:( I'm Sad

[beetlequeendiva]

I am a little bit down right now - I found out yesterday that I am bulemic and will be referred to the Eating Disorder Clinic. I also found out that my so-called best friend made me out to be an absolutely horrible person - she told another friend all these lies about me because this other person didn't know me that well she believed it. i'm really hurt that my best friend would do this - she made me out to be a liar and a really nasty person - 2 things that I am not!!!! I dont know I'm really hurt right now

 

[els_bells]

I'm really sorry that you're hurting. I'll be praying for you

 

[KittiK]

I am a little bit down right now - I found out yesterday that I am bulemic and will be referred to the Eating Disorder Clinic. I also found out that my so-called best friend made me out to be an absolutely horrible person - she told another friend all these lies about me because this other person didn't know me that well she believed it. i'm really hurt that my best friend would do this - she made me out to be a liar and a really nasty person - 2 things that I am not!!!! I dont know I'm really hurt right now

Diva, you are in my prayers! All the hope and love in the world for you on your recovery!

As far as your friend goes, I've had that happen to me, and I'm not really sure why people do these things, but we can't help what others do...we can only 'react' to what happens. IMHO, the best way for you to react would be to continue your life in the best way you can...in the end she will be shown for what she really is, and so will you. Ones who lie can't keep it up forever and whatever goes around, comes around. God has a pretty cool way of showing our hearts to people. Getting defensive will only put it into the minds of the ones she told that she was right. Be nice, be sweet (2 things I know you ARE!) and live your life. Don't hand it over to her...keep it close to your heart and be strong. We're here girl! Keep talking!

 

[Syrup6]

I am a little bit down right now - I found out yesterday that I am bulemic and will be referred to the Eating Disorder Clinic. I also found out that my so-called best friend made me out to be an absolutely horrible person - she told another friend all these lies about me because this other person didn't know me that well she believed it. i'm really hurt that my best friend would do this - she made me out to be a liar and a really nasty person - 2 things that I am not!!!! I dont know I'm really hurt right now

Isn't it funny that God knew to tell us, 2000 years and more ago that we would face adversity in our faith, and as believers. How many times have we believed that if we're sad or things are going wrong that God isn't blessing us. But, what if He's blessing you right now through the awful things that are going on. Praise God that you were diagnosed and are going to be able to get treatment! Praise God that He is showing you who your friends really are. This is going to be a lonely time for you, and the best thing you can do, as I have done in my recent lonely time, is to not mope. Realize that moping is not hope, and that God is our hope so we have no reason to mope. I'm really not TRYING to rhyme. You are precious, hon. Don't forget that,
Tracy