Im-revived, no one is more worthy of God's blessings than you.
Merciful Lord God, I humbly pray thee help Im-revived. She helps so many others, and she needs thy help speedily. In Jesus name.
Im-revived, I'm going to talk nonsense to you, but it won't be one of my super-long posts. I'll quote some Scriptures instead.
The relevant Scripture is in Malachi;
3:10: Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.
Give to God; that is, find a charity to give to. One that cannot repay you, and does not engage in boiler-room phone solicitations. I can't suggest which one.
Give to them a significant amount. Tithing is Old Testament Jewish law, whereas we are Christians. Christians give 'as prospered'. 1 Corinthians 16:2 Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him, that there be no gatherings when I come.
Yes, I know, you're in desperate straits. So let's add the widow and her two mites; Mark 12:42: And there came a certain poor widow, and she threw in two mites, which make a farthing.
12:43: And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That this poor widow hath cast more in, than all they which have cast into the treasury:
Do not give so as to be seen of men; Matthew 6:1: Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven.
6:2: Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
6:3: But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth:
6:4: That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.
If the bank clerk sees your check, that is incidental and unavoidable. Just don't tell everyone, and this answers Matthew 6:1-4 sufficiently.
Then wait on the Lord.
Yes, it sounds crazy. But 'the wisdom of man is foolishness before God, and the foolishness of God is wisdom'. 1 Cor. 3:18-20
I pray once again, that He will give an answer to your plight and needs, and speedily.