Greetings guys! You guys probably don't know much about me, and that's cool.. Hopefully, within the next few weeks, I'll get to know yall pretty well =)
Well, this upcoming March, I will have been single for 10 years up to date. Knowing that I'm only 21, I was only 11 during my last go around. I was only a kid, so it really dosen't count. Well, whenever I get older, I am either shot down or stood up. For me, it took a while to develop the courage to finally ask a girl out. By my junior year in High School, this girl stood me up 4 times. Yes, it was four times, only because I wanted the relationship soo bad, I let her. A couple years later, I met a girl at college, well here's the story, which I have copied and pasted from another thread.. Here goes=
As soon as I begun as freshman at a junior college (this was 2 years ago), I met this girl @ the Church sponsered School lunches. She also happened to be in a class with me. Over the next few months, we come to find out that our backgrounds were very similar. After the course of the next few months, we developed a strong friendship that stands true to this day. Last Spring, we went on a trip together, and I finally came to terms with the fact that I liked her, and I had strong feelings for her. During the whole month of April, I was soo set on getting to know her better. Knowing that she comes from a conservative homeschooled background, I knew that she was real careful about who she is with, and wont date until she knows she is serious about who she wants to get with. I came from a similar background, but not as serious. In early May, I handed her a letter telling her how much I liked her, and yes.. it was a letter.. A month later she called me up and we met up at a coffee place. She thanked me for the letter and for my patience. She told me that right now, she dosent feel impressed to begin in a relationship right at the moment, and needs to keep her focus on school. That was fine since I really didn't expect a relationship anyways. She knew clear about how much I liked her. She also said she wanted to hang out more, but do it more in group settings. That's cool, but i'm not the best in the world at that type of thing. It comes with being an introvert. Whenever school started back up, we just talk on email, and haven't seen each other. We'll probably get to hang out some during the holidays. Okay, here's the current issue. I got word that she plans on going to Tech (my current school) next spring, which can be good or bad!! The best case scenario is if she comes to school, our grades go up, and we grow in friendship spending more time together. This friendship can soon turn into a serious relationship, *Da da da da!!!* Worst case scenario is if she goes, I end up chasing her, my grades tank, and that's the end of us!
Well, there you have it there.. but honestly, it's like I see the whole world with a significant other.. For me, I have had absolutely 00000 luck. Is it really this hard to find a gf?
Andrew
Well, this upcoming March, I will have been single for 10 years up to date. Knowing that I'm only 21, I was only 11 during my last go around. I was only a kid, so it really dosen't count. Well, whenever I get older, I am either shot down or stood up. For me, it took a while to develop the courage to finally ask a girl out. By my junior year in High School, this girl stood me up 4 times. Yes, it was four times, only because I wanted the relationship soo bad, I let her. A couple years later, I met a girl at college, well here's the story, which I have copied and pasted from another thread.. Here goes=
As soon as I begun as freshman at a junior college (this was 2 years ago), I met this girl @ the Church sponsered School lunches. She also happened to be in a class with me. Over the next few months, we come to find out that our backgrounds were very similar. After the course of the next few months, we developed a strong friendship that stands true to this day. Last Spring, we went on a trip together, and I finally came to terms with the fact that I liked her, and I had strong feelings for her. During the whole month of April, I was soo set on getting to know her better. Knowing that she comes from a conservative homeschooled background, I knew that she was real careful about who she is with, and wont date until she knows she is serious about who she wants to get with. I came from a similar background, but not as serious. In early May, I handed her a letter telling her how much I liked her, and yes.. it was a letter.. A month later she called me up and we met up at a coffee place. She thanked me for the letter and for my patience. She told me that right now, she dosent feel impressed to begin in a relationship right at the moment, and needs to keep her focus on school. That was fine since I really didn't expect a relationship anyways. She knew clear about how much I liked her. She also said she wanted to hang out more, but do it more in group settings. That's cool, but i'm not the best in the world at that type of thing. It comes with being an introvert. Whenever school started back up, we just talk on email, and haven't seen each other. We'll probably get to hang out some during the holidays. Okay, here's the current issue. I got word that she plans on going to Tech (my current school) next spring, which can be good or bad!! The best case scenario is if she comes to school, our grades go up, and we grow in friendship spending more time together. This friendship can soon turn into a serious relationship, *Da da da da!!!* Worst case scenario is if she goes, I end up chasing her, my grades tank, and that's the end of us!
Well, there you have it there.. but honestly, it's like I see the whole world with a significant other.. For me, I have had absolutely 00000 luck. Is it really this hard to find a gf?
Andrew
