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Well, apart from the theology of the debate, off topic, I do feel like it's kind of rude for these guys to burst in on your house and get into it with you.
I agree,you believe what you believe in,and no one should tell you differently
 
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My encounters with the COC was what prompted my own personal study of the scriptures.

I wanted to KNOW what the scriptures said ... and what they didn't. I was no longer satisfied with partial (or taught) knowledge.
 
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I have never thought of the fact of God walking alone through the covenant of animal parts. This is good stuff and I will certainly show them this. Thank you very much
 
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Your theology is sound.

Remember, ... Jesus was also called a heretic ...
 
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My encounters with the COC was what prompted my own personal study of the scriptures.

I wanted to KNOW what the scriptures said ... and what they didn't. I was no longer satisfied with partial (or taught) knowledge.

Amazing how that works! The enemy tries to shake us up, but God uses these situations to remove from us the things that can be shaken. I'm with you--I want the WHOLE TRUTH!
 
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I wish I were much smarter and could memorize the scriptures like they do, However with all I have had happen in last year, I can barely remember to put on my shoes before I leave home.
I even told them, This is not a good time for me but they insist so I have been meeting with them here out of a loving heart because to be honest, I worry about their salvation.
I plead the Blood of Jesus as my sin atonement and they plead water as their cleansing agent.
 
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You can always plant seeds ... as long as they continue with you.

But, remember that they are working according to a tried and tested process (to proselytize) ... which is quite cult-like in nature.

I later reflected on why they seemed to target believers ... as opposed to those without faith ...
 
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Make note of how stubborn and hard fast in "false" beliefs that these friends seem. The things that are so clear to you seem to completely go over their heads. And then look in the mirror and ask: Am I not the Same in their eyes?

Verily I say unto.....While the religious argue doctrine......the prostitutes and sinners will be entering the kingdom of heaven...

Except we sell all we have and know...we will remain unfit.

Note: we are not allowed to converse/reason with other posters in the forum you posted in.......if we reply to another, we are locked out from the thread....unable to post therein again.
 
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I wish I were much smarter and could memorize the scriptures like they do, However with all I have had happen in last year, I can barely remember to put on my shoes before I leave home.
I even told them, This is not a good time for me ...

Unfortunately for you ... your time of trial is a good time ... for them ...
 
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I agree,you believe what you believe in,and no one should tell you differently
*Nods*. Sometimes we have to agree to disagree and just focus on loving each other. Some differences are irreconcilable, and debating endlessly is fruitless.
Scotty, you raise a good point. You *have* been through a heck of a lot this year. It is ok to simply disengage from this friend. A true friendship does not involve beating you over the head with selected Scripture verses 24/7.
 
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It is stressful and confusing and God is not the Author of confusion

The devil is the author of confusion. He is thrilled that those seeking God are twisted into knots over doctrinal difference. Don't let him have the victory. Find your points of agreement and leave it there.

“For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit.” 1 Peter 3:18 (NIV)
 
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That is a great point that I had not considered hmmmm
 
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See this is what bothers me about the whole situation. Its one thing for friends to have a friendly banter but considering the year you’ve had IMO I feel its inappropriate to bring in a heavy hitter and ultimately be called a heretic. I think you should put an end to the three way discussion and tell your friend exactly how you feel about it. If he loves you as much as you love him he will understand.
 
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I have a dear friend
they have came here three times
Thanks guys.

@Southernscotty

since he's a dear friend, ask him to please not bring his Dr friend over with him next time he visits

we have to look after ourselves, also not just others
 
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Well; I responded with the God walked through the animal pieces alone and that was a covenant with Abraham. I sent it through text. Lol He said yes, But Abraham had to prepare the animals
I tried
 
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Thanks guys, I know my friend just cres and is trying to help. I will have to shut it down soon though because it is really hard on me.
What bothers me is that I am not able to answer their questions as I would like and this really concerns me. It is causing me to take a look at scripture much deeper than ever before.
 
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What you might do is take a historical approach with them. Remind them of their Protestant origins, and from there you might have a platform to go into the Protestant Reformers views, and if they reject them, remind them of how they reject the grounds upon which they stand. You could even go back further to an ECF like Augustine, and provide some quotes on grace. They cannot claim Sola Scriptura without at the same time depend on historical theology. Press them on their Scriptural presuppositions as contrasted with what the Scriptures plainly state. Sorry to hear about the situation brother Scott, what they're doing is not right, in the privacy of your home. I would have them bounced right out of the door! Bein' honest.
 
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What bothers me is that I am not able to answer their questions as I would like and this really concerns me. It is causing me to take a look at scripture much deeper than ever before.

can understand that

my neighbor friend is a Pastor's wife and obviously am never going to seem like I know anything at all next to her but I accept it as am not married to a Pastor

"we" as in anyone, don't have to compete with others but can let others inspire us to learn more
 
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