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What is wrong with me? I am ashamed. I know that I have PCOS, but I can no longer use it as an excuse. I have troubles with consuming foods for just meals and snacks. I have diabetes and I am hungry all the time. I really have no clue what is going on with me. I want to change that. I need to lose weight and I am so scared. I fear that I will never lose weight. Having PCOS is difficult enough, but how do I control my hormonal issues? I have no idea. This is want to have, but the reality is I do not have this. I tend to overeat a lot. I am worried that I won't be honest. I will never lose the weight as it is. Getting rid of trigger foods or at least limiting them will help. How will I do that? This is stressing me out.
 

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What is wrong with me? I am ashamed. I know that I have PCOS, but I can no longer use it as an excuse. I have troubles with consuming foods for just meals and snacks. I have diabetes and I am hungry all the time. I really have no clue what is going on with me. I want to change that. I need to lose weight and I am so scared. I fear that I will never lose weight. Having PCOS is difficult enough, but how do I control my hormonal issues? I have no idea. This is want to have, but the reality is I do not have this. I tend to overeat a lot. I am worried that I won't be honest. I will never lose the weight as it is. Getting rid of trigger foods or at least limiting them will help. How will I do that? This is stressing me out.

First piece of advice; what recommendations has your doctor given you?

PCOS is a challenge to deal with, but it can be controlled with the right lifestyle.
 
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It is very difficult to "over eat", or "consume too many calories" on a low fat, plant based diet.

Here is a short interview with Dr. Ellsworth Wareham...keep in mind that he didn't become a vegan until he was 50 years old.

I say that to be an encouragement, you can make big changes at any stage in your life...

and years from now you just may be saying...I made that change 50 years ago, and I sure am glad I did!


Be blessed, :rolleyes:
 
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It is very difficult to "over eat", or "consume too many calories" on a low fat, plant based diet.

Here is a short interview with Dr. Ellsworth Wareham...keep in mind that he didn't become a vegan until he was 50 years old.

I say that to be an encouragement, you can make big changes at any stage in your life...

and years from now you just may be saying...I made that change 50 years ago, and I sure am glad I did!


Be blessed, :rolleyes:

Sure, it is difficult to overeat on that diet.

The real difficulty is, sticking to that diet.
 
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It's really not as difficult as some might think. Realize that it's not only fruits and veggies that make up the diet. Starches, too, are plant based. So that would include potatoes, corn, rice,wheat, barley, oats, beans, and even popcorn... it can really be a satisfying and delicious diet. :rolleyes:...I promise

 
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What is wrong with me? I am ashamed. I know that I have PCOS, but I can no longer use it as an excuse. I have troubles with consuming foods for just meals and snacks. I have diabetes and I am hungry all the time. I really have no clue what is going on with me. I want to change that. I need to lose weight and I am so scared. I fear that I will never lose weight. Having PCOS is difficult enough, but how do I control my hormonal issues? I have no idea. This is want to have, but the reality is I do not have this. I tend to overeat a lot. I am worried that I won't be honest. I will never lose the weight as it is. Getting rid of trigger foods or at least limiting them will help. How will I do that? This is stressing me out.

Getting rid of food triggers: When I worked in a group home for drug addicts and alcholics, when they would go on weekend passes away from the program, we would first have them develop what we called a safety plan. This way they would leave the facility and go out into the world that would most definitely trigger them to want to us, but they would have with them written down exactly what they would do when tempted. This can apply to your triggers. Your safety may be that you call someone or do something positive that will get you away from and your mind away from the deception that eating more than you really want to is the solution to anything. Writing down your plan is key. You can even write it down in multiple places, and post it in places in your home, car or work where you tend to get tempted. And keep it with you. So do write it down. It solidifies the commitment to healthful behavior that you have made in your mind.

As for weight loss in general an increase in fiber will help you in many ways. Fiber fills you up and helps balance the hunger hormone. Alternately, low fiber can confuse your hunger hormone and cause you to eat when you don't need to. You can supplement your fiber with fibers like psyllium husks, glucomannon, or a new fiber called PGX. Using these must be accompanied by a whole foods diet and a reasonable number of calories. These fibers can be baked into anything from whole grain pancakes to whole grain pizza dough. Or you can mix it with water and drink it before every meal and snack. This will fill you up and slow your digestion, which will help balance your blood sugar and hunger hormone. And some research even shows that fiber keeps you from absorbing all the calories consumed. It also helps prevent cancer and produces anti-aging effects. Increasing fiber is a win-win for everyone.

So suppelement as noted above.

Get rid of all white flour, white sugar and white rice products. Replace them with whole grains.

Use stevia all you want to sweeten things, and raw honey in moderation.

Make sure you eat lots of veggies and some fruit too.

Lean meats, like antbiotic/hormone-free chicken and turkey, fish, omega 3 or cage free eggs, and Brown Rice, Pea, and Goat milk protein are great.

Keep an eye on calories: This is free and will count them for you:
www.livestrong.com/myplate

Exercise moderately: Leslie Sansone's Walk Indoors workouts are great and virtually anyone can do them. Start with a shorter time and work up to more. Here are some free videos:
http://www.bing.com/search?q=leslie...=-1&sk=&cvid=bc6067738e7544fd877a7d40d1af5433

If you need help with the whole foods part of this, let me know and I'll help.

Prayers for you,
a
 
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What is wrong with me? I am ashamed. I know that I have PCOS, but I can no longer use it as an excuse. I have troubles with consuming foods for just meals and snacks. I have diabetes and I am hungry all the time. I really have no clue what is going on with me. I want to change that. I need to lose weight and I am so scared. I fear that I will never lose weight. Having PCOS is difficult enough, but how do I control my hormonal issues? I have no idea. This is want to have, but the reality is I do not have this. I tend to overeat a lot. I am worried that I won't be honest. I will never lose the weight as it is. Getting rid of trigger foods or at least limiting them will help. How will I do that? This is stressing me out.

I've been on a holistic health journey for many years, so speak from experience and studies. The real culprit is sugar, which is in many foods. There are other things like corn syrup. The chemicals and sugar create a chemical reaction in the body that makes one crave the wrong thing. I know because I used to be a junk food junkie and drank diet sodas. You end up with candida and things in the intestinal track that crave sugar, so not only is there a chemical reaction, there are micro-organisms that crave it as well. Have you ever baked bread and seen what happens if you put a little honey or sugar in the yeast? They go crazy with a feeding frenzy. All these things translate into a person wanting to eat more, even if they just finished a meal. The question is...how to convert from sugar. Let me say first that at this point, I find the longer I am away from sugary things, the less they appeal. I really don't struggle with craving sugar anymore, and the few times I eat something that might be less than the best, I find it very unsatisfying and it reminds me why I changed my eating habits. I no longer drink diet sodas either. Try eating apples. Peel them first if they are not organic. Eat one before meals. Most any one who talks about health foods will get back to fruits and vegetables. They are your friends. Personally, I take good supplements as well, because I believe that even if someone eats a good diet, by taking a good supplement your body does not crave whatever trace "something" might be missing. Good health is a lifestyle, but once you are on the health pathway and feel better, you won't want to go back.
 
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It's really not as difficult as some might think. Realize that it's not only fruits and veggies that make up the diet. Starches, too, are plant based. So that would include potatoes, corn, rice,wheat, barley, oats, beans, and even popcorn... it can really be a satisfying and delicious diet. :rolleyes:...I promise


It has been well established, the main reason major diet alterations fail long term, is because people eventually go back to eating close to what they used to eat.
 
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I've been on a holistic health journey for many years, so speak from experience and studies. The real culprit is sugar, which is in many foods. There are other things like corn syrup. The chemicals and sugar create a chemical reaction in the body that makes one crave the wrong thing. I know because I used to be a junk food junkie and drank diet sodas. You end up with candida and things in the intestinal track that crave sugar, so not only is there a chemical reaction, there are micro-organisms that crave it as well. Have you ever baked bread and seen what happens if you put a little honey or sugar in the yeast? They go crazy with a feeding frenzy. All these things translate into a person wanting to eat more, even if they just finished a meal. The question is...how to convert from sugar. Let me say first that at this point, I find the longer I am away from sugary things, the less they appeal. I really don't struggle with craving sugar anymore, and the few times I eat something that might be less than the best, I find it very unsatisfying and it reminds me why I changed my eating habits. I no longer drink diet sodas either. Try eating apples. Peel them first if they are not organic. Eat one before meals. Most any one who talks about health foods will get back to fruits and vegetables. They are your friends. Personally, I take good supplements as well, because I believe that even if someone eats a good diet, by taking a good supplement your body does not crave whatever trace "something" might be missing. Good health is a lifestyle, but once you are on the health pathway and feel better, you won't want to go back.

Sugar is indeed bad and it is especially bad, if a person is sedentary and may have insulin sensitivity issues.

Consuming sugar releases insulin, which sucks the sugar out of the blood to either be stored as glycogen in the muscles and liver, or any excess which is not required as glycogen, gets stored as fat. Furthermore, when the blood sugar drops, you want to eat more sugar to get it back up again.

This is why exercise is so crucial; it improves insulin sensitivity and increases the bodies capability to store carbohydrates as glycogen, instead of fat.
 
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No PCOS is not an excuse...it's a REASON. You say your main goal is to lose weight but I highly encourage you not to worry about that at this point as your adventure may be futile until you deal appropriately with it. It should be encouraging to hear PCOS and diabetes and weight gain go hand and hand as they are hormonal issues.
PCOS- I am a huge advocate for natural progesterone as a starting point for all female hormone issues and hypometabolic states since estrogen dominance is often the culprit. NP will check estrogen as well as encouraging efficient metabolism. Often women are deficient in vitamin A and thyroid which inhibit natural sysnthesis of progesterone. NP is safe and non toxic even at high doses and you can get it at ARK of wellness.
DIABETES- Diabetes usually occurs when a hypometabolic state meets iron, polyunsaturated fats and estrogen. In addition to the above advice, adequate potassium is necessary for carbohydrate metabolism. In fact, potassium has more insulin-like effects than insulin itself making it essential. About 5000mg through foods, preferably, and supp if necessary.

Other safe and effective supplements are low dose E, aspirin and hi dose niacinamide.
 
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