Not to brag, but I'm actually
the most rare. An INTJ female is
the rarest of all the forms. Other than an INTJ female, an INFJ male is the rarest.
OK. That is hardly bragging. As I have learned with being left handed, the novelty of being rare is not always worth the trouble
In the end, I used to be an absolute MBTI nut. But my INFJ boyfriend

P) used to tell me that MBTI is bust and people
really don't fit into the 16 boxes. Unfortunately, he was right, and over time I have found MBTI less and less reliable. It is helpful to explain concepts on why people are different, but even more complex MBTI theories just don't cut it when you're looking at people. So, I very rarely now use it.
Despite being rare,
its not that bad for you, because you are a female. If you're looking at this typologically, you'd be after an ENTX, preferably an ENTJ.
These are not that hard to come by. You could also replace the E for an I. So really, you are looking for an XNTX male. They aren't very common at all, but since your "best" match is an entroverted NT, this increases your playing field greatly.
If you had been an extrovert, your "best" match would be that much harder to come by, because introverts are significantly less common than extroverts, and there are not enough to go around for all of the extroverts
My boyfriend is an INFJ. This is not the "best" typological match by any means, the best for me would have been an ENFP. But quite frankly, I'm rather pleased with my situation
If you had been an
NT things would be much worse. Simply, NT's are far more common in males and NF's are way more common in females. So if for some reason you get it mixed up, like I do, your task becomes much harder, and you also have to deal with the fact that many male NF's often hide this side of themselves because of stigmas.
Just some food for thought