I've studied the Bible endlessly on this topic, and I came to the conclusion that obviously God calls us first, but then it's up to us to accept the free gift of salvation.
I've studied some verses that seem to contradict the Calvinistic view of predestination.
“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.”- 2 Peter 3:9
“Anyone who chooses to do the will of God will find out whether my teaching comes from God or whether I speak on my own”- John 7:17
“But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”- Joshua 24:15
“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.”- Revelation 3:20
“If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.”- Romans 10:9-10
“See the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near.” Isaiah 55:6
“This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.”- Deuteronomy 30:19-20
“Therefore, you Israelites, I will judge each of you according to your own ways, declares the Sovereign LORD. Repent! Turn away from all your offenses; then sin will not be your downfall. Rid yourselves of all the offenses you have committed, and get a new heart and a new spirit. Why will you die, people of Israel? For I take no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Sovereign LORD. Repent and live!”- Ezekiel 18:30-32
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God— children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.”- John 1:12-13
“But they rebelled And grieved His Holy Spirit; Therefore He turned Himself to become their enemy, He fought against them.”- Isaiah 63:10
"You men who are stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears are always resisting the Holy Spirit; you are doing just as your fathers did.”- Acts 7:51
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” John 3:16-17
“And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world.”- 1 John 4:14
“This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all men to be saved, and to come to a knowledge of the truth. For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all men—the testimony given in its proper time.”- 1 Timothy 2:3-6
“Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on him.”- John 3:36
“For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. He died for us so that whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him.”- 1 Thessalonians 5:9-10
“Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”- Romans 10:13
“The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ And let the one who hears say, ‘Come!’ Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life.”- Revelation 22:17
“Yet you refuse to come to me so that you may have life.”- John 5:40 (This is Jesus speaking.)
“For many are called (hear the gospel), but few are chosen (respond to the call).”- Matthew 22:14
“Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.”- John 5:24
“He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.”- 1 John 2:2
I've studied some verses that seem to contradict the Calvinistic view of predestination.
“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.”- 2 Peter 3:9
“Anyone who chooses to do the will of God will find out whether my teaching comes from God or whether I speak on my own”- John 7:17
“But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”- Joshua 24:15
“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.”- Revelation 3:20
“If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.”- Romans 10:9-10
“See the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near.” Isaiah 55:6
“This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.”- Deuteronomy 30:19-20
“Therefore, you Israelites, I will judge each of you according to your own ways, declares the Sovereign LORD. Repent! Turn away from all your offenses; then sin will not be your downfall. Rid yourselves of all the offenses you have committed, and get a new heart and a new spirit. Why will you die, people of Israel? For I take no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Sovereign LORD. Repent and live!”- Ezekiel 18:30-32
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God— children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.”- John 1:12-13
“But they rebelled And grieved His Holy Spirit; Therefore He turned Himself to become their enemy, He fought against them.”- Isaiah 63:10
"You men who are stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears are always resisting the Holy Spirit; you are doing just as your fathers did.”- Acts 7:51
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” John 3:16-17
“And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world.”- 1 John 4:14
“This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all men to be saved, and to come to a knowledge of the truth. For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all men—the testimony given in its proper time.”- 1 Timothy 2:3-6
“Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on him.”- John 3:36
“For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. He died for us so that whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him.”- 1 Thessalonians 5:9-10
“Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”- Romans 10:13
“The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ And let the one who hears say, ‘Come!’ Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life.”- Revelation 22:17
“Yet you refuse to come to me so that you may have life.”- John 5:40 (This is Jesus speaking.)
“For many are called (hear the gospel), but few are chosen (respond to the call).”- Matthew 22:14
“Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.”- John 5:24
“He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.”- 1 John 2:2