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DerSchweik

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Macrina (again),

One of the greatest sermons I've ever heard was given by Richard Rogers at a retreat in Estes Park CO he entitled "Fools for Christ", taken from 1 Cor 4, encouraging us to endure the world for the sake of Christ.

This might also encourage you as Paul speaks to the Corinthians (just past the "We are fools for Christ's sake" verse) concerning their (his and Apollos') experiences on their behalf (emphases mine):

"11To this present hour we are both hungry and thirsty, and are poorly clothed, and are roughly treated, and are homeless;

12and we toil, working with our own hands; when we are reviled, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure; 13when we are slandered, we try to conciliate; we have become as the scum of the world, the dregs of all things, even until now."

You know what? From what I've read of your comments to others - this describes you as well.

Blessing when reviled
Enduring when persecuted
Conciliatory when slandered

...and I would add - sensitive, as in possession of a heart and soul of a child that is His.

You fool for Christ you! :amen:

Again, grace to you, sister.

(It's not often we get to encourage one another with words like "scum," "fools," "dregs" - but that's what we are in the world's eyes! :)
 
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Thank you, DerSchweik. I suppose I should pray for greater foolishness, eh? ^_^


But really, everyone, thanks for the encouraging words. It was a rough day IRL too, so it's nice to have a little boost (big boost!) when I come on here. :)
Well, I don't know about that, ha!

Anyway my pleasure, totally. If you're encouraged, so am I.

In Him,
 
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Macrina, these verses came to mind when I read your OP. We are required to post the truth in love - if we don't, we risk incurring our Father's anger. If we do post the truth and the truth is ignored, we have done what was right! In other words - we are our brother's keeper!

EZE 3:16 At the end of seven days the word of the LORD came to me: [17] "Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; so hear the word I speak and give them warning from me. [18] When I say to a wicked man, `You will surely die,' and you do not warn him or speak out to dissuade him from his evil ways in order to save his life, that wicked man will die for his sin, and I will hold you accountable for his blood. [19] But if you do warn the wicked man and he does not turn from his wickedness or from his evil ways, he will die for his sin; but you will have saved yourself.
EZE 3:20 "Again, when a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, and I put a stumbling block before him, he will die. Since you did not warn him, he will die for his sin. The righteous things he did will not be remembered, and I will hold you accountable for his blood. [21] But if you do warn the righteous man not to sin and he does not sin, he will surely live because he took warning, and you will have saved yourself."
 
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I hate arguing, and I hate conflict. I hate the thought of being unkind to someone else, and I hate it when someone else is unkind to me.

And you know what I really hate? Being judged as a bigoted jerk who just wants to exclude people who aren't like me. I do my sincere best to express things as kindly as I can without sacrificing clarity of my point... but somehow I come out this horrible mean person.

So what I hate is when I express a deep theological conviction in the kindest way possible, yet am painted as hate-filled and elitist.


Hey, don't you feel that way at all, because that's exactly the way those opposed to our beliefs want us to feel. Don't you dare think for a minute you are like that at all... it's just plain false. :hug:
 
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Buck up kiddo!
:hug:

You've got two fronts to work.
-Christians tend to attack other Christians
-Christians tend to attack other Christians even *more* online. That whole "online courage" thang.

Just keep doing what you're doing and you will be blessed on all sides.
:thumbsup:
:angel:
 
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You know, when I'm feeling "pounded" down here (in online forum/chat stuff), I step away and take a time out to REFILL IN THE JOY OF THE LORD.

Imo, this type of ministry can be really brutal. Moreso than just out in real life where people are alot more cordial & less harsh face to face.

It could be that when you reach this point of exhasperation, that you might want to stay out of the debating areas, and just enjoy fellowship & just take good things in that will encourage & uplift you.
 
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You know, when I'm feeling "pounded" down here (in online forum/chat stuff), I step away and take a time out to REFILL IN THE JOY OF THE LORD.

Imo, this type of ministry can be really brutal. Moreso than just out in real life where people are alot more cordial & less harsh face to face.

It could be that when you reach this point of exhasperation, that you might want to stay out of the debating areas, and just enjoy fellowship & just take good things in that will encourage & uplift you.
Or just post lolcats.

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Some days the fine line between happiness and insanity is breached by a pic of a kitty doing something funny.
Seriously!!

Case in point:
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LOLLLLLLLLLLLL

I always love the pictures like this & someone sticks in an empty beer bottle in it's paw & it looks like it's passed out!! ahahhahahaaaaaaa :ebil: ^_^
 
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I hate arguing, and I hate conflict. I hate the thought of being unkind to someone else, and I hate it when someone else is unkind to me.

And you know what I really hate? Being judged as a bigoted jerk who just wants to exclude people who aren't like me. I do my sincere best to express things as kindly as I can without sacrificing clarity of my point... but somehow I come out this horrible mean person.

So what I hate is when I express a deep theological conviction in the kindest way possible, yet am painted as hate-filled and elitist.

I find your posts to be very insightful and refreshing to read.

God bless you. :hug:
 
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