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I get the impression some start these threads for the attention. But the, I'm a bit cynical.

Honestly, I suspect the same thing. They need a warm fuzzy so they say they will pack up their marbles and go home. Then, they hang around to see how many people beg them not to go.
 
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GLK said:
I am new to this forum and I see exactly what Ashout means. I'm going to look around a little while longer but I don't know. My feeling is not good right now. Just a bunch of arguing on here. I don't knowl

Forums are a place where people put forth ideas and debate them, sometimes vigorously. Sometimes there are lighter topics. You just have to decide what you want to be involved with.
 
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Forums are a place where people put forth ideas and debate them, sometimes vigorously. Sometimes there are lighter topics. You just have to decide what you want to be involved with.

Oh, so it's just a debating thing? Is the whole thing like that or is there somewhere on here where you can go just for Christian support and uplifting? I don't really want to just debate. I was looking for a more cordial atmosphere. Maybe I was wrong in coming here.
 
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Oh, so it's just a debating thing? Is the whole thing like that or is there somewhere on here where you can go just for Christian support and uplifting? I don't really want to just debate. I was looking for a more cordial atmosphere. Maybe I was wrong in coming here.

There's a sub forum for Christian fellowship, and the rest of the Edification forums where we usually come together for support, and edification, but surely nothing to replace a church environment. :) Welcome! :wave: :prayer:
 
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There's a sub forum for Christian fellowship, and the rest of the Edification forums where we usually come together for support, and edification, but surely nothing to replace a church environment. :) Welcome! :wave: :prayer:

Thanks. I'm certainly not looking to replace a church environment. Just fellow Christians to talk to. I am quite surprised to see all of the harsh words.....on a Christian Forum. I think I've made a mistake in coming here.
 
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Thanks. I'm certainly not looking to replace a church environment. Just fellow Christians to talk to. I am quite surprised to see all of the harsh words.....on a Christian Forum. I think I've made a mistake in coming here.
My thought is....that we need people who walk in love and patience and knowledge...people who love God with all their heart and love others to stay here on this forum and make a difference...but sometimes I worry that those who are babes will get angry and lost in here... :(
 
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Thanks. I'm certainly not looking to replace a church environment. Just fellow Christians to talk to. I am quite surprised to see all of the harsh words.....on a Christian Forum. I think I've made a mistake in coming here.

I'm thinking some people pointed out how some of the things you believe are unbiblical, and it has rubbed you the wrong way,(not that this is your error) but Its funny how my parents fought tooth and nail to hold onto their infant baptism, until finally they let the bible speak for itself, let it be the teller of truth, let go of there false teaching........they both were baptised as believing adults.......but the ramifications of their decision cost them there life long affiliation with an infant baptising denomination, they were shuned for sticking with the biblical teaching.......its better to stay in biblical truth than follow the erronious teachings of men
 
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I'm thinking some people pointed out how some of the things you believe are unbiblical, and it has rubbed you the wrong way,(not that this is your error) but Its funny how my parents fought tooth and nail to hold onto their infant baptism, until finally they let the bible speak for itself, let it be the teller of truth, let go of there false teaching........they both were baptised as believing adults.......but the ramifications of their decision cost them there life long affiliation with an infant baptising denomination, they were shuned for sticking with the biblical teaching.......its better to stay in biblical truth than follow the erronious teachings of men

This is precisely what I am talking about. There is no need in you trying to be confrontational and insulting. That is NOT Christian. "Infant Baptising Denomination"? That is NOT what Jesus teaches. If there is anything that you have shown, it's that just because it's called Christian does not mean it is.
 
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GLK said:
This is precisely what I am talking about. There is no need in you trying to be confrontational and insulting. That is NOT Christian. "Infant Baptising Denomination"? That is NOT what Jesus teaches. If there is anything that you have shown, it's that just because it's called Christian does not mean it is.

Careful. You are debating. You are stating that someone else was wrong and are correcting them based upon what you believe to be true.
 
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Who was harsh?

I guess if you don't recognize it in yourself then there is little hope. lLt me just end this by saying that some of the folks I've encountered on here are just down right mean. A lot more are completely arrogant and that's just not what the Christian lifestyle should be about. To those who wish others well, I say God Help You. To the rest of you, God Help You!
 
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GLK said:
I guess if you don't recognize it in yourself then there is little hope. lLt me just end this by saying that some of the folks I've encountered on here are just down right mean. A lot more are completely arrogant and that's just not what the Christian lifestyle should be about. To those who wish others well, I say God Help You. To the rest of you, God Help You!

You mistook my pointing out the hypocrisy in your statements as harshness. I suppose that cannot be avoided in this type of setting.
 
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I'm thinking some people pointed out how some of the things you believe are unbiblical, and it has rubbed you the wrong way,(not that this is your error) but Its funny how my parents fought tooth and nail to hold onto their infant baptism, until finally they let the bible speak for itself, let it be the teller of truth, let go of there false teaching........they both were baptised as believing adults.......but the ramifications of their decision cost them there life long affiliation with an infant baptising denomination, they were shuned for sticking with the biblical teaching.......its better to stay in biblical truth than follow the erronious teachings of men
I'm not sure what gave you the right to make this post without investigating what she believes in the first place. She hasn't been on the forums very long and in looking through her posts they look pretty solid to me. I think you owe her an apology for making erroneous assumptions.
 
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This is precisely what I am talking about. There is no need in you trying to be confrontational and insulting. That is NOT Christian. "Infant Baptising Denomination"? That is NOT what Jesus teaches. If there is anything that you have shown, it's that just because it's called Christian does not mean it is.


I was only trying to point out how my own parents became very angry when they were confronted with truth, pride in ones beliefs is a strong opponent to fight even with the truth of God's word, because when faced with truth you finally have to come to a realization that you were wrong. the baptist have good doctrine concerning the error of infant baptism......in the end the Word of God always wins
 
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