I wanted to discuss something but think it may need to go in the women's only but I cannot find it. However, at the same time, I would like male viewpoints if appropriate. Can I post here or tell me where instead. Thanks!
First of all I think the "love language" thing is bunk. Second...if you knew this going into the marriage then maybe you thought you could change him. Did you two go through any pre-marital classes or counseling? Last but not least, have you talked to him about it and maybe suggested seeing a counselor?
There's more to marriage than "love languages"
He needs to understand that this is about your needs. One of his primary duties as your husband is to fulfill your needs.He says he is fulfilled and that there is not anything more I can do for him. How do I reconcile this within myself.
Have you ever read what the early church fathers said about sex?No one "hates sex". Some people are not as sexual as others, but I can't think of a single person I've ever met that hated sex. Just saying.
Your time would be much better spent doing your best to help the original poster. Perhaps you could offer something that hasn't already been said? Please focus your attention there rather than your distaste for my flavor of help.Have you read the title of this web site? Christian Forums indicates that Christian information is allowed. Who are you to tell the poster to stop quoting biblical scripture? Furthermore, how is that you are so enlightened that you know that biblical passages will not help a Christian?
You knock the biblical scriptures but tell the poster to use Google. Google is a useful tool but so is the Bible for Christians.