So again, am I to understand that there is no such word as "secular"?
Sure, secular means not part of a "religious institution", that does not mean you do not have creeds and world views, beliefs, and dogmas.
You yourself, have told us a few of your dogmas, about how you feel what is moral is best for humanity, how you do not take anything as absolute truth, that science will provide answers, etc, etc, etc.
These are creeds, dogmas, and beliefs.
Are they "religious" maybe not, but they are in some cases matters of Faith.. IE: Nothing is Absolute Truth, is a matter of Faith, for there may very well be, absolute Truths, you just have a "faith" that there is not.
The major difference between the two, is mutability.
You could just change any creed you wanted to, as you went on in life, the creeds and beliefs you held so dear at say 24, may mean nothing to you when you reach the age of 56. In this case, the Secular, with it's very unstable foundation and mutability, is vastly different then say Christianity.
Now.. Religions... they can be across the board, Christinaity is just one of the many religions, it is not the model, or all of what Religions are, now, it seems you tend to use the ideal that following what Christ taught, and being Religious as the same thing.
They are not.
Just as I could follow Plato, and not be Religious, but I would adhere to the teachings of Plato.
There is a lot you are missing, and a lot you do not seem to grasp, there is also an amazing amount of things that you try to simplify, that are not simple things.
This is were much of your confusion comes from, is the simplification of complex things, there is a lot lost in "translation" from what is, and what you simplify them to.
Atheism has no rules whatsoever.
Can you be a Christian and an Atheist at the same time?
Where do you honestly get this from? Does a-santaclausism have rules as well?
Sigh
Man.. I miss the Invisible pink unicorns...
I'm a different type of learner than most people. Instead of learning by watching others and duplicating their behavior, I've learned more from watching people and seeing their mistakes and learning from them.
Cute ideal, cute claim, and you might even believe it.
I'm not influenced by people's behavior as much as others around me because I don't feel the need to act like others. Sure, you can't help but be influenced by others to an extent, but personally, I'm not one of those types that cared what "everyone else was doing" and allowe my peers to influence my behavior.
This is a long discussion, but in the simple format, be you go against the flow, or with it, you still are affected by the flow.
You can not "rage against the system" is there is no system to rage against.
Just as you rage against "religious" this is a "flow" for you, going against "Them" (the "Them" being us Christians).
It's all about influence.
You are right. But my only point in bringing up how I came up was to try and explain to you that I'm not some typical human being that holds firm to some dogma. I'm open to any belief, but it's got to make sense. I'm not going to be naive when listening to someone's belief and I'm not going to believe something just because it gives me warm fuzzies.
ok.
We went to church on occasion with the grandparents just to get us exposed to it. They didn't omit anything. They did not shelter us from outside beliefs as you may think and like so many other parents do with their kids.
That would be your view of things.
If that makes you feel better to label me something else, then go right ahead but the problem with that is that now you have a ton of other beliefs that you automatically believe about me "as an agnotic" that will inevitably be incorrect. So labeling me doesn't accomplish anything.
It removes misconceptions. IE: I would want to know a basis for yoru stand point, and unless I have that, IE: You would say I am a Christian, this is a Basis for a stand point. a Necessary starting block.
Before assuming anything about me, why not ask first. I have not done that with you. I have asked you questions as to what you personally believe since I understand that no two christians believe the same thing. You, on the other hand, have grouped us all into a big bowl of atheist soup and assumed that we believe X, Y, and Z. The least you could do is preface your statements by saying "some atheists" or "most atheists" as I do when I say "some christians", when I talk about my experience with christians.
There are some uniform beliefs. IE: An Atheist does not believe in God, as such, by that Creed, they need to accept some things. Even if they do not "think about" such things.
Just as Christian needs to accept somethings, to be a Christian, even if they never gave a lick of thought to it.
It is the matter, of life in General, and following a Creed.
Allow me to explain, lets take Santa Clause, Ok, we don't believe in this "elf" but we would need to accept somethings along with that, like.. Reindeer do not fly, an Sleigh can not travel faster then the speed of light while being pulled by flying reindeer, That there is no magical factory in the north pole that has tons of elves making tons of toys for good little boys and girls, etc.
All these are "byproduct" beliefs, and we would all have to adhere to them, if we were "anti-Santa-Clause-ist".. even if we never gave a lick of thought to it.
However, if you were to accept, that maybe one of those things were true, then why not all of them? it becomes a package deal.
Can you accept flaying reindeer, and not give pause to the fact that maybe Santa is real? It is a trade mark of his ya know.
Now, I hope I have explained this to you..
Surely you know the answer to this question. It's the same reason why you are not content when a muslim says "because the Koran says so".
I have read the Koran..
It did not have what I required to take the belief of their God serious.
If you say the same of the Bible, then say it, move on, have a great life.
What more do you want? You want me to try and convince you? Not gonna happen.
It can't possibly be that hard to understand where I'm coming from by now, since you know what it's like to not believe in another's religion. Just because you don't believe in islam, does that mean you have any set of "rules" you follow? No, so then why is it taht I have "rules" as someone that does not believe in christianity?
Yah, it does.. when I reject Islam, I need to reject a specific list of things.
In my case, I also accept a specific list of things when I embraced following Christ.
Just as you would have to reject a specific list of things to reject Christianity, and accept some things, to embrace being an agnostic.
There are some uniform things involved, and some things, that are just personal.
Like for example, all Christians follow Christ. if you don't follow Christ, well, your not a Christian. It's quite simple.. really.
All Agnostics, should have the belief that they do not know the complete answers. If you believe that you do know the complete answers, then your not really an agnostic, now are you?
I challenge you to find where I said one negative thing about your religion other than saying I don't believe in it. I think I have been very respectful about our discussion and lately, you have turned in the other direction.
You mean other then entire topics where all you did was belittle peoples beliefs and make a mockery of their faith?
Like this
ENTIRE TOPIC... for example?
You have been nothing but stellar, other then things like that.. really you have...
I have thrown no hissy fits, or said any of the disparaging things that you have brought to the table in recent posts. If this is the way you roll, then I guess I'll have to deal with it, but I just expected more coming from christians....because despite our differing views, I respect a good number of christians for their treatment of their fellow man. I just wish I could get the same respect in turn, since I have been nothing but respectful in our discussions thus far.
Respect is a funny thing.. see I gave it to you at the outset, you know, I was under the impression that you were a real seeker, and really had questions, where you really wanted to learn.
You have corrected that misconception of mine.. in glowing lights.
Now you back pedal and go "Oh I have done nothing but be respectful why are you so mean" sorry that does not work, it's a pathetic play at an emotional appeal, to tell the truth.
You have shown your true colors, and if I respond in kind after seeing them. I gave you the chance, and fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me (unlike president Bush, I know the quote).
Your under the impression that as a Christian. I am suppose to "take it" sorry, you do not know scripture then if that is your belief.
Answer a fool to their folly or they will be wise in their own eyes.
So spare me this.. "I have been wronged" you have brought my responses to you, on yourself. You have no one to blame for my actions to you, then yourself.
I don't demand that you have answers as well. You claim to have answers, which is why I ask you for these answers that you have.
Meh..
I thought I was an agnostic now? I don't "follow" anything, and I don't knwo what else I can say to get you understand that I don't follow any belief. Do you "follow" a-santanclausism or a-unicornism?
I really.. really miss the Invisible pink unicorns.. and Santa has been done to death in GA, you might.. want to try something else in the future when you move on to GA.
If so, then I will, for the sake of argument, say I "follow" atheism or agnisticism.
Explained above, in detail. You have not grasped it by now, then that is your choice.
You DO have creeds and dogmatic beliefs, you DO have Things you adhere to, regardless of what you believe. It is a Religious belief in the manner that it is about your religious outlook on life.
Anti-Santa, has nothing to do with my "religious" outlook, as it does not affect how I view, accept, or reject any religious belief.
If you can not grasp this, then I am sorry, that is your own limits, it is not for a lack of effort on my part.
But if that's the case, like I said before, you probably need to make room in your "religion" section of your profile, because I could come up with a ton of different creeds you adhere to.
Explained, answered, more then a few times.
The example has been shot down, because it has been used too much before. It they do not call it PRATT in GA, and bother to give you an answer, you will be lucky.
God Bless
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