Dear alternap18. We learn wisdom as we grow older, and often it can be taught us. Don`t ever think that God prevents you from learning, wisdom can be from learning, but we can also be born with it. Everybody who uses his, or her brain, to help in all sorts of difficult situations, is wise in getting to grips with life. If you fail in some exames, it could be that you will be better/wiser in some other situation/examen. Use your Godgiven talent to find out what you are good at. Maybe working with hands? or helping in any other way? Ask yourself: what do I like doing? what makes me happy? do I like to help finding certain cures for helping people or animals? Once you know what you like best, you will be able to find helpers. Ask God to lead you, and watch for opportunities. We all have a God-given talent, may it be small or not so small, alternap, find it and you will be well on the way to wisdom. I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, sister in Christ.