I don't dispute anything you've said there. I simply believe there is only One who is truly holy as God Himself is holy, and that is our sinless Saviour, Jesus Christ. His perfect holiness and righteousness is what those who are found in Him, are clothed with in the sight of God. It is that perfect holiness and righteousness that justifies us, which is given to those who believe and trust in Him, as a gracious and free gift of loving kindness. It is His perfection that is reckoned to us on account of our faith and trust in Him, whilst our imperfection and sin is cast upon Him in our place. We are made holy because Christ is holy, and those who believe and are baptized in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, are to be found in Him.
First, you need to understand that I do not believe in "Works Alone Salvationism" (Which is what I believe Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 3, Galatians 3, and Titus 3:5 says). I believe we are initially and ultimately saved by God's grace through faith. So faith is the element needed to access God's saving grace that is a free gift. In 1 Peter 1, we clearly see grace mentioned, but we also see holy conduct, as well. While we do need to believe in Christ for salvation, the immediate context of 1 Peter 1:16 to taking about holy action and not in believing in Christ's sacrifice alone.
1. As obedient children (verse 14).
2. Not fashioning yourselves according to former lusts in ignorance (verse 14).
3. Be holy in all manner of conversation (verse 15).
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4. The Father judges according to every man's work (verse 17).
5. Pass the time of your sojourning here in fear (verse 17).
"Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren,
see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently" (1 Peter 1:22).
Second, I also believe there is no holiness apart from God or Christ. I believe Jesus saves both in Justification (John 3:16, Ephesians 2:8, Titus 3:5), and I believe Jesus saves in Sanctification (Romans 13:14, John 15:5, Philippians 1:11, Philippians 4:13, Hebrews 13:21). Yes, within the Trinity: The Father, and the Holy Spirit also do work inside the believer (playing a part in the Sanctification process) for us to live holy, as well. Without this holiness, no man shall see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14) (Please take note that Hebrews 12:14 is yet another verse where the immediate context is in reference again to holy action and not in believing in Christ's sacrifice alone; For it says, "Follow peace with all men" which plays part in: "without which, no man shall see the Lord.").
Three, gifts are free, but if we are not responsible with those gifts, we can ruin them. For example: If I receive a car as a free gift, that does not mean I can run red lights, drive drunk, and hit pedestrians with it. I would not have my free gift for very long if I did that. Likewise, if a man receives a wife from the Lord (from his praying for many years) as a gift, that does not mean he can be unfaithful to her and expect her to still want to be married to him. So while we do not technically earn salvation (like trading dollars for hours at a job), we do have to do work as a part of taking care of the gift of salvation who lives inside of us (Who is Jesus Christ). Remember, those poor people Jesus talked about? Jesus essentially said if we do not help the poor (at some point in our life), it will be as if we did not do it unto Him and we will be cast into everlasting fire (Matthew 25:31-46). It's all about abiding and nurturing that relationship. Jesus says if we love Him, we will keep His commandments (John 14:15). If we are not keeping His commandments, we do not love Jesus. For can you truly not love Jesus and still enter His Kingdom?
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I never for a second said we should justify sin in any way. We are to hate it, and fight against it in our lives on a daily basis. This is the life a Christian is called to, but it is not what justifies us in the sight of God; that is found only in Christ. We live in this way by the power of the Holy Spirit, and in the freedom of knowing we are already justified in Christ. We have already been judged and declared righteous in Christ, and it is now our vocation to embrace the Law of God as His children. We are to judge our lives by it each day, seeking to put to death the deeds of our flesh constantly, flowing from a grateful heart.
This is where the double message sets in. On the one hand, you are saved by God's grace and you do not need to worry about technically living holy, but yet on the other hand you believe that you must strive to live holy. Why? What is the purpose in living holy if Jesus already paid the price for you to live holy? Was His grace that ineffectual?
See, what you fail to understand is that Christ's sacrifice is imputed to us not only by believing in Him and His shed blood (John 3:16, Romans 3:25), but Christ's sacrifice is imputed to us when we "walk in the light" (1 John 1:7) (Note: "walk in the light is loving your brother" - 1 John 2:9-10, which loving your neighbor (brother) is the same equivalent of keeping the Moral Law - See Romans 13:8-10). Christ is the author of eternal salvation also to all who OBEY Him (Hebrews 5:9). For if we willfully sin after we receive the knowledge of the truth, there remains no more sacrifice for sin (Hebrews 10:26).
God says in His Word that we can overcome grievous sin in this life (1 Corinthians 10:13, 1 Peter 4:1-2, Galatians 5:16, Galatians 5:24, Romans 13:14, 2 Corinthians 7:1). So if we deny God's way of true Justification (that His sacrifice does not pay for willful sin) and we deny God's true way of Sanctification (in overcoming grievous sin) we are denying God's narrow way that leads unto life (Whereby FEW there be that finds it).
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"To paraphrase my pastor, we were once wretched sinners that could be likened to orphaned beggars cast into the streets, who were taken from where they were by a kind and loving man, and adopted them as his own children. It so happened that man was a king, and as a result of being adopted, those orphaned beggars were now truly part of a royal family. Not as outsiders temporarily invited in, but those who were now truly at home where they belonged. Would it be right for them to still identify as orphaned beggars? Or would it be better they identify as royal children, whose rightful response to their loving father, would be to seek to live their lives now in the light of what they now are, thanks to his benevolence?
Whilst it is most certainly true that Christ came to save sinners, it is equally true that He saved us for the purpose of being adopted into the Ultimate Royal Family there ever was or will be. Is it not right and proper that we should now identify as the adopted children of God we have now become, and seek to live accordingly with a thankful heart, leaving our old sinner self to drown in our baptismal waters?"
But if those orphaned beggars one day forgot about his benevolence and they decided to murder or rape the royal king's other family members, is the king going to have mercy on them regardless if they do not change? Surely not. At some point they will be put in prison or executed. Bad behavior is never condoned or approved of by God; And just because a person is taken from a bad life before does not mean they will be forever grateful. In fact, if they are not obedient to the King, that means they are not grateful. If the servant knew that he had a free pass to be a son no matter what he did (like murder, and rape), he could then think he could get away with doing those things at some point. Therein lies the problem with your belief. For in order for your sin and still be saved plan of salvation to work, .... the Lord would have to agree with it. God would have to agree with your doing evil to save you if you believe you can do evil and still be saved. But God cannot agree with evil. God is holy and good and righteous, and just. Salvation does not work as you say. God is good.