Is it bad for a single man to talk to a single woman and give her negative theories..

[wvmtnkid]

Sometimes I think if women didn't exist, there would not be a need for things like, tylenol, excedrin, advil, alleeve, zoloft, paxil, lexapro, celexea...

Hmmmm, I always thought men where the cause of this.......

 

[Stanfi]

Hmmmm, I always thought men where the cause of this.......

No, it is women.

 

[katej1]

So, Basically, mrstance, what you're saying is that since you have headaches and know a lot of women who act a certain way, all women are inferior? Not much of a theory in my book.

I'm seriously willing to debate this with you, just give me some evidence!

As for women sucking men dry, I will admit, SOME women do.....but NOT ALL!!! I could say the exact same thing about men!

As for marriage, men do the same thing to women every day, I've seen it happen.

 

[Stanfi]

So, Basically, mrstance, what you're saying is that since you have headaches and know a lot of women who act a certain way, all women are inferior? Not much of a theory in my book.

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Well since you have one of those little icons over there by your name your one of THEM, so I would would expect you to disagree.

I'm seriously willing to debate this with you, just give me some evidence!

As for women sucking men dry, I will admit, SOME women do.....but NOT ALL!!! I could say the exact same thing about men!

As for marriage, men do the same thing to women every day, I've seen it happen.

Sounds like you have your own evidence!! I would say those men you describe are just poor little boys who grew up hanging around girls to much, and the negative infuluence rubbed off on him.

 

[katej1]

In case you haven't noticed, I am more than willing to consent that you have a point, when you have a point. BUT....only when you have a point! You can't just say "all women...blah blah blah" and not back it up with something!

And if what you say about men being poor little boys is true, there are an awful lot of them around!!!!
And in your world, all men are perfect? LOL


I think you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning!!!


**On a side note, can someone please tell me how to quote what someone else says in my reply? I'd really appreciate it! Thanks so much!!!

 

[Warrior Poet]

Well i will put you on blast.
Fisrt off wether you can comprehend it or not there big guy, the women in the work force is on a steady rise and sorry to burst your bubble, but they are pretty good at what they do. Womens soccer more popular then mens, women see color better then men, live longer, inferior is not the right word here, built and geared differently is a better choice. You push a 8 pound baby outta your manhood, or live with cramps once a month, you wouldn't be here if it wasnt for women, i mean you have a mom right?, tell her she is inferior, and ill watch her slap the smirk off your face. Plus how and why is it that single women with kids out numbers single dads and it seems that they succeed better then just some single guys.

Marriage is only a trap if you fall into it, if you dotn see it, well call it love but its really stupidity, and you think this happens more to women? Then you need to go out more, love sick puppies(male puppies) thats what that is. You ever hear of the 20 year old guy marring a 85 year old rich woman, it doesnt happen shes to smart, but what about the girls who get those old men to marry them and take half of their stuff when they divorce or all of it wen they die, stupid men or smart women.....stupid men. Sure they may be getting some, but I'll put my money on the fact that they arent.

If you think kids are a mistake then do all women in the world a favor and dont marry any, or just dont father any kids, I would feel bad for them...."I love ya son but you were a mistake after i got trapped by this inferior creautre of the opposite gender". Kids arent a mistake cause they are a gift from God, he loves little kids cause he gets to watch them all day and see the wacky stuff they do, like put their head on the floor and ask for a cookie.

If a female sucks you dry then leaves you to die, you need help if
A. You cant tell you are being sucked dry, then dont date cause you arent ready.
B. If you think a women will be the death of you ...ya got issues son.

You know guys are known to have PMS too............your time of the month?

Warrior Poet

This post was meant for entertainment purposes, try thinking in the sqaure.........and laugh a little

 

[Super Gnat]

mrstace, are you feeling all right?

 

[Stanfi]

mrstace, are you feeling all right?

Super Gnat,

I'm fine!!

 

[mina]

Here is the question. There has been a lot of talk about men and women being friends and etc. Is it bad for a single man to talk to a single woman and give her negative theories on relationships such as:

1. Women are the inferior gender
2. Marriage is a trap
3. Children are accidents

What do you think, is this bad?

I was reading this again. And I still think it's bad, because it doesn't line up with what God has said in His word.

1. Women are inferior.- Galatians 3:28 "There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Mary was a woman chosen by God to bring the Savior into the world. The women were the ones that stayed by the cross while Jesus was dying. And women were the ones that Jesus choose to reveal himself to first after the resurection. God's word shows that women do have worth, that men and women are equals, but have different purposes.


2. Marriage is a trap.- Proverbs 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds what is good and recieves favor from the Lord." Marriage is from God, it was invented by God. It only becomes a trap when humans act in selfish and sinful ways within a marriage. (Human folly, not Gods)


3. Children are accidents.- Psalm 127:4-5 "Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are the sons born in one's youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them." God knows everything. He knows how many children you will have or not have. The children anyone has are planned by God. Humans may make a mistake and be surprised at the outcome of that mistake, but the child in and of it self is no accident. God says you are blessed if you have them.

If you really feel this way about these issues (and I have no idea, you may be joking for all i know), then maybe you shouldn't get married. It can have horrible effects on your future wife and children. No one wants to feel like they are an accident or a burden to your very existance.

 

[JD_shalom]

If children were accidents - then we all are accidents too. That means Jesus' birth was an accident!

Marriage can worse be a trap when you marry against God's will. He also commanded us not to be unequally yoked - if you want MORE trouble than what comes in every marriage, then find an unsaved person!!!

Women are inferior! Well then I suppose we men could have gotten as far as we have today WITHOUT women...WRONG!!!

But what must be remembered is that the man is the priest of his house, must lead, and is accountable to God. That does NOT mean he just does whatever he wants and leaves his wife out in the cold. It also does not mean that women are inferior to men. Neither does it mean that a women is to be the head in her home. (Unless she's a single parent of course).


But one thing to think about - I'm not sexist or anything but I'm just being objective.

Women want equality of opportunity with respect to men. They want to be independent - you know, there's all this hype about the "independent woman" even if she's married. But I just recently heard a comment that my female cous and bigger sis made: "What's his is mine and what's mine is mine!" LOL. I laughed and was like you couldn't be serious. Not that I'm totally for/against the statement. The man is there also to provide. But I thought y'all wanted independence, then why should you want what belongs to your man.

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Well i will put you on blast.
Fisrt off wether you can comprehend it or not there big guy, the women in the work force is on a steady rise and sorry to burst your bubble, but they are pretty good at what they do. Womens soccer more popular then mens, women see color better then men, live longer, inferior is not the right word here, built and geared differently is a better choice. You push a 8 pound baby outta your manhood, or live with cramps once a month, you wouldn't be here if it wasnt for women, i mean you have a mom right?, tell her she is inferior, and ill watch her slap the smirk off your face. Plus how and why is it that single women with kids out numbers single dads and it seems that they succeed better then just some single guys.

Marriage is only a trap if you fall into it, if you dotn see it, well call it love but its really stupidity, and you think this happens more to women? Then you need to go out more, love sick puppies(male puppies) thats what that is. You ever hear of the 20 year old guy marring a 85 year old rich woman, it doesnt happen shes to smart, but what about the girls who get those old men to marry them and take half of their stuff when they divorce or all of it wen they die, stupid men or smart women.....stupid men. Sure they may be getting some, but I'll put my money on the fact that they arent.

If you think kids are a mistake then do all women in the world a favor and dont marry any, or just dont father any kids, I would feel bad for them...."I love ya son but you were a mistake after i got trapped by this inferior creautre of the opposite gender". Kids arent a mistake cause they are a gift from God, he loves little kids cause he gets to watch them all day and see the wacky stuff they do, like put their head on the floor and ask for a cookie.

If a female sucks you dry then leaves you to die, you need help if
A. You cant tell you are being sucked dry, then dont date cause you arent ready.
B. If you think a women will be the death of you ...ya got issues son.

You know guys are known to have PMS too............your time of the month?

Warrior Poet

This post was meant for entertainment purposes, try thinking in the sqaure.........and laugh a little

now THATS MY kind of man

I think its funny that mrstace hasnt responded to your post.... perhaps he has now realized that what he said was full of cheeze whiz?

In all regards, I am hoping that what was posted by mrstace was truely a joke, trying to get a rise out of people....

Well I must take my little ol self back up to the kitchen and continue to make supper, do the dishes, laundry, vaccuum while waiting for my hubby to get home, where I can waite on him hand and foot, and not speak a word because I dont know anything, therefore have no opinions about anything

 

[Stanfi]

. But I just recently heard a comment that my female cous and bigger sis made: "What's his is mine and what's mine is mine!" .

One word.. prenunptial.

 

[Stanfi]

now THATS MY kind of man

I think its funny that mrstace hasnt responded to your post.... perhaps he has now realized that what he said was full of cheeze whiz?

I would have responded to his post, but after about the 4th sentece my attention started to dwindle, then by the time my eyes passed the last word, I was asleep.

 

[Warrior Poet]

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooo.......burn....you got me man......mmhmm.

Well now that you have dazzled us with your wit.....


Whats the matter dude does it twist your boxers that I am right or that fact that you know Im right.....dont hate.

You're single right?


Warrior Poet

 

[Grommit]

Oh no. Someone got their pride hurt.
This may get ugly real quick.

GROUP HUG!!!

 

[Stanfi]

Oh no. Someone got their pride hurt.
This may get ugly real quick.

GROUP HUG!!!

LOL

 

[cutekid 4 Jesus]

LOL

im guessing your only joking about women being inferior or you are not a christian because such a view is incompatible with the teachings of christ,men have caused a lot of trouble with me-my dad doesnt really care about me ive seen him once since i was 4 years old,it has affected my relationships with men,i have been physically assaulted by a guy,the last guy i liked told me that we had no future unless i slept with him and now totally ignores me..but yet i wouldnt post about men being this or that,get over yourself,u aint the only one that gets hurt or used by people.

 

[kevin~]

1. Women are the inferior gender. Refer to comments above. Sometimes I think if women didn't exist, there would not be a need for things like, tylenol, excedrin, advil, alleeve, zoloft, paxil, lexapro, celexea...

2. Marriage is a trap. I don't think most guy actually plan on getting married. They met a girl, go out.. then da di da, wake up one morning with a ring on the finger and screaming "Ahh!! How did this get here!!" Caught in the trap.

3. Children are accidents. Refer to the thread "Want Children?". Children are a big responsiblity. I personally think that by having a child you are ingnorantly creating another human being forcing them to live this misearable life. Anyway, people have this crazy desire go do the process that makes children. Sometimes, that actually happens.

i disagree with all the 3 points brought up totally.
1. superriority and inferiority should not be based on what a human needs, we are all children of god and we have equal standings. god made man and women differently so as to suit each other's needs. im sure there are many bad points about men as women that can be brought up too.
2. marriage is not a trap, it is one of the most beautiful thing that can ever happen to a couple. if the guy is going to wake up the next morning and scream how he got there, it just goes to show he is'nt sincere and shouldnt get married in the 1st place.
3.children are a blessing! yes is it a big responsibility but having a big responsibility on something does not equal that it becomes a burden. children are fresh creatures from heaven, their innocence and carefree attitudes just makes people happy. why do you think parents love their children unconditionally? how life is for you depends on your outlook. miserable lives are caused by the devil, when you are set free by the love of god, you have Heaven on earth!

 

[stray bullet]

In all regards, I am hoping that what was posted by mrstace was truely a joke, trying to get a rise out of people....

That's what I am hoping, then again, I should know better and realize there are many men out there that think like that. Not suggesting mrstace truly believes it, but his initial post is pretty similar to the garbage a lot of unhappy men with issues believe.

Can't say I don't feel sorry for them.