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KeepTheFaith15

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guys i need alot of help and i need prayer. please im asking you this, pray for me because im trying so hard to reach my ex boyfriend, it's hard teaching your faith to someone who doesnt want to listen, it's hard losing someone to the enemy when you still love them as much as i love him, if something doesnt click soon he's gonna harm himself or others, if something is misspelled it's because im writing this through tears. if something inside him doesnt see through im gonna lose him. it's hard loving someone and see him go to satan when all youve worked on in the past hasnt hit himas hard as satans evil doings has, i cry and cry and pray and pray but im losing him and i dont know what to do....
 

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I'll be prayying too

Remember that NOTHING is too big for God to handle.

I am wondering if this thread wouldn't be better suited for the prayer and advice forum. I mean, some strong Christians don't come in this forum cause they think it is silly and wanna engage in more serious study. I can move it if you want...or one of the other mods might. Let me think on it.

Still, you are swet to care so much and your heart is golden. Your testimony might be enough for your ex to think you have something he needs, and that will be all God needs to come into his life.
 
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Awesome you're trying so hard to bring him to you. Sometimes the hardest part is to get an ignorant and hard hearted person to actually listen to you. But as usual, don't be forceful as it doesn't put a crack in a wall. Instead, just play it cool and keep at it. Trust God that He will help open up his heart.
 
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KeepTheFaith....

Keep praying for him sweetie!!! maybe he needs to go through these bad times, to appreciate God more.

My best friend tried to help me get saved for over 10 years, we still remained best friends, but I ran from her words, and thought my way was better!!! when I finally got saved, a month ago, she was the first person I called, and I thanked her for never leaving my side, and always keeping me in her prayers!!!

God has a plan for him, and will bring him to Him in His time!!!

I will keep you both in my prayers in the mean time.
 
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Keep praying. Keep trying. I know that it is hard. Don't give up. Sometimes on our end situations seem impossible, but nothing is impossible with God.

I have prayed for your ex-boyfriend and I will continue to do so.

God bless you
Roberta
 
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Pray for him. Really. I'm beginning to learn that prayer is more effective than I could ever be. Remember that God has a plan and it definitely doesn't line up with ours. It may take this guy a few years for all we know. And you are not responsible for his hard heart. Let your faith be revealed in who you are. let him see the light in the life you live. How he responds is not your responsibility. it's hard to see that sometimes.
And finally, just to tell you, you care about him, don't let him take advantage of you in this situation. That happens a lot and you need to know that.
 
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