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i have been going through some rough times, i have used every drop of my faith to get me through it, and it keeps getting worse, now i feel likeim starting too lose faith! whats happening? i know i shouldn't feel like gods not helping me, but it feels like my faith is slipping away and i dont know what to do. and i know got to church...
 

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Hey Qu3tip_24

Don't give up my friend. The Lord will get you through this. Remember, He always finishes the good work He starts in us. Your faith can never really be lost - it's the enemies lies that try to convince you otherwise. Don't fight this alone - try to join a cell group. That way, you'll have the support you need. It's a terrible thing for a Christian to struggle, all alone.
 
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Hi Q , and welcome ,

All of us who believe have our faith tried . In order for our faith to be purified . Which is to say that belief is often mixed with other things , such as doubt , presumption , pride ... or our faith is partly in something or someone other than Christ + God , like our works , our position , or affiliations . When trials come it can be harder to believe , and easy to question our beliefs . When John Baptist was in prison about to have his head chopped off , he began to wonder what was going on ? And sent messengers to Jesus asking if He was really The Saviour or not ? ( Because if Jesus was his Saviour , what was he doing being stuck in prison ? ) But Jesus sent word to John of how The Power of God was healing and delivering people through His Ministry , in essence telling him that He Is Indeed The Christ , and this quieted John's concerns . And what really stands out in this , is that even when John was unsure of what was going on because of his fiery trial , he still knew Who to look to for the answer .

It's seems we all have times when we are having a rough go of things , and such can give us cause to wonder and wrestle with doubt . But even then , in the midst of our doubting , deep down we still know Who it is that we need to seek for help . For once we've accepted Christ as The One & Only Saviour of the world ... there's no one else can even come close to taking His Place !

Cry out upon The Holy Name of Jesus , seeking His Mercy , Grace , and Truth .

And look to His Word for confirmation . Pray His Spirit Guide and Revive . Cast away any known hindrances , and God's Peace will confirm + comfort your soul .

Then said Jesus unto the twelve, Will ye also go away?
Then Simon Peter answered him, Lord, to whom shall we go? thou hast the words of eternal life.
<-----> John 6:67+68

...We preach Christ crucified, unto the Jews a stumblingblock, and unto the Greeks foolishness;
But unto them which are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God, and the wisdom of God.
<-----> 1st Corinthians 1:23+24

For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. <-----> Romans 10:13

For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.
<-----> Hebrews 4:15+16

Wherefore he is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him, seeing he ever lives to make intercession for them. <-----> Hebrews 7:25

May The Lord Be Pleased to Bless !

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i have been going through some rough times, i have used every drop of my faith to get me through it, and it keeps getting worse, now i feel likeim starting too lose faith! whats happening? i know i shouldn't feel like gods not helping me, but it feels like my faith is slipping away and i dont know what to do. and i know got to church...
Faith is strengthened by God's word, which you need to turn to often:

A Wonderful Burden

1. An acceptance in the Beloved which can never be questioned. (Eph. 1:6)
2. A bounty which can never be withdrawn. (1 Cor. 3:21-23)
3. A deliverance which can never be excelled. (2 Cor. 1:10)
4. A grace which can never be limited. (2 Cor. 12:9)
5. A hope which can never be disappointed. (Hebrews 6:18-19)
6. An inheritance which can never be lost. (1 Peter 1:3-5)
7. A joy which need never be diminished. (John 15:11)
8. A kingdom which can never be overturned. (Hebrews 12:28)
9. A nearness to God which can never be reversed. (Eph. 2:13)
10. A peace which can never be disturbed. (John 14:27)
11. A righteousness which can never be tarnished. (2 Cor. 5:21)
12. A salvation which can never be cancelled. (Hebrews 5:9)

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Faith comes from hearing/reading. Keep reading the Word. You are probably under spiritual attack. Keep talking to God in your thoughts. Keep praising Him for His faithfullness (Because He always Is, no matter how it might seem at the time. Later you will learn that He was). Keep asking for help and wait.

Ps 37:5-7 Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this:
6 He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.
7 Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him;


PSA 55:22 Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall.

The feelings of hopelessness and failure are temporary. They will go away once the battle ends. Just wait.

1CO 1:8 He will keep you strong to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.
9 God, who has called you into fellowship with his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful.


Stand lyrics

You feel like a candle in a hurricane
Just like a picture with a broken frame
Alone and helpless
Like you've lost your fight
But you'll be alright, you'll be alright

[Chorus:]
Cause when push comes to shove
You taste what you're made of
You might bend, till you break
Cause its all you can take
On your knees you look up
Decide you've had enough
You get mad you get strong
Wipe your hands shake it off
Then you Stand, Then you stand

Life's like a novel
With the end ripped out
The edge of a canyon
With only one way down
Take what you're given before its gone
Start holding on, keep holding on

[Repeat Chorus]
Ooohhh
Then you stand yeahhh

Everytime you get up
And get back in the race
One more small piece of you
Starts to fall into place
Ooohhh

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Stand lyrics (2nd)

What do you do
when you've done all you can
And it seems like it's never enough?
And what do you say
when your friends turn away,
you're all alone?
Tell me, what do you give
When you've given your all,
and seems like
you can't make it through?

Stand and be sure
Be not entangled in that bondage again
You just stand, and be sure.
God has a purpose.
Yes, God has a plan.

Tell me what do you do
when you've done all you can
And it seems like you can't make it through
Child you just stand
You just stand
Stand
Don't you give up
Through the storm , through the rain
Through the hurt , through the pain

[Chorus]
Well, you just stand
When there's nothing left to do
You just stand
Watch the Lord see you through
Yes, after you've done all you can
You just stand

Don't you bow, don't bend
Don't give up, don't give in
Hold on, just be strong
God will step in and it won't be long
VERSE
Tell me,
how do you handle the guilt of your past?
Tell me, how do you deal with the shame?
And how can you smile
when your heart is broken
and filled with pain?
Tell me what do you give
when you've given your all
Seems like you can't make it through?

After you've done all you can
After you've gone through the hurt
After you've gone through the pain
After you've gone through the storm
After you've gone through the rain
Prayed and cried,you've prayed and cried
Prayed and cried, prayed and cried
After you've done all you can, you just stand.

Child you just stand,
when there's nothing left to do
You just stand
Watch the Lord see you through
Yes, after you've done all you can
You just stand.
 
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i have been going through some rough times, i have used every drop of my faith to get me through it, and it keeps getting worse, now i feel likeim starting too lose faith! whats happening? i know i shouldn't feel like gods not helping me, but it feels like my faith is slipping away and i dont know what to do. and i know got to church...

Actually, Scripture, read the New Testament and believe what they are writing as though they are writing and speaking to you personally.

Job might help you in your situation, as well, though it can be difficult to understand.

God believes for you even in your weakest moments. When you are weakest, He is strong.
 
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