In God's reprimands, He usually brings up the point of how silly it appears, "gods of wood and stone, which cannot see or hear or eat or smell." It's sort of like when a friend catches you talking to your dog about the bill overcharge you just got in the mail.
People want a focal point they can ramble and complain to, or hope for windfalls from. All the while, God is tapping His feet wondering when we'll come to Him for
real help...
real assistance.
Often we would rather not deal with a personality that we're responsible to -- an intelligent being with opinions and sometimes conditions. Compare asking for directions on a trip... asking about parts at Home Depot -- it's humiliating to show we're not fully competent or knowledgeable. We prefer to do things the hard way, without risk of condescension.
And sometimes we don't really believe that He wants to help us, so we scurry and scrounge and overwork ourselve to prove how worthy we are of accomplishment.
In addition to avoiding personal contact, there were some horrid atrocities committed in the names of idols (and yes, I know about the Christian ones too.) Children were sacrificed to Molech. Women served on a rotation basis as temple prostitutes. People melted down their valuables to create statues.
Mayan remains show proud dedication to human sacrifice and torture. What might have started as a simple prayer to a volcano god turned into an abusive regime.
Throughout history, kings oppressed and robbed the common people so they could build great temples and statues -- people starved so the kings could look important.
God wants to protect us from losing what we worked hard for in life, and from losing self-respect... our value for each others' lives.
I am so consumed with my own little world here in the boonies of PA. I am usually alone here because not many people are around and I get so obsessed with things.
It's great that you're catching this while it's happening. Not easy. I find that I pray more when I have a challenge in front of me -- when someone asked me to pray, or when I'm concerned about an issue, or God placed someone in mind, or I scheduled myself to pray in a time slot at church.
It's not just you -- I think we all need the structure and challenge... a little tension or adversity to motivate us.