- Jan 12, 2020
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- United States
- Faith
- Catholic
- Marital Status
- In Relationship
so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, we are now 18 & 20. I know he is the man I am going to marry and we are very committed to each other. My parents are very strict catholics who are 1000% against sex before marriage. I completely understand and agree that it should be saved before marriage but they also will not let us get married before I graduate college. By the time they will allow us to get married, we will have been together for 4.5 years, that is a long time to abstain especially being in love with an amazing and super loving person. Would it be crazy to get secretly married in a church, just make a promise to God we will love each other forever? without anyone knowing. any other suggestions?