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I disagree...this has much to do with your age. You don't have the life experience to make these types of decisions regarding life. You haven't seen an ultrasound of your baby's heart beating or sucking his thumb. You haven't experienced the joy of a baby kicking or your husband beaming with joy as he holds his son in his arms for the first time.
Whether or not someone wants those things is a personal choice. I want these things. But not now. Later, when I'm ready. There are many people my age who would agree with me. They want to have kids, but they're not ready for that at this age. They may be ready for sex, but not kids.
Also, you may likely say that if you're not ready for kids, you shouldn't have sex, but some people don't want kids until they're 40. Is it fair to expect them to wait until then?
I'm not mocking you or your age, but you lack experience in this arena. You shouldn't attempt to step into an area where you carry no authority. This is not about a number, but your age is a factor. I did MANY stupid things that I HIGHLY regret when I was 15 - and 16 - and 17 - etc...you get the point. We all gain experience as we pass through life and your views will change on a variety of subjects. You most likely don't have the same viewpoints today that you did when you were 5. That's just life.
Why do you have more authority in this area? I am entitled to my opinions. My dad has more life experience than you, and he agrees with me wholeheartedly on this issue. He has two kids and a step daughter.
But in this field, you just haven't had the opportunity to experience the joys that children bring. You are just seeing the negative. Ask any mother what they think about their 6 month old and I can assure you that it won't involve the economy. According to your own words, you want to have children when you are older. Believe me...you will feel differently then.
A baby is never positive at my age. Unless I lived 200 years ago, but I don't. I would love to have my own children one day. But now I am working at preventing pregnancy. I don't like abortion. Its not an easy choice for someone to make, but they should have that option.
A way to lower teen pregnancy, and thus lowering abortion, would be to teach about birth control in schools.
That's a good idea for a thread! And I'm off...
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