Bella Vita
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Short and sweet and right to the point... Yes it is and not at all a way to start off a marriage very very bad idea!!!
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Edit: my *fiance (hubby to be)
Oh and to "saint2300", unfortunately even after we know the Lord, we still many times need His forgiveness. A slip-up is easily forgiveable, but when we become entrenched in the pattern of sins, then it's a dangerous place to be. I know, I've walked that line before.
This is terrible Christian advice. I don't even know where to begin. Did you know many strippers are either runaways, delinquent youths or were sexually abused? They are in it for the money and attention (nothing else) which means they have to shut their conscience off. Preventing yourself from getting turned on is not even the issue. The people inside these clubs are LOST. They are in the dark, from the owners to the waitresses to the performers. It is a place of darkness and abuse wrapped in the cloak of lights, music and laughter. There is a lot of money to be made and no one cares about anyone else. To make that money you have to be stepped on or step on someone. Women pervertedly surgically alter their bodies to stay in the game.If you can go there and not get aroused while feeling comfortable then it is not a sin for you to go. Jesus could do that because that is the kind of guy he was. In my whole life I've met maybe a hand full of guys who could do that. If you can pull it off go for it.
EVERYBODY!!
I will not be going to a strip club. Those friends of mine will just have to understand that I'm a nice, god loving guy who will not do anything wrong in the eyes of the Lord.
Besides; It should be common sense to not go to those places even if your Athiest.
I think I'll go bowling instead
----If you can go there and not get aroused while feeling comfortable then it is not a sin for you to go. Jesus could do that because that is the kind of guy he was. In my whole life I've met maybe a hand full of guys who could do that. If you can pull it off go for it.
The problem is, would your friends be sinning while they were there and do you want to be part of that?
That's sexual immorality, in the form of pre-marital sex. If he is saved, he still has his salvation. Be God will punish him or curse him in this mortal life for his disobedience, even though he knows what he's doing (fornication) is wrong.If a Christian sleeps with prostitute, what will happen to him?
Lost his Salvation?
----Scripture advises to avoid thing that even have the appearance of evil. How is this something borderline that might go one way or another? You would clearly be going there for reasons other than preaching the Gospel.
Really this is about loosing your friends. If you do what they want you to do you have your friends. If you choose God you probably will loose some of them who will call you a weird zealot. But really, how much more will God give you and show you if you take a stand for Him?
Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
----THIS.
A good Christian man has no business in a den of vipers like a strip club. Your friends sound inconsiderate of your feelings and beliefs. Who needs enemies with friends like that?