Interest in Joining the Little Sisters of the Poor

[Solace Girl]

I have undergone a traumatic experience, and in light of it I decided to reconcile with the Catholic Church. I feel that vanity was a major cause of my choices that led to that experience, and I remember my previous desires to let go of the material world and serve God. I asked my parents about becoming a nun when I was 15/16 and my mother did not like the idea because she wants grandchildren, so I had put that desire on hold. However, I realize that I am an adult and maybe I can finally live the life I want instead of the life my mother wants for me.

There were a couple of nuns from this order at my church today distributing material that supports the church's view on life. I found it to be a very beautiful eye opener, if not a sign that this is now a valid future for me.

I have emailed the Little Sisters of the Poor, and am wondering when I could expect a response?

I have some medical bills/debt to deal with, but I see I have until age 40 to formally join this particular order, so I should have most of them paid off well before then (unless my interests change). What do people here think?

 

[RKO]

I love the Little Sisters, and I hope you make it!

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

May God direct and bless your spiritual journey

 

[pdudgeon]

I think the best thing you could do is to engage them in discussion on your vocation, and also to spend a weekend retreat with them to get a feel for their life of enclosure.

Also be sure to tell your local priest of your decision so that he can help both your mental and spiritual discernment along the way.

being a religious is a wonderful way to dedicate your life to God.

As for your mother, maybe it would help her to accept your decision if you remind her that our Mother Mary has many spiritual children in spite of giving birth to just one Son. Tell her that Mary could also help her to accept your decision as she in turn accepted Jesus' decision.

 

[Via Cassian]

Excellent. You are asking the right questions, moving with discretion, and you want to follow God. Continue in that way and no matter what happens your life will grow closer to God and in purity of heart.

I am impressed when people reach the point where you are now. My comments: your post is an inspiration, blessings to you.

 

[MikeK]

Move slowly. Ask questions. Pray.

It will work out as it should

 

[RileyG]

God Bless you on your journey!!!

 

[Michie]

I have undergone a traumatic experience, and in light of it I decided to reconcile with the Catholic Church. I feel that vanity was a major cause of my choices that led to that experience, and I remember my previous desires to let go of the material world and serve God. I asked my parents about becoming a nun when I was 15/16 and my mother did not like the idea because she wants grandchildren, so I had put that desire on hold. However, I realize that I am an adult and maybe I can finally live the life I want instead of the life my mother wants for me.

There were a couple of nuns from this order at my church today distributing material that supports the church's view on life. I found it to be a very beautiful eye opener, if not a sign that this is now a valid future for me.

I have emailed the Little Sisters of the Poor, and am wondering when I could expect a response?

I have some medical bills/debt to deal with, but I see I have until age 40 to formally join this particular order, so I should have most of them paid off well before then (unless my interests change). What do people here think?

If you feel truly led to a vocation & not an escape then I say go where you feel God is leading you. Prayers for you!

 

[Solace Girl]

I admit to being unhappy in at my current job, but I'm already looking at other positions which provide income. I'm realistic enough to know my bills got to be taken care of as soon as possible. I know that if I want to become a nun, it would be a lengthy process, and I have no idea if the order would think I'm a good fit. We shall see what the future holds.

 

[Michie]

I admit to being unhappy in at my current job, but I'm already looking at other positions which provide income. I'm realistic enough to know my bills got to be taken care of as soon as possible. I know that if I want to become a nun, it would be a lengthy process, and I have no idea if the order would think I'm a good fit. We shall see what the future holds.

Keep us updated!

 

[JimR-OCDS]

You took the fist step by sending them your request.


Religious orders will help you in your period of discernment.


First step will be a period of aspirancy, where you'll be invited to their convent to spend a day or even a week-end.

If you still feel called and they feel you're being called, they'll invite you to spend more time, perhaps a week or more, depending on what you can give.

In time, if all goes well, you might be invited to join the community, and accepted into formation as a novice.

This could take a six months, or a year and it varies according to the order.

In all, it will be a win-win situation regardless of whether you enter the order or not.

Pray and ask the Blessed Mother to help you in knowing God's true will for you.

Jim

 

[Lily76_]

i wish you well with your journey and i will pray for you

 

[Galilee63]

I would be praying to Jesus/God/The Holy Spirit and our Blessed Virgin Mary Mother of God with Jesus' Divine Mercy Chaplet at 3pm and of an evening daily, the Holy Rosary prayed daily or twice daily from your heart in Church at the Foot of Jesus' Holy Cross and in a quiet room at home in front of Jesus' Holy Cross with complete trust in your heart that Jesus is listening and will answer Solace girl.

With weekly repentance of sins from your heart to Jesus and receiving Jesus' Holy Eucharist daily or every second day from your heart, knowing Jesus is present in His Holy Tabernacle waiting for you to approach Him and to receive His Loving Holy Blessings, Gifts and Graces further.

All the best in your future vocation serving our Lord Jesus Christ our Saviour,

Love and kindest wishes your sister in Jesus Christ our Saviour

 

[Solace Girl]

I have been trying to obtain more written information about joining, but so far have received nothing. I think I will have to visit in person again to get a more detailed overview of what would need to be done. I am slowly getting all my debt paid off in anticipation of possibly joining. It is not clear on their website if zero debt is a requirement for this order, but I want to be on the safe side. If anyone here has any other ideas, please let me know.

 

[LivingWordUnity]

Little Sisters of the Poor is a very good choice of a religious order. May God bless you on your journey.

 

[pdudgeon]

I have been trying to obtain more written information about joining, but so far have received nothing. I think I will have to visit in person again to get a more detailed overview of what would need to be done. I am slowly getting all my debt paid off in anticipation of possibly joining. It is not clear on their website if zero debt is a requirement for this order, but I want to be on the safe side. If anyone here has any other ideas, please let me know.

it would stand to reason and be a sensible thing to be debit free before entering.
When considering how to pay off that debit don't forget that virtually all of what you now own will eventually either be converted to cash, or else donated to the poor before you enter.
If you haven't stopped to think about that part of your preparation yet, you should give it some serious consideration.

 

[Lepanto]

When I heard you mentioned Little Sister of the Poor, I at once was reminded
of Saint Jeanne Jugan.

I read a booklet about her story. She was such a humble and loving woman.
I was touched and inspired by her story. So I believe the order she founded
is a good one. I feel happy for you. Keep praying.

 

[tz620q]

When I heard you mentioned Little Sister of the Poor, I at once was reminded
of Saint Jeanne Jugan.

I read a booklet about her story. She was such a humble and loving woman.
I was touched and inspired by her story. So I believe the order she founded
is a good one. I feel happy for you. Keep praying.

There is a performance on YouTube, which I was blessed to be a part of on the life of Saint Jeanne Jugan. A man and a wife from my church wrote the script and over a span of three years and three performances, God blessed it to the point of this final performance. I have heard that Ignatius Press has picked up the rights and will be selling a DVD of the performance but for now you can find it on YouTube by searching "A Work Still Unknown".

I concur about the order. They are truly God's Little Sisters.

 

[Solace Girl]

I have gotten in contact with what I think is either a regional or national vocation director. I expect to receive some information from her soon. I am also looking at one or two other orders. It is very difficult, this discernment process.

 

[Michie]

I have gotten in contact with what I think is either a regional or national vocation director. I expect to receive some information from her soon. I am also looking at one or two other orders. It is very difficult, this discernment process.

Keep praying & keep us updated!