Looking back you are correct. I should have brought this up myself. My wife says they are going to setup their bank accounts separately, her dad his own and her mom her own. But, that my wife is going to be on her mom's account. Not sure what to make of this.
Hi brother this is a good time for you to review what the Bible defines as love. Make sure your heart and the attitudes that flow from this are consistent with walking in love. I have found some of my biggest mistakes is when my thinking left love and I had justification for being otherwise like you. I did a lot of damage and in hindsight when I choose to walk in love I find I am sowing a harvest that is supernatural as we all reap what we sow. So I was perhaps justified in anger, resentment and in my actions but in reality I was sowing a lot of bad seed. Once I flipped the script my actions, thoughts and attitude transformed and the situations were resolved.
4 Love suffers long
and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails.
hear is the definition of wisdom as well and I use this as a test on my attitudes as the wisdom of the world is only two things bitter envy and self seeking..
contrasted to this wisdom form above.
13 Who
is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct
that his works
are done in the meekness of wisdom. 14 But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. 15 This wisdom does not descend from above, but
is earthly, sensual, demonic. 16 For where envy and self-seeking
exist, confusion and every evil thing
are there. 17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. 18 Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.