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I'm the luckiest guy ever

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I got back with my girl :), we've been back together for a couple weeks and it's better than ever like we never missed a beat. I love that girl so much. so yeah, I'm happy. we realized that we both made our mistake, and in this case it was better to forgive and forget. i really think god set the bar high when he drew this girl up. she's amazing, and I can't believe i almost blew it.
 

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I got back with my girl :), we've been back together for a couple weeks and it's better than ever like we never missed a beat. I love that girl so much. so yeah, I'm happy. we realized that we both made our mistake, and in this case it was better to forgive and forget. i really think god set the bar high when he drew this girl up. she's amazing, and I can't believe i almost blew it.


Great! I'm happy for you!

Jonathan
 
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What happened originally? How did the reconciliation occur, if you don't mind me being nosy? I like a good story :)


we kind of broke up when she left for college in another state, we kind of got involved, did some really stupid stuff, (both of us), i flipped out, said some really stupid things, and then i apologized, and then we basdically talked again some weeks later, and we both agreed that we wanted to make this work between us, (It never really felt like we were "over") I wrote her a letter where i promised to straighten my issues out with what happened, a little insecurities on my part, and she said she'd pray for me and help me, and then we went on a drive, talked a bit more. and agreed to get back together, and it feels like it's still the SAME almost 2 year relationshipo (3 when u count this school year, haha). So yeah, we're more than okay now, it's awesome, and I love her to death, and I know it's gonna be alright...........:) It's weird, because it's like i loved this amazing incredible, beautiful girl ever since i met her, and when i think we've hit a snag, this kind of reconcilaition happens, or something good happens for us. i love her, she's so sweet, amazing, beautiful, thoughtful, funny, easy to talk to, and loves jesus so much, she's my best friend, and I'm not gonna mess it up this time. she deserves better/
 
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