JJB said:
I'm sure Jesus was an extraordinary child. Even at a young age he was at temple teaching. Yet, as DeaconDean pointed out, he would not be permitted to do so had Mary and Joseph not been married.
Were Mary and Joseph married before Jesus was born?
Mary was a woman who needed a savior. No where in the holy scripture does it say that she was conceived immaculately.
Where does it say she wasn't?
Why would being conceived immaculate obviate the need for a savior?
I would not marry a woman. I am married to a man. I don't understand your question to me.
Sex is ordained by God -- He calls it good. He is the one who gave us sex. How would Joseph be defiling his wife by consummating their marriage?
One would have to be able to understand the ancient Jewish mind and understanding of sacred and holy things and how what God has used and taken for His own glory being set apart unto God and no longer to be used in common ways in order to understand why Joseph would have understood he could not consumate his marriage.
No amount of explaining will suffice if someone is unable to understand this concept.
Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous
How does this say that inorder for a marriage to be honored that the couple must engage in sex?
It speaks of not defiling marraige by being sexually immoral and adulterous. . .
This is not speaking of the marital act itself.
The message of this verse is:
"Let the marriage bed be undefiled"
in other words, don't engage in extramarital sexual activity.
This doesn't apply the way you are tring to make it apply to Mary and Joseph's relationship, otherwise we have a problem, for Mary had a child by
someone other than her husband . . . .
Now, how this DOES apply is this . . .
Mary had a child by someone other than Joseph!
This someone else happens to be GOD.
This means that Joseph would have understood that God had taken Mary to Himself in a special marital relationship, othrwise Jesus would have been born illegitimate.
For Jesus to have been born a legitimate child, his mother would have to have be wed to his actual father.
Was Joseph his father? No . . .
His Father was GOD.
Joseph would have understood this and all its implications and rammifications.
He would have understood that Mary was joined to God in a special union, a superior union to that of one after the flesh, which his betrothal after the flesh could never supercede.
He would have understood that God had set Mary apart for His Own Self.
He would have understood that means Mary was set apart as a holy thing.
He would have also understood that once God sets apart something or someone as a holy thing, for His use and purpose, God
NEVER returns it to common use. It is a
PERMENANT CONDITION AND STATE.
Holy things set apart by God are never to be used for common purposes or in common ways.
The marital act within marriage is very, very common.
Mary, having been set apart for special union with Himself to bring into the world the Christ, would have never, ever been returned to the state of a common wife.
Her STATE of being set apart for God would have been
PERMENANT . . . which Joseph would have been accutely aware of.
So Joseph would have never, ever considered defiling one God had set apart forever as His own . . .
He would have accepted the charge given him by God to protect and help Mary raise Jesus . . and because they had already been betrothed, all was legitimate in appearances to man as well and Jesus was accepted as Joseph's child.
Ihope you can better see how this would mean that for Joseph to touch Mary in a manner consistant with mairtal relations, would be to defile the "marriage bed"
"all" includes Mary and Joseph.
Yes it does, but not in the mannner you presuppose. . . .
Peace