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rayzor

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i know i just left a update on my relationship but i have another 1.. .i just found out that she was cheating on me the whole time.. so that is why she said it was ok if we waited.. she was sleeping with my bestfriend.. so i broke up with her.. i am going to consintrate on my christian life...
 
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rayzor said:
:help: I am seeing this girl right now and she wants to go a little bit further then i wanna go... (IF YAW'LL KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING BOUT) but ne way.. I don't know how to tell her that i want to wait till i get married.. i am scared that she won't want to got with me if i tell her no. So what i should i do.. I need help

Simply tell her that you believe that sex should be preserved for marriage. It's not that difficult-I've done it twice myself. Don't worry about whether or not she will go out with you. If she dumps you because you won't have sex then what does that say about her character? And is that the kind of person that you would want to date in the first place?

Honesty is the best policy-and this is especially true in relationships.

Diane
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Now I notice the date of the OP *rolleyes*

rayzor said:
i know i just left a update on my relationship but i have another 1.. .i just found out that she was cheating on me the whole time.. so that is why she said it was ok if we waited.. she was sleeping with my bestfriend.. so i broke up with her.. i am going to consintrate on my christian life...

Who needs enemies with a "best friend" like that? I guess the old adage is true: keep your enemies close, and your "friends" closer.

DW
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