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On occasions when I am having intercourse with my husband, my earthly father's image comes to my mind. I've had some issues in the past with this. When the fleeting image of his face passes by, I always picture him looking disappointed. Could this be purely guilt related due to my having lost my virginity to my husband BEFORE marriage? My earthly father is a very religious man and has turned my family on to a better path. So is this merely guilt and what should I do about it?

If anyone could lend their thoughts or support I would be eternally grateful. Thank you.

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not really a sin, for some reason when you and your husband are having intercourse that image comes to your head. now one thing I can tell you that as sex is a wonderful thing created by God . in a way the thoughts could be tied to our father in heaven. it would be very possible. The father and the son love you very much. so who knows. only if you are thinking of another man during sex is it a sin.
 
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