No I was saying the contrary, responding to “ Again, it is not the government's job to define marriage or regulate it. ”
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My question was why calling it a civil union would be better to avoid confusion with religious marriages. The word "marriage" is for some reason claimed by religion. Why?No I was saying the contrary, responding to Again, it is not the government's job to define marriage or regulate it.
I don't know why, but in the US, religious person seems to confuse religious marriages and "civil" marriages. If changing how we name it could ease religious people, this could be a good solution.My question was why calling it a civil union would be better to avoid confusion with religious marriages. The word "marriage" is for some reason claimed by religion. Why?
Or they could do what we do, separate legal and church wedding ceremonies. Both are called marriage. Church marriage is not legally valid. No church can perform a church wedding ceremony before the couple is legally married in the city hall. No need to change the terminology. A lot of atheists or other non-churchy people are rather attached to their marriage and wouldn't want to trade it for a civil union.I don't know why, but in the US, religious person seems to confuse religious marriages and "civil" marriages. If changing how we name it could ease religious people, this could be a good solution.
Well nobody can claim that. However the States could create a contract between two people and call it marriage. Calling it "civil union" would be better to avoid confusion with religious' ones.
I don't understand the semantics game. Were marriages (not civil unions) through history always religious rather than legal contracts? Can only believers claim the term marriage?
I am so bad with kids it's ridiculous and they actually freak me out, holding an infant is terrifying and I have yet to ever do it. And I am horribly absent minded, I lose my keys multiple times a day so I would be one of those people that forgot their kid in the car when they went somewhere. Kids are my Kryptonite.
Civil unions are possible now from a lawyer. They are called contracts.
I don't know why, but in the US, religious person seems to confuse religious marriages and "civil" marriages. If changing how we name it could ease religious people, this could be a good solution.
Or they could do what we do, separate legal and church wedding ceremonies. Both are called marriage. Church marriage is not legally valid. No church can perform a church wedding ceremony before the couple is legally married in the city hall. No need to change the terminology. A lot of atheists or other non-churchy people are rather attached to their marriage and wouldn't want to trade it for a civil union.
Some christians make it appear that something is taken away from them if gays are allowed to get married (which always brings Matthew 20:1-16 to mind), which I don't understand. But by calling non-church marriage a civil union, it's taking something away from non-religious married people.
The white dress is not a christian invention though (nor is the tux). It didn't come into fashion until the British Queen Victoria wore it.Why does the atheist bride get married in white and the atheist groom wears a tux? They like the look. They see others (often Christians) doing that and want a piece of the show. They might even get married in some church because they like stained glass... The fact is I would consider them married because GOD considers them so. GOD does not bless homosexual marriage. It is a mock of the application. Husband/husband, wife/wife simply is looked on by GOD as debauchery ----- see Galatians chapter 5
I'm glad that you at least consider married atheists married - we had a thread in the women's forum where several ladies said that it is only a marriage when it is between christians.
That is substantially how it works in the States. A religious official has the statutory authority to validate a marriage - that is, complete the process - but the marriage license must be obtained from the state beforehand.Or they could do what we do, separate legal and church wedding ceremonies. Both are called marriage. Church marriage is not legally valid. No church can perform a church wedding ceremony before the couple is legally married in the city hall. No need to change the terminology. A lot of atheists or other non-churchy people are rather attached to their marriage and wouldn't want to trade it for a civil union.
The simplest solution - and calling it simple almost seems like an insult to elementary education - is to call the state-issued contract a civil union. That eliminates all marriage-redefinition whining in one shot.Some christians make it appear that something is taken away from them if gays are allowed to get married (which always brings Matthew 20:1-16 to mind), which I don't understand. But by calling non-church marriage a civil union, it's taking something away from non-religious married people.
The only difference then seems to be that over here, priests (etc.) have no legal authority whatsoever.That is substantially how it works in the States. A religious official has the statutory authority to validate a marriage - that is, complete the process - but the marriage license must be obtained from the state beforehand.
What was marriage called before it became a church thing?The simplest solution - and calling it simple almost seems like an insult to elementary education - is to call the state-issued contract a civil union. That eliminates all marriage-redefinition whining in one shot.
It also has the secondary purpose of exposing as fundamentally religious any ensuing complaints that the state contract ought to be called marriage. Those who openly petition the state to use specific language would be transparently pandering for a religious agenda.
Oh, it appears I'm not the only one then.I usually agree with you Teddy, but I'm not sure I agree with you on this one. Marriage is not just a religious institution, and it hasn't been for decades. In common parlance, a couple who have a cicvil union are said to be married -- and as a gay person, I would want equal rights.