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is it bad 2 comit suacid bcus i wont 2

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I too at times lose the will to live,but we must press on. There are days I simply can't bare the pain of life,but taking our lives is not our choice it's not of God. Only He can snuff out our lives. We are worms,but He loves us and we must remember that. No matter what we have done


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Jesus606Is606Lord said:
ever since i was born i have been teased and mi brother wonts 2 kill me its not fun living a life like this and the only friends u can get r 1s that back stab u and teas u 2

I am a former bully, so maybe I can give you a different view of life. Even though you are the one being teased, us bullies are the ones who are really the weak ones. Don't feel discouraged. We only pick on others because we feel unimportant in life and it feels nice to have power over somebody because we have none of our own.

Don't feel bad. High school is a small part of life. Look forward to college, and remember that the ones who are keeping you down finish last unless they change their ways. Trust me.
 
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Suicide is definitely a sin. It has been said that if you are a Christian and you commit suicide, the Church would refuse to give you a proper or let's say "Christian" burial. I'm not sure about this though.

Anyway, first things first, no matter how bad things may seem, there will always be a way out of a dark tunnel. I have been through many awful experiences in life but I have always insisted that God will make a way - and He did. He will alwaysmake everything go right for you, whether you notice it or not. I suggest that you try to be more optimistic and start being aware of all the wonderful blessings around you. I have received a wonderful email once and it was about looking into the bright side of even the most annoying things in life.

As for your brother, I think it is just natural for elder brothers to tease their younger sisters. Probably he needs attention from you, or he has problems of his own that you can probably help him with. And um I just can't convince myself that your brother wants to kill you.

And another thing, if I were you I would just focus on my studies more and never mind those people who backstab you - that is my life here in school as well. I rarely hang out with crowds or even individuals because it all turns out the same -- they still end up backstabbing me. Just think it this way - they're probably jealous of something that you have and they don't. So, just ignore them, since it is their time that they're wasting, and don't make it yours.
 
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nah dude, u dont wanna kill yourself. God lets us choose either life or death, and he honors that choice, but you really won't like the "death" choice. 1) it wont change anything, itll just make everything worse. and 2) there's another way out besides moving, and besides running away.

first off, you obviously need a real friend. someone who cares about you, and won't backstab you. the best i can do on that front is offer myself. my email is ncbecker@hotmail.com and i wont backstab you. and since I am a believer in the Lord Yeshua Christ, you should know also that He loves you too, and in prayer you can go to him night or day, at any moment, for comfort and love. Christ IS alive, and you can talk to him.

another thing, every kid i met back when i was growing up was mean. well not every, there was 1 or 2 nice ones. but really, its because we're all sinful. we all need Christ.

the key is to shine in that darkness you are in. you have to let Christ enter your life, and be a light to those who obviously do not have Christ in their heart (because they are mean etc). Then, if they abuse and hate you because of your religion, you can trust that God himself will be on your side, because you believe in His Son.

sigh, I know how much it hurts to be alone. utterly alone. and on the verge of just ending it all. but you have to understand there is a future, years that you know nothing of will come your way and there is a great potential that they will be pleasant. you have to be patient, this is a season of misery for you. but just like spring follows winter, and sunrise follows that dark lonely night, surely your happiness will come

so 1) believe in Christ 2) live by Christ's example boldly among the heathen you are around and 3) write me and lets be friends. Christ will "never leave you nor forsake you". he promises. and in Him, I will do my best to do the same for you.

send me a private message or email, ok? i will tell no one of our talks, your secrets are safe with me. above all, do not kill yourself and do follow Christ. He loves you so much! unconditionally. and i want to as well, in Him and by his will.

So, lets be friends, and end this dark chapter of your existence to start a better chapter. a chapter of hope.
 
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