I Sinned But Dont Feel Bad - So Confused

[Krysta]

When I was 14 I moved from Poland to England and on my last night I slept with my boyfriend because I knew we might not see each other again I know this is wrong but I dont regret it whats wrong with me

Its been troubling me ever since.

 

[Jayangel81]

Hi and welcome to Christianforums

My sisters have this problem as well, they have fornication and they say "in my heart i dont feel its wrong"

why do they feel this way?

I hate to say this but it is because theyre hearts are hardened.

Repent for what you have done and ask God for forgivness

 

[Johnnz]

That's understandable enough. God knows where you are at. Don't let that one experience sidetrack your ongoing relationship with Jesus. Jesus has put it into the past,
so you do that too.

John
NZ

 

[jadebullet]

You do not feel bad because you are forgiven. There is nothing wrong with you. I wouldnt let it bother you. Just remember that the one main thing about Christianity is LOVE.

 

[Saucy]

You slept with him, knowing you would never see him again...sex is something you should save for the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with. So you're not bothered by the fact you did it...you're bothered that you're not bothered about it?

A good piece of advice I can give you is to move away from what you did in the past. God isn't concerned with our pasts like people are. God is concerned with our futures. Consider yourself lucky that your sin doesn't eat away at you to the point of madness because you just dwell on the guilt of it. So many people in their lives live in the past and are so guilt-ridden because of what they've gone. So this is a gift. So dwell on what you did. If you know it's wrong, then learn and grow from it and save yourself for marriage.

 

[Kalashnikova47]

I have the same problem girl, i don't feel guilty for touching yourself or for cussing anymore, (i know i should tho), anyone know if the conscience comes back after you quit commiting the sins...or if you never get it back?

Thanks!

I say, just don't beat yourself up for it, that NEVER improves the situation at ALL! I hope you find comfort.

 

[Johnnz]

Sometimes that happens. I reckon its because God fully understands why we did something, and that we have moved on from there anyway, so he is just not too bothered about it right now. Just get on with living with God in the present, and enjoying Him.

John
NZ

 

[BigV]

When I was 14 I moved from Poland to England and on my last night I slept with my boyfriend because I knew we might not see each other again I know this is wrong but I dont regret it whats wrong with me

Its been troubling me ever since.

Feelings are the most shallow of our emotions. If feelings were the right indicator of our fellowship with God, then we would not need the Bible, for we could just follow our feelings.

Notice, I said 'fellowship', not 'relationship'.

We became God's children when we trusted that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. And this relationship is based on faith ALONE, not our works.

We have fellowship with God when we DO what His Word says we should do.

However, judging by your post, you are upset about your sin. You asked 'what's wrong with me' rather than 'how do I repent of this sin', but your question shows that SOMETHING is bothering you.