Also, it is really important that you meet
in person, before you commit to a long-term relationship. And I say that as a tech-savvy person.
There is an important element of "chemistry" that can't be detected in a photo, video, chat room or through emails. Once you "hit it off" in person,
then all of those other things are beneficial.
I remember (as a single person), meeting women/girls that I would end up crushing on that I wouldn't have been interested in, if I just had their photo first. There were others where the reverse was true. I would just
not connect with them no matter how attractive I found them to be. They weren't necessarily
good or
bad people. The chemistry was either there or it wasn't. (I, personally, believe that Aspergers randomly intensifies our pheromonal sensitivity like it does our other senses...)
One caveat, though: an intense pheromonal attraction, alone, doesn't replace their need to pass other simple tests, like loving God, having a compatible life-plan, etc. That is what makes courting such a painful proposition. That you can be so intensely attracted to someone and find out, too late, that they
hate your God. That is why, no matter how compellingly attractive I found her to be, I would not go on a single date (when single) with someone who was not clearly a believer.
Oh, and welcome to Christian Forums...
