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If you could change one teaching of the Bible what would it be?

  • I'd make all consenting sex okay

  • I'd make homosexual relationships/sex okay

  • I'd change the teachings on womens role in church and family

  • I'd kick out the creation story and write an obvious evolution story

  • I'd scrap all the references to God punishing people (i.e the Flood)

  • I'd scrap the list of harsh punishments (such as death by stoning) given in the OT

  • I'd scrap the stories of Israels killing of foreign tribes

  • I'd give Judas a second chance so he can repent and get saved

  • I'd make all lawyers and politicians hellbound regardless of faith

  • other (please specify)


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[Bonhoffer]Listen to this scenario:

GOD speaks to you one day and says that He would like you to make a decision for Him. He would like YOU to choose one part/aspect/teaching of the Bible to be changed or removed entirely. He then promises that once you have chosen that part/aspect/teaching would be removed from all the Bibles in the world and erased from all memories, as if that teaching never existed. Then whatever that part/aspect/teaching was and what it was related to would become true. (i.e If you removed all references to hell there would be no hell)

Now lets exclude anything to do with unbeleivers going to hell or with Satan existing or the Fall of Man!

What teaching/part/aspect would you change and why?
Hi Bonhoffer :) Excellent question.

Now I will probably be shot down for saying this but here goes anyway;

Now before I say what it is I need to stress that I am a happily married 31 year old man with a beautiful 8 year old daughter. I needed to make that point incase certain people felt I had some kind of hidden agenda.

I would take away the sin aspect of homosexual relationships. Why? Because I genuingly believe that many gay men and women are in not only loving and fulfilling relationships with eachother but also with God. If they love God with a passion and they are in committed relationships then I wouldn't have a problem with that or want it to be labelled sin.

Just my opinion. :)
 
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Duggie said:
Hi Bonhoffer :) Excellent question.

Now I will probably be shot down for saying this but here goes anyway;

Now before I say what it is I need to stress that I am a happily married 31 year old man with a beautiful 8 year old daughter. I needed to make that point incase certain people felt I had some kind of hidden agenda.

I would take away the sin aspect of homosexual relationships. Why? Because I genuingly believe that many gay men and women are in not only loving and fulfilling relationships with eachother but also with God. If they love God with a passion and they are in committed relationships then I wouldn't have a problem with that or want it to be labelled sin.

Just my opinion. :)
I'd love homosexuality not to be a sin. I'd love women to be able to serve in eldership. But I am not God!!

It would be far easier to share Jesus with homosexuals if same-sex relations werent a sin and werent condemned so passionatly. These days I fear that Satan is spreading the lie that God hates gay people. (when God just hates gay sex) Satan quotes scripture and perverts its meaning in order to cause gay people to reject God and thus forsake the kingdom of heaven.
 
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Bonhoffer said:
These days I fear that Satan is spreading the lie that God hates gay people. (when God just hates gay sex) Satan quotes scripture and perverts its meaning in order to cause gay people to reject God and thus forsake the kingdom of heaven.
Oh come on now! God hates gay sex?? Homosexuals now go to hell because satan perverts Scripture to cause them to reject God???:scratch:

Are you listening to yourselves?

People go to hell because they choose to obey their own lusts rather than submit to God, period. Scripture says that we are without excuse in such cases, but you would say they have an excuse?

You know, I have heard that a number of adulterers have also been turned off by the prohibitions against adultery in Scripture. Maybe Scripture-toting satanists have been the cause of their rejection of God too!

First, God does NOT hate homosexuals. But what in the world does "God hates gay sex" mean? I mean, is it the "gay sex" that will be sent to hell for this activity? Even though God does NOT hate homosexuals, they will certainly be condemned if they refuse to repent and turn away from their sins just like everyone else.

The whole tone of these posts boarders on heresy because not only have we started considering how we can improve on God's plan for man, but now we have gone so far as to blame God's commands for the rebellion of sinners.

Utterly amazing! :cry:
 
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[Ainesis]Oh come on now! God hates gay sex?? Homosexuals now go to hell because satan perverts Scripture to cause them to reject God???:scratch:

Are you listening to yourselves?

People go to hell because they choose to obey their own lusts rather than submit to God, period. Scripture says that we are without excuse in such cases, but you would say they have an excuse?

You know, I have heard that a number of adulterers have also been turned off by the prohibitions against adultery in Scripture. Maybe Scripture-toting satanists have been the cause of their rejection of God too!

First, God does NOT hate homosexuals. But what in the world does "God hates gay sex" mean? I mean, is it the "gay sex" that will be sent to hell for this activity? Even though God does NOT hate homosexuals, they will certainly be condemned if they refuse to repent and turn away from their sins just like everyone else.

The whole tone of these posts boarders on heresy because not only have we started considering how we can improve on God's plan for man, but now we have gone so far as to blame God's commands for the rebellion of sinners.

Utterly amazing! :cry:
If I may respectfully reply to your post my friend :)

I think what Bonhoffer is trying to say, please correct me if I'm reading you wrong, is that God loves the sinner but hates the sin. In other words if a gay man is having sex with another man he is obviously in sin. Just like us when we have pre-marital sex. No-one is disputing that nor am I blaming God's commands for the rebellion of sinners.

Allow me to clarify my point. I gave my personal opinon on what I would like to see happen if I were able to remove one thing from the bible or what God had originally intended. I am not suggesting that anything needs changing or that God hasn't done enough. This is a hypothetical discussion and by no means should be taken literally. My personal opinion on things like creation, gifts of the Spirit etc... may differ from another believer but that doesn't make my view any less valid.

I am not God, my ways are not His ways and I would never assume my humble, personal opinion is somehow more worthy than what God has already implemented. Just like I would never want to see a non-believer suffer in hell for eternity. Does that make my love greater than God's because I wouldn't send a person to hell even though he may deserve it? Of course it doesn't. I cannot begin to comprehend God's ways or why He chooses to do those things He does. What I do know is, is that God is love and His love is for all to recieve regardless of who they are and what they have done. The fact is I understand completely why God feels the way he does not only about homosexuality but also adultery, fornication, murder etc..
He loves us and wants the best for us. Simple!! :)
 
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Ainesis said:
Oh come on now! God hates gay sex?? Homosexuals now go to hell because satan perverts Scripture to cause them to reject God???:scratch:

Are you listening to yourselves?

People go to hell because they choose to obey their own lusts rather than submit to God, period. Scripture says that we are without excuse in such cases, but you would say they have an excuse?
Theres a serious misunderstanding here!! I did NOT say homosexuals have an excuse. No one has an excuse. What I meant by Satan perverting to scriptures is when Satan says to a homosexual "Look at the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. God must hate you because he hates gay people".
It is a fact that a lot of gay people are put off the Christian faith because they are told (by satan and even Christians) that they are not welcome in church. (even if they are celebate).
You know, I have heard that a number of adulterers have also been turned off by the prohibitions against adultery in Scripture. Maybe Scripture-toting satanists have been the cause of their rejection of God too!
Well yeah!! Think about it. Why does anyone reject God? Because they listen to the lies and temptations from the Devil. This doesnt give the sinner an excuse because they have free will to say 'no' to Satan. But every single person who has rejected Christ will have been caused to do so by one or more of the Devils schemes. Thats Satans job, to blind people from the truth and encourage them to choose him over God. So some adulterers would have rejected Christ because they were too obsessed with pleasuring themselves through their sin.

But what I am saying here is not that homosexuals are rejecting God because they are too much in love with their sinful lifestyle (although many are for this reason), but because they get the impression from the aggressive language in the Bible that they are seen as diseased and hated by God; and therefore will never be accepted by Christ. That is the lie the Devil is spreading.

First, God does NOT hate homosexuals. But what in the world does "God hates gay sex" mean?
It means exactly what it says. "God dislikes it when two members of the same biological sex engage in sexual activity"!
I mean, is it the "gay sex" that will be sent to hell for this activity?
If a gay person goes to hell it will be for turning from God in heart and practice. Homosexuals will be 'damned' just as much for all the times they have sworn, lied or got angry with someone; as they will be for all homosexual thought and practice.
The whole tone of these posts boarders on heresy because not only have we started considering how we can improve on God's plan for man, but now we have gone so far as to blame God's commands for the rebellion of sinners.
You've misunderstood again!
No one is saying that the Bible or Gods law is imperfect and needs to be changed. I don't at all think there is any way to improve God plan for man or the Bible because both are perfect.

This is a hypothetical question and should not be taken seriously. The idea behind it was meant to expose peoples struggles with the Bible, because it is not heresy to say that many people find it difficult to accept everything.
All I wanted was for people to say things like "I wish the Bible condoned getting drunk because I enjoy getting drunk" or "I wish the Bible didnt tell of how God ordered the Israelites to wipe out the Canaanites, because it makes God look like a tyrant and that makes explaining how God is Love to my atheist friend very difficult!"

Obviously everything that is in the Bible is there for a good reason. But people for their own selfish reasons do sometimes wish that such and such a bit wasnt in. This thread was only basically asking "which bit of the Bible do you struggle with the most ?" That is all. No one is suggesting that the Bible needs changing.
 
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Bonhoffer said:
Theres a serious misunderstanding here!! I did NOT say homosexuals have an excuse. No one has an excuse. What I meant by Satan perverting to scriptures is when Satan says to a homosexual "Look at the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. God must hate you because he hates gay people".
It is a fact that a lot of gay people are put off the Christian faith because they are told (by satan and even Christians) that they are not welcome in church.
I can understand that But there are people who are not welcome in churches because of their gender, because of their race, because of their outward appearance... No one is saying that this does not occur or that it is not wrong.

However, what you said was "Satan quotes scripture and perverts its meaning in order to cause gay people to reject God and thus forsake the kingdom of heaven." With this I disgaree. If sinners reject God, it is not because someone else has put them off from the Gosple, but because they choose their own lusts over God. God promises us that those who seek after righteousness shall be filled. So even if we come across 100 false Christians, He promises that He will lead us into Truth IF we really want it. So, while people my try to pervert Scripture and make it a stumbling block for sinners, that is not the cause of their rejection of God.

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But every single person who has rejected Christ will have been caused to do so by one or more of the Devils schemes. Thats Satans job, to blind people from the truth and encourage them to choose him over God.
This is just my point. In one sentence you say that satan causes them to reject Christ. Then in another you say they choose to. People are responsible for their own choices, even when they have been enticed to choose poorly. It is still their choice and not something that can be blamed on satan or people perverting Scripture.

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But what I am saying here is not that homosexuals are rejecting God because they are too much in love with their sinful lifestyle (although many are for this reason), but because they get the impression from the aggressive language in the Bible that they are seen as diseased and hated by God; and therefore will never be accepted by Christ. That is the lie the Devil is spreading.
And that is exactly what I am contesting. Yes, this is one of the lies that the devil is spreading. But, people do exactly what they want to do. If someone really wanted the Lord, no one else would be able to stop them. Take a look at the following:

"And, behold, a woman of Canaan came out of the same coasts, and cried unto him, saying, Have mercy on me, O Lord, thou Son of David; my daughter is grievously vexed with a devil. But he answered her not a word. And his disciples came and besought him, saying, Send her away; for she crieth after us. But he answered and said, I am not sent but unto the lost sheep of the house of Israel. Then came she and worshipped him, saying, Lord, help me. But he answered and said, It is not meet to take the children's bread, and to cast it to dogs. And she said, Truth, Lord: yet the dogs eat of the crumbs which fall from their masters' table. Then Jesus answered and said unto her, O woman, great is thy faith: be it unto thee even as thou wilt. And her daughter was made whole from that very hour" Matthew 15:22-28

Although this is not a perversion of Scripture, the words Jesus spoke could be considered pretty hard and even discouraging. He called her and her daughter dogs. Yet, should would not be denied. She sought after Him anyway. Had she been proud, she could have easily been offended at Jesus, but she was humble. Whatever you say, whatever you call me, I need you Jesus.

This is not an excuse to mistreat people, but it is an example of how those who truly desire the Lord will continue to seek after Him, in spite of harsh words and comments meant to deter. If someone tells you that they have not come to God because of the way people have treated them, then they are lying. They are just not ready to give up sin. If there was $10 million dollars at the end of this road, but along the way you had to endure people mistreating you and calling you names, would that make you stop going down the road? Or would you press on with your eyes on the prize ahead?

Bonhoffer said:
No one is saying that the Bible or Gods law is imperfect and needs to be changed. I don't at all think there is any way to improve God plan for man or the Bible because both are perfect.
Actually, I would say that is exactly what people are saying. Yes, in hypothesis only, and only in terms of this discussion, but that is gist of it, albeit indirectly.

Bonhoffer said:
This is a hypothetical question and should not be taken seriously. The idea behind it was meant to expose peoples struggles with the Bible, because it is not heresy to say that many people find it difficult to accept everything.
No, you are right, that is not heresy. The way that you stated it above is straightforward and to the point. The simple fact is that there are portions of God's Word that are a struggle. I don't deny that. Yet seeing post after post about what people would change in God's Word was really making me rather sick.

I apologize if it sounds like I am coming down hard on this. It is not my intent to take something that was meant to be light and turn it into something else. However, I really wonder if people are considering what they are really saying. If God were standing right in front of us, we might ask him for insight on those things we could not understand, but would we really have the gall to tell Him what we would have changed?

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All I wanted was for people to say things like "I wish the Bible condoned getting drunk because I enjoy getting drunk" or "I wish the Bible didnt tell of how God ordered the Israelites to wipe out the Canaanites, because it makes God look like a tyrant and that makes explaining how God is Love to my atheist friend very difficult!"
But why did you want people to say things like that? If you acknowlegde that God is perfect, then our problems with His Word are demonstrative of our shortcomings, not His.

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Obviously everything that is in the Bible is there for a good reason. But people for their own selfish reasons do sometimes wish that such and such a bit wasnt in.
That is really the bottom line. It seemed to be a lot of selfishness being encouraged and that is why I responded. Not seeking understanding or insight into the things that we struggle with, but indicating what we (in our selfishness) would like to change.

So, since I have already proven myself to be a stick in the mud in this thread, I suppose it is better for me to leave it alone and let those who are enjoying it continue to do so.

Thanks.
 
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That is really the bottom line. It seemed to be a lot of selfishness being encouraged and that is why I responded. Not seeking understanding or insight into the things that we struggle with, but indicating what we (in our selfishness) would like to change.

So, since I have already proven myself to be a stick in the mud in this thread, I suppose it is better for me to leave it alone and let those who are enjoying it continue to do so.

Thanks.
Having thought about it I would have to agree with what your saying. I guess in my answering the question the way I did in retrospect it does seem kinda selfish. I mean God created us He is all wise and all knowing and here's me coming in and effectively saying "Mmmm Yeah but God you could have done things this way" It's not exactly wise is it :doh:

I stand by my previous post but would never want to come across as someone who would question God's commandments. Thank you :)
 
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Duggie said:
Having thought about it I would have to agree with what your saying. I guess in my answering the question the way I did in retrospect it does seem kinda selfish. I mean God created us He is all wise and all knowing and here's me coming in and effectively saying "Mmmm Yeah but God you could have done things this way" It's not exactly wise is it :doh:

I stand by my previous post but would never want to come across as someone who would question God's commandments. Thank you :)
Duggie,

I was going to send you a PM, but I think this needs to be said publically.

I am not making any accusations against you for starting this thread. I too participated in it. Neither do I believe that you were trying to make any implications about God's Word in starting this thread.

The fact of the matter is you owe me no explanation. You have every right to post as you see fit. I hope that I didn't sound like an old school marm with a ruler in my post.

Just like you, I stand by what I wrote, however perhaps I could have been more genteel in my response.

I hope I have not offended you or any other, and if so I pray that you forgive me.

Thanks. :sorry:
 
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[Ainesis]Duggie,

I was going to send you a PM, but I think this needs to be said publically.

I am not making any accusations against you for starting this thread. I too participated in it. Neither do I believe that you were trying to make any implications about God's Word in starting this thread.

The fact of the matter is you owe me no explanation. You have every right to post as you see fit. I hope that I didn't sound like an old school marm with a ruler in my post.

Just like you, I stand by what I wrote, however perhaps I could have been more genteel in my response.

I hope I have not offended you or any other, and if so I pray that you forgive me.

Thanks. :sorry:
Absolutely no offence taken my friend :) What you said got me thinking and caused me to re-assess what I had previously stated in a more constuctive and positive way. I answered the original question in haste when really I should have paused and thought about how I was going to reply. I'm glad you said what you did. :)
 
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i agree with the women in the church, but would also like to change the homosezual refrences.
this argument comes from my re teacher, some of the things in the Bible apply to all times and all societys, like do not kill! some were specific to the time they were written, like the homosexual could be applied to all societys, but i believe it is more aimed atthe society of the time it was written. this rule could simply apply toi the iseralites as homosexuality would not continue the human race! i see how it can be seen as bad, abnd not natural, as if it were meant to be, God would not haqve made man and wonan so suited, but i have some gay friends, and one in particular is so camp that its so natural to be gay, it just seems normal to him!
i understand why it is wrong, but he is Christian, and is comfortable with it all!

i also believe that the rules about women said bvy paul were specific to the time that they were written. to take them out of the Bible and put them straight into our modern society it would be taking them out of context as they were specific to the time they were written. now women have a higher stand in society and are accepted, which they were not in the times the Bible was written. Also, Jesus accepted women in stories like the syro-phonecien woman, which shows Jesus was willing to accept woman as he accepted men, so then we should do the same. The women were also the first to see him after he was resurected, showing their importance to him!
 
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Bonhoffer said:
Listen to this scenario:

GOD speaks to you one day and says that He would like you to make a decision for Him. He would like YOU to choose one part/aspect/teaching of the Bible to be changed or removed entirely. He then promises that once you have chosen that part/aspect/teaching would be removed from all the Bibles in the world and erased from all memories, as if that teaching never existed. Then whatever that part/aspect/teaching was and what it was related to would become true. (i.e If you removed all references to hell there would be no hell)

Now lets exclude anything to do with unbeleivers going to hell or with Satan existing or the Fall of Man!

What teaching/part/aspect would you change and why?
I would immediately drop the joint that I was smoking!

diane :p
 
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