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Beauty4Ashes

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INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.(taken from http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html

:eek: (bolded part)

This I did not know! I'm still recoveirng from the shock, though it makes a lot of sense now that I think about it.

Ok, I did one of those Myber Briggs personality tests years ago and never remembered much from it other than the letters INFJ which are suppose to correlate to my personality.

Well out of curiousity I googled INFJ, just to see if I rediscovered anything interesting...

One percent! The most rare personality type! :eek: :o

I wonder if this has something to do with why I'm single.

(oh, and I just checked abother website and it said INFJ's are 2-3% of americans, but it is still the lowest percentile of all the other personality types)

God and his sense of humour! :doh:
 
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I took one of those in college and I don't remember what i am. I'm willing to bet i'm an INFJ though. I've read a lot about them.
well, maybe that would explain a lot for you also. Maybe take it again to find out for sure or read the link I posted and see if it describes you.

Again I say, :doh:!
 
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hmmm well I think there are some things in that discription that are spot on about me, other things that are way off. Actually I think when i took that test, I never could identify with a specific personality type which I suppose is kind of scary :D.
 
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INFJs are rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments

:eek: I have to show that to my mom as well as all my friends who think I'm too hard on myself! hahaha....I KNEW I was made this way!!!! :D

(but ooh, i feel like I'm in the twilight zone.)
 
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oh, and one more then I'll stop :p

The INFJ individual is gifted in ways that other types are not. Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement.
 
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Here are two descriptions of the INFJ from well-respected psychologists. Just thought you like more reading on the topic, and I can vouch for this information being reliable.

And for whatever it's worth, at INFP, I'm tied with you for rarity. And check out what Kiersey says about my type and marriage:

The INFP questor probably has more problems in mating than any other type.

Yeah. Rock on, Mac. :D


(Apparently, I'm supposed to find myself an ENTJ. Maybe I should post an ad. ;)
 
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Here are two descriptions of the INFJ from well-respected psychologists. Just thought you like more reading on the topic, and I can vouch for this information being reliable.

And for whatever it's worth, at INFP, I'm tied with you for rarity. And check out what Kiersey says about my type and marriage:



Yeah. Rock on, Mac. :D


(Apparently, I'm supposed to find myself an ENTJ. Maybe I should post an ad. ;)

Thanks for the site and LOL about the ad :p
 
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INFJs are hard to get to know. They have an unusually rich inner life, but they are reserved and tend not to share their reactions except with those they trust. Because of their vulnerability through a strong facility to introject, INFJs can be hurt rather easily by others, which, perhaps, is at least one reason they tend to be private people. People who have known an INFJ for years may find sides emerging which come as a surprise. Not that INFJs are inconsistent; they are very consistent and value integrity. But they have convoluted, complex personalities which sometimes puzzle even them.

I found this from that site you gave me mac. It certainly pertains to be true in my uhh....love life...... mmpf.... bleh...and :o
 
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I found this from that site you gave me mac. It certainly pertains to be true in my uhh....love life...... mmpf.... bleh...and :o
Yeah, it resonates a lot with me, too, actually. My "P" preference is very weak, so your type is a very close second to describing me well.

Isn't it just so much fun being the oddball? :p


One interesting factoid: Only about a quarter of the population is made up of introverts. So we're surrounded by 75% people who experience social interaction in a fundamentally different way from us. Not to mention, North American culture places a high value on extroversion, placing the introvert even more on the outside than we already are by temperament.


I find this stuff pretty interesting -- I was a psych major, and personality was one of my focus areas.
 
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Off topic: Hey Macrina, you are like my nearly there twin sister. I almost got your hair when I was creating my cf character, and your eyes look like mine, so does your eyebrows, and I really love green, got a few green outfits and almost got a green dress. Wow! Hello sister! lol
 
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Off topic: Hey Macrina, you are like my nearly there twin sister. I almost got your hair when I was creating my cf character, and your eyes look like mine, so does your eyebrows, and I really love green, got a few green outfits and almost got a green dress. Wow! Hello sister! lol
Heh! And I've been admiring your character's hair! I chose mine because I have waist-length brown hair with a lot of red in it... I'd love to have seriously red hair, but shortly after infancy that changed. Ah well.



(sorry for the tangent :sorry: )
 
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So you are an ideal match for BoazB?


Get in touch love

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Hmm... Kiersey seems to think that ENTP would be a good match for INFJ. (ESTP is mentioned, too, but the profile for that type doesn't recommend INFJ.)

The identical personality (were such theoretically possible) probably wouldn't be a good fit -- we need at least some complementarity.
 
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matches(best and worst)

you Best Worst
Entp Infj Estj
Intp Enfj Istj
Entj Infp Esfj
Intj Enfp Isfj
Estj Isfp Entp
Istj Esfp Intp
Esfj Istp Entj
Isfj Estp Intj
Enfj Intp Esfp
Infj Entp Isfp
Enfp Intj Estp
Infp Entj Istp
Esfp Istj Enfj
Isfp Estj Infj
Estp Isfj Enfp
Istp Esfj Infp
 
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