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IJWTS, not that it applies to our marriage, but I can't believe there are people who can't wrap their minds around the idea that marriage is not just about sex and some people do get married even if they are totally incapable of having sex with each other. To say that "marriage is sex" as if it is the be all end all of things is so... shallow.
[c]ceh85 said:IJWTS I was going to go to bed like an hour and a half ago
IAJWTS I had the worst experience ever with public transport yesterday.. (apart from that train ride I took to Birmingham once.. oh my goodness). But yeah, not fun when a 15 min journey ends up taking 2 hours and involves lots of waiting around. Especially when it's raining.
Edit: just to counteract my moaning, I saw a red squirrel the other day! It was scampering![]()
IJWTS this has been a great weekend and I am sad to see it endA curse upon you Monday!
I think a problem with your post is that it is reactionary and introduces a red herring. I don't know any married people who define marriage as "just sex". But it is true that sex creates a special union within a marriage that helps define it. After all, one can live with family or friends, hug and kiss them, be committed to them, make financial and otherwise life decisions with them and all kinds of other togetherness and communal activities without being married to them. Or would you disagree?
I hate hearing something that absolutely kills me inside but I have to act like I don't care.