Something that has come up in the church teachings of one of the churches I've been following is the need for people to serve actively in a particular department in the church, using their God given talents, or they will be irrelevant. They can even be irrelevant if they're not at a particular service to give of their talents. I've heard this same sort of doctrine preached in several churches that I've been through and in the past I was always eager to jump in and serve. Years later, having been through much spiritual abuse in churches and just abuse in general (as detailed in some of my past posts) I'm far more hesitant to serve and I'm leaning into the guidance of God about serving anywhere. It didn't sit right with me when I heard this doctrine being taught, as it sounded so similar to the desperate pleas and bully type of pushing towards serving in the church that I've given in to before... only to be treated badly. Is this a common doctrine being taught? I don't think it aligns well with scripture and I want to be careful, I'm hesitant to make another commitment. Also I think there are other ways to serve even if I'm not active in any particular church department. Help?