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Is a skeptic missing the compassionate part of their being, while only focusing on logic?

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Also when someone asks what evidence I have other than my own experience that skeptics are not compassionate. Well two things, first-15 years of debating them. At one point I was full skeptic and lost faith entirely in like 2008 or 9. I never got to the point of mocking God, I just doubted the bible was perfectly true. There are skeptics even in the theological realm, they are usually the extreme viepoints. Karl Barth, a liberal theologian. Even extreme dispensationalism can create skepticism. When I was hyper dispensationalism I started doubting the scripture as true as.I battled with details of various dispensations. I am a soft dispensationalisT now. But I get skepticism, athiests think christians are not skeptical. We are, we just work faith into our skeptical nature. It's like is the glass half empty as the skeptic says, or is it half full as the loving christian says.
Do you see what you did here? Your question was
when someone asks what evidence I have other than my own experience that skeptics are not compassionate”

Then you mention your 15 years experience debating. The question was OTHER that your own experience; so those 15 years don’t count!
Then you mention how you used to be a skeptic, and how christians can be skeptical too! Nowhere do you mention how other than your own experience you know skeptics are not compassionate; IOW you failed to answer the question. Care to try again?
Again; what evidence do you have other than your own experience, that skeptics are not compassionate?
 
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Thanks for the informative post, I feEl if a skeptic has a bias in favor of Christianity they will be well off even if it is a complete fabrication. Pascal's wager states as much. So it's a win win situation. To be christian.

well not really look at the LGBT most reasons to be againts them is religiously based, plus beliefs also tend to go into other avenues, I guess it would depend on what brand of Christianity, but the more conservative I find are harmful especially if wrong.
 
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*Integrity.
Integrity is the desire to do the right thing even when nobody is looking. As an atheist, I know I have integrity because I know my behavior when nobody is looking. If I were a christian who believed God were always looking, I would not truly know.

*Society
Humans are social creatures. But in order for a society to be successful; in order for people to live in harmony, there has to be agreed upon rules that attempts fairness for all who are a part of the society. The motivation an atheist has to follow the laws is also because he will be punished by the society he wants to be a part of.

Those are two reasons.
Nothing troubles me more than the religious person who says his religion is the only thing preventing him from committing every atrocity imaginable; and that his religion is barely holding him back! Please tell me you are not one of those religious types; that if it weren’t for your belief in God you would still have a reason to be good! I would hope you would be better than that...are you???

PS IMO doing good for a selfish reason is far better than doing nothing at all.
Again how can you say integrity is fully unselfish? Just because no one is looking does not mean you are not doing it for selfish reasons. Society and social evils are evil because they affect society negatively, so too social good is good because the majority is benefited. But it is very hard to remove those good things from selfish behavior.
 
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Do you see what you did here? Your question was
when someone asks what evidence I have other than my own experience that skeptics are not compassionate”

Then you mention your 15 years experience debating. The question was OTHER that your own experience; so those 15 years don’t count!
Then you mention how you used to be a skeptic, and how christians can be skeptical too! Nowhere do you mention how other than your own experience you know skeptics are not compassionate; IOW you failed to answer the question. Care to try again?
Again; what evidence do you have other than your own experience, that skeptics are not compassionate?
I know, the question is arbitrary because the whole world has some version of skepticism. So I don't honor the premise that "skeptics" can corner the market on skepticism. Being rational in general involves skepticism, to me.skepticism is just being pessimist over something. That is why when someone is always pessimistic, they lack joy and can start to mock and redicule others.
 
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Again how can you say integrity is fully unselfish? Just because no one is looking does not mean you are not doing it for selfish reasons. Society and social evils are evil because they affect society negatively, so too social good is good because the majority is benefited. But it is very hard to remove those good things from selfish behavior.
How are you defining selfish? I define selfish as doing what is in your best interest to the detriment of others; IOW unless somebody is being hurt by your actions; you are not being selfish. How are you defining selfish?
 
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How are you defining selfish? I define selfish as doing what is in your best interest to the detriment of others; IOW unless somebody is being hurt by your actions; you are not being selfish. How are you defining selfish?
No you have unselfish behaviour, which I define as sacrificial love for others. Buying a hot dog for a homeless guy at the gas station. And doing so not for the good feeling one recieves. But doing it for the best interest of them. Selfishness is everything else that is not based on love of others.
 
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I know, the question is arbitrary because the whole world has some version of skepticism. So I don't honor the premise that "skeptics" can corner the market on skepticism. Being rational in general involves skepticism, to me.skepticism is just being pessimist over something. That is why when someone is always pessimistic, they lack joy and can start to mock and redicule others.
If you define skepticism as being pessimistic, I see the problem here; you have the wrong definition of what it means to be skeptic.
By definition; skepticism is basically just having a questioning attitude, it's not about being pessimistic.

Skepticism - Wikipedia

So is it fair to say your reasons for believing skeptics are not compassionate is based on your own experiences?
 
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No you have unselfish behaviour, which I define as sacrificial love for others. Buying a hot dog for a homeless guy at the gas station. And doing so not for the good feeling one recieves. But doing it for the best interest of them. Selfishness is everything else that is not based on love of others.
So explain how the definition I gave of integrity is selfish?
 
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If you define skepticism as being pessimistic, I see the problem here; you have the wrong definition of what it means to be skeptic.
By definition; skepticism is basically just having a questioning attitude, it's not about being pessimistic.

Skepticism - Wikipedia

So is it fair to say your reasons for believing skeptics are not compassionate is based on your own experiences?
I don't like Wikipedia for debates, as they are publicly edited. I guess my definition furthermore is not necessarily including pessimism as a defining aspect of skepticism, but pessimism is a motive for skepticism, the energy for why you question things instead of just havin faith it will work our well for you. Let me put it this way, circumstancial evidence is by far the most common way we believe things. Rain drops on a coat as someone comes in the room. No direct evidence is needed. However a skeptic will choose to be pessimistic regarding the rain. If it goes against what he believes. He will say, did you capture it on film? Did you catch rain in a bucket and test it in a Labrador to see if it's real rain and not faucet water splashed on a coat. So you see my point. Living as a skeptic means you question everything never filly believing and never fully hoping in truth.
 
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I don't like Wikipedia for debates, as they are publicly edited.
Can you provide a definition of skepticism that supports your view of it?

I guess my definition furthermore is not necessarily including pessimism as a defining aspect of skepticism, but pessimism is a motive for skepticism,
If pessimism is only a motive, how do you make the leap that skeptics cannot be compassionate?

the energy for why you question things instead of just havin faith it will work our well for you.
The problem I have with faith is that there is no means of establishing the truth. I will gladly choose the bitter truth over a sweet lie any day.

Let me put it this way, circumstancial evidence is by far the most common way we believe things. Rain drops on a coat as someone comes in the room. No direct evidence is needed. However a skeptic will choose to be pessimistic regarding the rain. If it goes against what he believes. He will say, did you capture it on film? Did you catch rain in a bucket and test it in a Labrador to see if it's real rain and not faucet water splashed on a coat. So you see my point. Living as a skeptic means you question everything never filly believing and never fully hoping in truth.
What you are describing is unreasonable foolish behavior. One is not required to be unreasonable and foolish in order to be a skeptic. What constitutes skepticism is purely subjective.

No you said it was unselfish so you must explain why it is so.
I’ve already given you my definition of selfish; if nobody is being unnecessarily hurt, you are not being selfish. If you are doing the right thing, nobody is being unnecessarily hurt.
Again; is it fair to say your reasons for believing skeptics are not compassionate is based on your own limited experiences?
 
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Can you provide a definition of skepticism that supports your view of it?


If pessimism is only a motive, how do you make the leap that skeptics cannot be compassionate?


The problem I have with faith is that there is no means of establishing the truth. I will gladly choose the bitter truth over a sweet lie any day.


What you are describing is unreasonable foolish behavior. One is not required to be unreasonable and foolish in order to be a skeptic. What constitutes skepticism is purely subjective.


I’ve already given you my definition of selfish; if nobody is being unnecessarily hurt, you are not being selfish. If you are doing the right thing, nobody is being unnecessarily hurt.
Again; is it fair to say your reasons for believing skeptics are not compassionate is based on your own limited experiences?
well I won't reply to all of your posts since I can tell you are already closing off to this conversation. I can tell I am losing you already. You started out open minded, but seem to be fading into skepticism. But basically what I meant about the rain, that is the important thing. So lets talk about that. Again if a skeptic believes that we are in a drought for ten years, and someone comes in with drops on a coat, from rain outside. They will not use the circumstantial evidence. They will go out themselves to either see it for themselves or something else. Perhaps they will question the validity of the evidence, maybe the guy sprayed himself with a garden hose. That is certainly possible. But not probable. What is the motive of spraying one's self with a garden hose then lying about it? Again we can ask for labratory tests on the water to see if it's from rain or city water, but what is the point. The circumstantial evidence should normally be enough. But for some reason it's not good enough for a skeptic. So in general they are what I call world denying. They deny the existence of truth because they invalidate circumstantial evidence of truth and only believe in objective empirical truth. But in the process they negate the world around us. Much of not all of science is proven by circumstantial evidence. This is easily proven. But I can tell you are closed off to this discussion so I will end my comment short. But just open your mind and think about it. When a christian says their is a God. Is your cup half empty, or half full? Do you feel the universe started itself, in the infinite past? Or do you think a maker of some kind made it? A skeptic will have faith, or trust that the universe in infinite, and if you were to go to that first event (be it in a timeless vacuum, that first event for where the universe came from, would be spontaneous combustion from nothing). And that takes faith, not logic or science to validate that. So again don't be so sure to toss faith out of your picture. You use it every day.

Faith means trust. We trust lots of things everyday, do we trust God?
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well I won't reply to all of your posts since I can tell you are already closing off to this conversation.
No I’m not closing off to this conversation; I’m just getting started!
I can tell I am losing you already. You started out open minded, but seem to be fading into skepticism.
Fading into skepticism? I’ve always considered myself a skeptic! Are you projecting your feelings onto me? Are you starting to close off to this conversation? Am I actually losing you? I hope not; I am enjoying our conversation. It isn’t often I get to converse with an actual Christian without them becoming hostile and belligerent; thus far you’ve been kind and respectful and I welcome the opportunity to discuss views with such a person.
But basically what I meant about the rain, that is the important thing. So lets talk about that.
Sure! Lets.
Again if a skeptic believes that we are in a drought for ten years, and someone comes in with drops on a coat, from rain outside. They will not use the circumstantial evidence. They will go out themselves to either see it for themselves or something else. Perhaps they will question the validity of the evidence, maybe the guy sprayed himself with a garden hose. That is certainly possible. But not probable. What is the motive of spraying one's self with a garden hose then lying about it? Again we can ask for labratory tests on the water to see if it's from rain or city water, but what is the point. The circumstantial evidence should normally be enough. But for some reason it's not good enough for a skeptic.
I don’t believe there is such a homogeneous group, that people who call themselves skeptics are a part of. I don't believe such a group even exist. As I said before, when people call themselves “skeptic” they are subjectively describing themselves as one who looks for evidence to support a claim; to what degree they do this will vary from person to person. So to claim a skeptic will say this or say that, to claim a skeptic will believe this or believe that; is a fallacy because there is no consensus on what skeptics will believe or do. So your claim of whether a skeptic will believe circumstantial evidence or not is unfounded; some may, others may not.
So in general they are what I call world denying. They deny the existence of truth because they invalidate circumstantial evidence of truth and only believe in objective empirical truth. But in the process they negate the world around us.
My previous response applies to this as well.
Much of not all of science is proven by circumstantial evidence. This is easily proven.
Not sure what science has to do with any of this, but I think it would be a mistake to assume my skepticism is limited to religion; that I put skepticism aside when it comes to scientific, or any other claims. Lots of theists I’ve discussed with in the past have done this; you should not.
But I can tell you are closed off to this discussion so I will end my comment short.
Are you sure it isn’t you who is closing off here? I’ve tried to respond to everything you’ve said in our conversations; I don’t think I’ve given you any reason to think I’m closing off here.
But just open your mind and think about it. When a christian says their is a God. Is your cup half empty, or half full?
When a Theist says there is a God (regardless of whether that Theist is Christian or not) I am open to the possibility that there is actually an entity out there that they call God, and I’m open to hear what this entity is all about. This doesn't mean I will believe everything they say concerning this entity, (hence my skepticism/atheism) but I am open to hearing what they believe about it.
Do you feel the universe started itself, in the infinite past?
Started in the infinite past? Not sure what you mean here, sounds like a contradiction to me.
Or do you think a maker of some kind made it? A skeptic will have faith, or trust that the universe in infinite,
Again; if you want to know what a skeptic believes, you need to ask a person who calls themselves skeptic. My brother is an evangelical Christian, and he is as skeptical as I am, the difference; his skepticism seems to end when it comes to his religion; mine does not. Obviously we have completely different views concerning the Universe, even though we are both skeptics.
and if you were to go to that first event (be it in a timeless vacuum, that first event for where the universe came from, would be spontaneous combustion from nothing). And that takes faith, not logic or science to validate that.
Spontaneous combustion from nothing? If you are referring to the Big Bang, it is not considered the first event, nor was it a combustion regardless of its name.
So again don't be so sure to toss faith out of your picture. You use it every day.

Faith means trust. We trust lots of things everyday, do we trust God?
I think to restrict the term “faith” to simply believe cheapens the word. I don’t need to employ faith to believe the chair I’m sitting in will hold my weight, I don’t need to employ faith to believe my car will start when I attempt to drive it. Where there is proof or even circumstantial evidence there is no need for faith, where there is no proof or circumstantial evidence, faith is required to keep belief alive IMO
 
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What motivation does an athiest have to be nice?
Well that’s the rub:if an atheist behaves in a nice way it is likely (not certain) because of them empathic positivity they experience (due to be a social species).

But with a Christian the reason maybe (but not limited to) because the fear God’s wrath. So you can never tell if a Christian is doing good because of empathy or they are being forced to do good by fear of (God’s) punishment.

I think that is what is happening in this thread: you not being to imagine a reason to to good without God is your problem that you then projection to atheists.

Please don’t take my assertion as a criticism or personal attack: you seem they to genuinely listen to honest answers to I’m being as honest and frank as I can.

All the best.
 
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No I’m not closing off to this conversation; I’m just getting started!

Fading into skepticism? I’ve always considered myself a skeptic! Are you projecting your feelings onto me? Are you starting to close off to this conversation? Am I actually losing you? I hope not; I am enjoying our conversation. It isn’t often I get to converse with an actual Christian without them becoming hostile and belligerent; thus far you’ve been kind and respectful and I welcome the opportunity to discuss views with such a person.

Sure! Lets.

I don’t believe there is such a homogeneous group, that people who call themselves skeptics are a part of. I don't believe such a group even exist. As I said before, when people call themselves “skeptic” they are subjectively describing themselves as one who looks for evidence to support a claim; to what degree they do this will vary from person to person. So to claim a skeptic will say this or say that, to claim a skeptic will believe this or believe that; is a fallacy because there is no consensus on what skeptics will believe or do. So your claim of whether a skeptic will believe circumstantial evidence or not is unfounded; some may, others may not.

My previous response applies to this as well.

Not sure what science has to do with any of this, but I think it would be a mistake to assume my skepticism is limited to religion; that I put skepticism aside when it comes to scientific, or any other claims. Lots of theists I’ve discussed with in the past have done this; you should not.

Are you sure it isn’t you who is closing off here? I’ve tried to respond to everything you’ve said in our conversations; I don’t think I’ve given you any reason to think I’m closing off here.

When a Theist says there is a God (regardless of whether that Theist is Christian or not) I am open to the possibility that there is actually an entity out there that they call God, and I’m open to hear what this entity is all about. This doesn't mean I will believe everything they say concerning this entity, (hence my skepticism/atheism) but I am open to hearing what they believe about it.

Started in the infinite past? Not sure what you mean here, sounds like a contradiction to me.

Again; if you want to know what a skeptic believes, you need to ask a person who calls themselves skeptic. My brother is an evangelical Christian, and he is as skeptical as I am, the difference; his skepticism seems to end when it comes to his religion; mine does not. Obviously we have completely different views concerning the Universe, even though we are both skeptics.

Spontaneous combustion from nothing? If you are referring to the Big Bang, it is not considered the first event, nor was it a combustion regardless of its name.

I think to restrict the term “faith” to simply believe cheapens the word. I don’t need to employ faith to believe the chair I’m sitting in will hold my weight, I don’t need to employ faith to believe my car will start when I attempt to drive it. Where there is proof or even circumstantial evidence there is no need for faith, where there is no proof or circumstantial evidence, faith is required to keep belief alive IMO
I don't have time tonight to reply to your posts with bullets. But I am questioning if I should continue this discussion with you at all. I worked through lunch tonight at work, and I barely had time to get something to drink. But I can't help but feel you are offended by me, and my views, and your words come across as heated and bitter. Those types of replies often causes fights on the forums. Instead of getting into a heated argument, as soon as either myself or another gets angry I bow out of the conversation before it gets to the point of flaming and goading. Usually once it's heated it just snowballs into hurt feelings, and bitterness. So again I enjoyed the start of this conversation, and I can see that you are not open to theism or christianity. So you can excuse me as I reply to other peoples posts, that are not yet at an angry state. (also I won't take time to explain what parts of the posts are angry or bitter, it is not my point to prove such allegations, again this is all subjective to my own opinions of the matter). So I hope you have enjoyed this discussion and I will catch you the next time around.
 
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Well that’s the rub:if an atheist behaves in a nice way it is likely (not certain) because of them empathic positivity they experience (due to be a social species).

But with a Christian the reason maybe (but not limited to) because the fear God’s wrath. So you can never tell if a Christian is doing good because of empathy or they are being forced to do good by fear of (God’s) punishment.

All the best.
thank you for your post, I enjoy well thought out responses. Well for me, I can't speak for others. But for myself. I follow the commands out of fear. But only initially speaking. Eventually you get used to following rules and regulations and you start to love and enjoy it. I believe it is the later state of the christian walk that truly shows a selfless behavior. As they truly grow to love God not for what He does for them, but love God for WHO HE IS. That is the critical point of the relationship. God loves us and waits for us to come to the point where we don't follow Him for blessings or eternal life, but for Him. And that time does come in the life of the christian, and the sooner they achieve that state, and strive to maintain that intimacy the better their life will be, and the more satisfying their christian walk will be. But for people who only do obedience out of fear. That is just the beginning. True wisdom is realizing why He commands certain things and the wisdom behind it, and His retroactive wisdom to know the best course of action from eternity past, and for every situation.


I think that is what is happening in this thread: you not being to imagine a reason to to good without God is your problem that you then projection to atheists.
I honestly am not convinced of a good enough motive for an atheist to love their enemies. So you have any reasons?

Please don’t take my assertion as a criticism or personal attack: you seem they to genuinely listen to honest answers to I’m being as honest and frank as I can.
I know you are sincere with your response, and I tried to be as sincere as I could in my answer. I hope you find them convincing, if not....ask some more questions about my view, and I will try to answer them the best I can. If I can.
 
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I honestly am not convinced of a good enough motive for an atheist to love their enemies.
I one can turn their enemies into a friend you can love them as you would any friend and have one less enemy.

If you can’t turn them into your friend, I agree there is no reason to love them.

But why is loving your enemy, while he is your enemy a good thing (apart from simply obeying)?
 
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*Integrity.

Integrity is the desire to do the right thing even when nobody is looking. As an atheist, I know I have integrity because I know my behavior when nobody is looking. If I were a christian who believed God were always looking, I would not truly know.

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Nothing troubles me more than the religious person who says his religion is the only thing preventing him from committing every atrocity imaginable; and that his religion is barely holding him back! Please tell me you are not one of those religious types; that if it weren’t for your belief in God you would still have a reason to be good! I would hope you would be better than that...are you???

PS IMO doing good for a selfish reason is far better than doing nothing at all.

Excellent! Thank you for flying the flag for integrity which is having all our ducks (our faculties) in a row.

For me I love being in harmony with the universe which is a deep form of common sense open to all human beings of whatever "belief system" to take a lifetime to learn. (Some people surreptitiously attempt to attach baggage to skew what underlies their prapaganda so I have to trust my method for discovering and know how to appreciate others'.)
 
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Thanks for the informative post, I feEl if a skeptic has a bias in favor of Christianity they will be well off even if it is a complete fabrication. Pascal's wager states as much. So it's a win win situation. To be christian.

Pascal's wager is an oversimplification. It's 45 years since I did Pascal and I wasn't taking it in, but I expect he wrote that tongue in cheek.
 
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Thank you for the nice post. I really have severe ADD and If I had to sit and proof read a post more than say 2X it would be so painful to sit and do that, that I would just not post it all together and do something else. I know that is my bad. But if it's too much work I typically won't do it. Many label people.with ADD as lazy. But it's that their mind moves so fast that to do meaningless activities is really hard. That is why they can be good at high stress environments because their brains are normally running fast anyway. But if they get over stressed it can lead to mental overload, like myself and.my nervous breakdown in 2008 after losing.my job. Also, don't worry about over religious Ness with me. It's all motivated out if love for God and man, not a love for religion. Religion builds walls, Jesus breaks those walls of religion down.

I was like that - with the added snag I couldn't stand any stress in the FIRST place !!!

Just keep in mind neither God nor man needs gushing, and look at only one or two of those small practicalities at a time, and the ducks will get in a row in their time (give time time). I hope life has "quietened down" enough for us to maintain some method in all our little activities at the moment.

And I learn to love the meaning in the concretes. Space, colour, the taste of the gum on the envelope (if there is some), the quality of light in the air.

One of the most revolutionary things anyone gave me was telling me to put everything in my rooms either parallel to the wall, or at 45 degrees to it. That way, I get visual coherence and I "lose" things so much less.

I started to think spatially more. I see the layers in all issues and questions.

If you cover each eye in turn for a minute, then the two eyes complement each other better after.
 
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