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I like a girl

1corinthian13

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okay.. after a 2.5 years of disastrous relationship that ended 5 months ago.. i think i like this girl. We've known each other for 4 years already but now for some reason.. chemistry came in.. kinda weird how I fail chemistry class though.

anyways I really need God to guide me about this crush, that He may help us to maintain a good friendship and guide me with what I should do.

I don't think it's good for me to have any relationship right now...and just want to make sure i'm not taking rebounds.. so I would like to be a good friend with this girl and dont know wut the future holds but yeh.. she's an awesome christian and just hope to get to know her even more.

please pray for that..
 

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Loving Father, please bring comfort and peace to 1Cor13 and help him heal from the pain of the relationship that went bad...
please help him with developing a friendship with this Christian woman and guide him so he doesnt rebound.
Please comfort and help him with his work and school. Bless his friendships. Amen.
 
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1corinthian13

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u know wut.. i did something brave yesterday.. i went to check out my ex's foto.. and it used to hurt but now it doesn't hurt as much :) just a tiny bit :))) yay!

thanks for prayers.. and yah about this crush.. ai ya ya (( need to get rid of this feeling!
 
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Father, I ask that You give this man the strength he needs to take things slow with the girl he likes. May Your will be done in this situation. I thank You God that You have been with him helping him get over his ex. I know that he will give his heart to You that you may protect it.

In Jesus Name
Amen
 
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Praying for YOU and Your Special Friend...:prayer:

My Sweetest, Heavenly Loving Father God...
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May Your Heavenly, Loving Will Be Done, According To Your Loving Word And Timing...
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And I claim this very special intention...
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"In The Name Of Jesus Christ!"
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AMEN!
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'Who Made Me.'
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It's challenging, not impossible but challenging. If you've known each other for 4 years then she sees you as just a friend. And it's challenging for a friend to all of sudden start seeing you in a whole new light. I'd be careful with it. It's better to have a long term friend than to try put the moves on her and ruine the friendship. I went through this exact senario recently. I realized it's better to keep "my friend" that to lose her because I'm feeling a bit horny or something. It's probably better for you to just try and find someone new, unless she starts giving you "incredibly clear and obvious signals" that she wants to be more than friends. Like if she asks you out and starts getting fresh with you then ya that's easy to read. But if she's just treating you as a friend, then you got to realize that "your just a friend to her", do you feel me? If you meet someone new they can so much more easily start to see you in the light of relationship material. Anyway, good luck. "Dear lord please help him not to build this crush too strong if it's not obviously meant to be, guide him lord. Amen"
 
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It's challenging, not impossible but challenging. If you've known each other for 4 years then she sees you as just a friend. And it's challenging for a friend to all of sudden start seeing you in a whole new light. I'd be careful with it. It's better to have a long term friend than to try put the moves on her and ruine the friendship. I went through this exact senario recently. I realized it's better to keep "my friend" that to lose her because I'm feeling a bit horny or something. It's probably better for you to just try and find someone new, unless she starts giving you "incredibly clear and obvious signals" that she wants to be more than friends. Like if she asks you out and starts getting fresh with you then ya that's easy to read. But if she's just treating you as a friend, then you got to realize that "your just a friend to her", do you feel me? If you meet someone new they can so much more easily start to see you in the light of relationship material. Anyway, good luck. "Dear lord please help him not to build this crush too strong if it's not obviously meant to be, guide him lord. Amen"



um.. i know that this is a problem, so i dont want to loose the friendship. friendship is more important to me.. however please explain why this would ruin the friendship? i really want to understand.. ive been seeking to understand why this may.

no.. im not feeling horny or things like that... seriously. i mean.. i just realized that i do miss her u know?
nothing is going on still.. and like i said.. im willing to wait and see where God is taking this :) friendship or not, i think His plan is great and just want to walk in it... especially matters with women.. they're so complicated that i believe God can solve this mystery of "women". Therefore, I do trust God in wut He wants on that.
 
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