It is the aggressiveness of your manner which offends.
Aggressive? Not hardly! I may not have been as delicate as you would have been, but I was far from what I would call aggressive.
Who says you are the authority in all these matters. Why may you "expose" as though the opinions of others must be OKAY'd by you before they can be entertained?
Authority? Who said I was an authority? I understand the basic laws of logic, but that doesn't make me an authority on logic. Mind you, I speak (or, rather, write) about those matters of logic that I do understand with a tone of confidence because I know that what I am saying is true. But speaking confidently about the truth of a matter and being an authority on it are not the same thing.
Why should DB's postmodernist view
not be challenged? My worldview gets challenged all the time. Its no big deal to me. I demonstrated serious logical problems with her perspective that must be addressed if she is to have a coherent, rational worldview. If, however, she wishes to retain her logically fallacious thinking, she is certainly free to do so. My "okay" doesn't enter into the matter at all.
Postmodernism? Serious flaws? You and only you are the authority here? Dangerous? Who says so? You?
No, the laws of logic governing rational thought are the authority here. I simply refer to them. If you don't like what I brought up about the irrationality of postmodernism, you are more than welcome to show me where what I stated was in error.
I don't think you realize it, but you are doing the very thing you're accusing me of doing. I could ask you: Are you an authority on how best to respond to posts? Are you and only you the authority here? Who says how I respond to people's posts must be okayed by you? --- Do these questions sound familiar? They ought to since they are very much like the ones you've asked me.
The fact is, I don't take your questions, all of which imply that I
ought to have done one thing over another, as issuing from some kind of authority. You're just a guy who happens to think a little differently from me. If you happen to say something that's true, however, then I have reason to take seriously what you're saying; otherwise, you're just giving me your opinion. But if you do say something that is true, the fact that it
is true gives that truth authority of its own. Unlike you, though, I can distinguish between the authority of a true fact, and the authority of the one who asserts it. As a result, I don't feel the need to question your right to make the statements that you are because, for the most part, they are merely opinion (however strongly stated they may be).
When we advance our opinions as though they were un-contestable we do a great dis-service to God by causing divisiveness among His children who He loves.
Is this an uncontestable opinion you're giving here?
We never should speak to others as though we presume to negate their opinions in life.
Look, some opinions
are better than others. Distinguishing better opinions from poorer ones is necessary to sound thinking. If some fellow in a restaurant lurches up from his table, clutches his throat, makes choking sounds while turning blue in the face, which is the better opinion of what his behaviour means?:
1.) He is done his meal and would like to pay.
2.) He is choking on his food.
Adopting the wrong opinion in this instance can have very serious consequences. Is it wrong to say, flat out, that option #1 is not a good one? Or should it be given careful consideration out of respect for the one who offered it? Obviously, doing so would be foolish and potentially lethal to the choking man! Not all opinions, then, are equal and they should not all be treated as though they are.
No minister of God or teacher would consider this as it serves only to debase the student and to render impotent his/her abilities and/or desire to contribute.
THis is patently false. My university professors regularly criticized my thinking and I am the better for it. Their careful attention to, and critique of, the flaws in my thinking were a valuable aid to the sharpening of my ability to think clearly and rationally.
Would that the poor girl could address Jesus. How differently he would respond. Kindness perhaps and with understanding wisdom, as a father figure might. No vindictiveness from Jesus. Compassion only.
Sir, you obviously don't know Jesus. Yes, he was compassionate, but he was also bluntly and severely critical of sin and falsehood. His sharp comments to the Pharisees, in particular, come to mind, as does his violent actions with money-changers he found in the temple. It is Jesus who said,
Matthew 10:34-39
34 "Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword.
35 For I have come to 'set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law';
36 and 'a man's enemies will be those of his own household.'
37 He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.
38 And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.
39 He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
And you think
I've made some hard comments? Mine are nothing compared to some of the things Jesus said!
I have known many Christians who were unapproachable because of their fervent beliefs that only they possessed any truth.
I could say the same about Muslims, or atheists, or postmodernists...
What kind of Christianity is it which produces those who are so quick to tell others that they are wrong? True Christianity never condones this.
Again, sir, you have no idea what you're talking about if this is what you really believe.
Consider the following:
John 8:42-47
42 Jesus said to them, "If God were your Father, you would love Me, for I proceeded forth and came from God; nor have I come of Myself, but He sent Me.
43 Why do you not understand My speech? Because you are not able to listen to My word.
44 You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.
45 But because I tell the truth, you do not believe Me.
46 Which of you convicts Me of sin? And if I tell the truth, why do you not believe Me?
47 He who is of God hears God's words; therefore you do not hear, because you are not of God."
I do hope that the girl is following all this. She should know that at least one here respects her right to think for herself without rubbing her nose in it.
Challenging wrong thinking isn't disrespect; it is the essential ingredient in obtaining and preserving true knowledge. If I had no respect for DB's thinking, I would not have taken the pains I did in discussing her worldview with her.
PM any response please. A personal issue should not appear for all to see. this is my last post herein.
So be it.
Peace.