Nor can you conjure up evidence that we won't. It seems either God erases our past from our mind, well, just the bad past or both bad and good? If God erases our good memories, such as those of loved ones, seems were nothing more than robots that won't even know who we were on earth. It is because we accept a place of eternal torture that we have all this confusion. If hell exist few people will go there out of choice, more of culture, if you or I were born in Iran, China, etc, there is a 80% chance we would follow cultural beliefs indoctrinated into us from birth, in fact if you compare population ratios with cultural beliefs, the majority of mankind will be in hell.
Man is failed at birth to make perfect decisions, the fact we have so many religions and denominations proves that. Most decision processes are not ours, but based on culture, genetics, enviroment, etc...Compare a child born in poverty in the ghetto, no father, no love, to a child born with means, love, in church, etc....one is most likely to join a gang to survive, the other more likely to learn and accept Christ. Then compare that to about 80% of the jews in WW2 that loved God, but refused Christ because of cultural beliefs, God will become worse than Hitler to them, even though they loved and prayed to God.
Man being born flawed in nature must somehow make a perfect one decision or he goes o hell regardless of culture born into, the way he was raised, etc. Science has proven most of our emotions,personality and thought patterns are fixed before age 12, but still somehow God is just and perfect love even though he will send the majority of his creation to eternal torture?
I as a parent would take the place of any of my children in hell, love would demand it.
If God erases our memories of loved ones, he would have to erase all our memories. For instance, say my mom was in hell, yet I see others with their mothers in heaven, wouldn't I wonder if I had a mom, where she was, etc. Would heaven be as joyful for me to see others with family in heaven and my family was just absent from my memories? Would'nt I question God what is a mother, did I one and where is she now......what would God say?