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Im-revived said:I was in two minds wether to tell you all this, as I've done something seriously wrong legally and had no idea I was in the wrong. But prayer can only help me at present. This is the story and please don't be mad at me as everything is a mess. I trust you'll understand and help me by praying.
As many of you know I was last October living with my ex partner and three kids. At the end of October I moved out with one of my sons due to many different problems. At that point while living there my ex was claiming Carers Allowance for me, which he was entitled too as I am disabled which most of you know. I was told after moving out I could claim Severe Disability Allowance as I wasn't living with my carer, so I did and began to receive it in December. Apparantly my ex was still recieving Carers for me, this I didn't know. You see you can only receive one or the other. Anyway because he was receiving that and I was getting Severe Disability as I'm on my own with my son, the Social Security have stopped all my money and I have to go to court and a tribuneral, because they think I've lied. I havn't, I didn't know he was still claiming as I've not seen him, so hes in the wrong, apparantly it takes months to sort things out, but till it is I have no money coming in. They have said ive commited fraud, and I really don't know what to do. Please will you pray they will realise this isn't my fault and I will get money soon. I'm scared of the courts and everything and really don't know how we are going to manage.
Thankyou.
Praying ...
