I just disagree.

Crazy Liz said:
So you think it means the mother makes the laws and the father teaches them to the children? That's a novel interpretation!
Is this what I said? :doh:

I stated quite clearly that children are to obey their parents. The word parents usually refers to both the mother and the father.

My point to you was that the verse you offer does not support women teaching men for 2 reasons:
  1. Children are commanded to obey the instruction of their parents (both of them)
  2. The Scripture you offer has the instruction coming from the father, not the mother
  3. The relationship between mother and son is not the same as the relationship between a man and woman
Crazy Liz said:
This is where you're still not getting it.

The OP did not ask whether a woman should teach a man, but whether a man should learn from a woman.
And the reason he is concerned about this is because of the Biblical prohibitions on women teaching men. So again, a Scriptural examination of text in that area is appropriate. If you don't think so, then you are free of course not to address that.

Crazy Liz said:
I'm assuming, for the sake of this thread that waht you are saying is true. This is why I don't understand why this thread has taken off on a side-track that does not answer the OP. Considering SOT's youth and vulnerable situation, I would expect those who are more mature not to hijack his thread into a side argument, but to help him.
If you feel there is help he needs that has not been provided, then by all means offer it. I offered help and direction as I felt led, and I am assuming that others here have done the same.

Crazy Liz said:
I understood his question to mean he's having trouble dealing with the fact that women have posted answers to his questions in this forum.

10 pages of argument about women teaching in response to this OP is a real shame.
Why do you think he is having a problem receiving posts from women?

I actually have appreciated the discussion on the role of women teaching and feel it is directly related to the nature of his concerns.
 
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