Who are you hugging and why? Do you hug both men and women the same way?
I think your hyperfocus on what should be a casual warm greeting could be a problem. Unless you live in a very structured, men separate from women (where no woman would ever hug a man she wasn't related to), hugging isn't considered a sexual activity. It is more important to consider the situation. If you ever hug someone who behaves inappropriate, just don't hug that person again. I don't believe that a hug is a sexual act. It is more an act of friendship and fellowship. It isn't even sexual between married people. If your hug is causing a young man to think sexual thoughts, then chances are that your presence is doing the same thing. It isn't anything that you actually do but rather because you are a female that he is attracted to. This is just the way God wired men. If it is a stubbling block to him, then it is his issue to deal with. Of course, this is assuming that you are not dressing sexually, flirting with him, or acting sexual in other ways.
Need a way to tell. "Would you behave this way with your grandparents in the room watching." If the answer is "yes", then most likely that you are "okay".
I think your hyperfocus on what should be a casual warm greeting could be a problem. Unless you live in a very structured, men separate from women (where no woman would ever hug a man she wasn't related to), hugging isn't considered a sexual activity. It is more important to consider the situation. If you ever hug someone who behaves inappropriate, just don't hug that person again. I don't believe that a hug is a sexual act. It is more an act of friendship and fellowship. It isn't even sexual between married people. If your hug is causing a young man to think sexual thoughts, then chances are that your presence is doing the same thing. It isn't anything that you actually do but rather because you are a female that he is attracted to. This is just the way God wired men. If it is a stubbling block to him, then it is his issue to deal with. Of course, this is assuming that you are not dressing sexually, flirting with him, or acting sexual in other ways.
Need a way to tell. "Would you behave this way with your grandparents in the room watching." If the answer is "yes", then most likely that you are "okay".
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