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IJWTS- that I'm not going to say anything and just wait for time to pass and see how it works out.

Having nothing to do with your specific situation:

My thoughts exactly. Though in my case, it's really none of my business and I'm pretty sure I won't even bother to see how it turns out. I was just more disappointed to hear what I heard, though not really shocked to be honest.


I think it's good to go with your instincts though, for sure. And I'm so glad that I did with that particular person.
 
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IJWTS that last week, RayofSun promised that she would forever be in the list of my ten most recent visitors to my profile. Well, she's gone camping, and has now dropped from that list.

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IJWTS-Thanks for the prayers.

IAJWTS-Whoever made my rubies tag, I love you (as a human being, not all :kiss:-like :D). Things are kind of rough for me right now and seeing this tag every day (since there are always new posts in this thread) is so nice.
 
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IJWTS-I know I've said before that my preferences and must-haves for a match are lessening, but it's especially true now. For the past few weeks I've been spent a significant about of time with a family member and her SO (significant other). The SO watches Fox News all of the time (or WWE wrestling) and listens to Michael Savage on the radio. Having to watch Fox News and listen to Savage was actually bearable (though Savage and Hannity do make me roll my eyes quite a bit, at least O'Reilly is somewhat entertaining). I think that I could easily date a conservative.

Also, I've been around my sister and her boyfriend a few times lately. They are so very different and thought there was no way they could make a relationship work because of all of the differences (they were friends first and almost didn't date because of that). But they have a great relationship and my sister said yesterday that the things that have caused problems, are not things that would have occurred to them before. Their differences, what others might say would make them incompatible, haven't been a problem at all.

So, what I'm trying to say is that I'm at the point where my main concern is being with someone who treats me well...not like a princess and all that necessarily, but is kind, honest, etc. The SO I mentioned is also verbally abusive. That I cannot stand. I'm tough, but I'm still human. But once I have kindness and someone who is easy for me to be around, all of the other things just don't seem as important. Yeah, I still have preferences, but even those are dwindling.
 
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IJWTS-I know I've said before that my preferences and must-haves for a match are lessening, but it's especially true now. For the past few weeks I've been spent a significant about of time with a family member and her SO (significant other). The SO watches Fox News all of the time (or WWE wrestling) and listens to Michael Savage on the radio. Having to watch Fox News and listen to Savage was actually bearable (though Savage and Hannity do make me roll my eyes quite a bit, at least O'Reilly is somewhat entertaining). I think that I could easily date a conservative.

Also, I've been around my sister and her boyfriend a few times lately. They are so very different and thought there was no way they could make a relationship work because of all of the differences (they were friends first and almost didn't date because of that). But they have a great relationship and my sister said yesterday that the things that have caused problems, are not things that would have occurred to them before. Their differences, what others might say would make them incompatible, haven't been a problem at all.

So, what I'm trying to say is that I'm at the point where my main concern is being with someone who treats me well...not like a princess and all that necessarily, but is kind, honest, etc. The SO I mentioned is also verbally abusive. That I cannot stand. I'm tough, but I'm still human. But once I have kindness and someone who is easy for me to be around, all of the other things just don't seem as important. Yeah, I still have preferences, but even those are dwindling.

IJWTS - :hug:
 
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IJWTS - I'm all sorts of fired up! Eeeeeeeeee!!

You got a new eye chart? :p

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Sorry, but there's nothing better than turning off all the lights, curling up to a nice blankie, lighting some candles and watching old episodes of Dawson's Creek while eating Edy's Cherry Chocolate Chip ice cream and crying endlessly throughout the show.

What?

Why is everyone looking at me?


BTW, I tend to stay away from Glee....
TV recap: 'Glee' makes us happy and sad – The Marquee Blog - CNN.com Blogs
 
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IJWTS-Thanks for the prayers.

IAJWTS-Whoever made my rubies tag, I love you (as a human being, not all :kiss:-like :D). Things are kind of rough for me right now and seeing this tag every day (since there are always new posts in this thread) is so nice.

OH it's rubies... :sorry: I read it like rabies and was just about to report it. But hey, it's way cooler this way! :clap:
 
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